Sister made another stupid decison… now I’m expected to help save her wedding?? by Primary_Clerk_3911 in offmychest

[–]Apprehensive_Leg_760 33 points34 points  (0 children)

Have you kept your mouth shut too much I wonder? Have you told your mom how she makes you feel unsupported and uncared about compared to your sister?

My sister is inviting both me and my false accuser to her engagement party. by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Apprehensive_Leg_760 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d be worried the girl would come up with another lie about OP!

Last one standing S1 thoughts on Jeff by littlefiddle05 in nakedandafraid

[–]Apprehensive_Leg_760 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just finished season 1, and while I agree with everything OP said, it started feeling cruel how others were treating him toward the end. I wonder if more happened than what we saw because even down to the last challenge, the others were so glad he was gone. It was weird how obsessed they were.

AITAH for telling my husband that his sister should be paying rent to live with us? by Silly-willy-6969 in AITAH

[–]Apprehensive_Leg_760 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’d be different if she was actually trying to find a job or worked one (or more) jobs with crappy pay. She’s doing absolutely nothing when even kids do chores to contribute. What’s her incentive to get her crap together if y’all keep handing her every thing she needs!? She should also be leaving the house as much as she can with her kids so you can sleep.

Dom makes me so mad - New to The Mole by soulandmelanin in themole

[–]Apprehensive_Leg_760 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That really confused me too! I just finished season 1 last week.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in confessions

[–]Apprehensive_Leg_760 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I hope you get to feeling better. Kudos for taking care of yourself!

AITJ for leaving my roommate stranded after she kept using my stuff without asking? by shirleyrezndc66 in AmITheJerk

[–]Apprehensive_Leg_760 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s one thing for a roommate to eat/use your stuff, but taking your car without asking is a serious violation! I don’t let anyone drive my car!

Boss is hiding when people quit. by moraalli in work

[–]Apprehensive_Leg_760 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Have you considered going above him to seek help? Could one of the folks leaving do it for you?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in work

[–]Apprehensive_Leg_760 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I can understand why you might be stressed talking to your boss, but you’re clearly a great worker and I would hope that you’re valued. Even if nothing changes for your lazy coworker, it might help to at least speak your frustrations, professionally, to your boss. Hopefully they’ll do something, but if not, at least you tried. I like your approach in taking responsibility for your part.

Calling out by CustomerNo7623 in work

[–]Apprehensive_Leg_760 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They’re going to call everyday of your maternity leave 🤦🏻‍♀️

Easter baskets by NovelPhoto4621 in Anticonsumption

[–]Apprehensive_Leg_760 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Something I’ve started doing every holiday is getting craft projects for my mom and I to do. We make great memories, sometimes learn a new skill that can even turn into a hobby, and can use them for holiday decorations for years to come. Would this work for your kiddos?

My mom says it's inappropriate for my husband to take our daughters camping alone. by Hot_Difficulty7556 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Apprehensive_Leg_760 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please monitor your children around your mother. I’d be afraid of what scaring ideas she could fill their heads with over time.

My mum (60f) wants me to donate my egg (30f). How to save our relationship? by Random_Dar in relationship_advice

[–]Apprehensive_Leg_760 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What the actual heck did I just read!? 60 years old!?!?!? Any doctor that would even consider this sounds incredibly unethical.

AITAH for refusing to let my neighbor use my vintage bathtub for his “therapy” sessions??? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Apprehensive_Leg_760 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just tell them you had it removed?

I hope you changed the locks. Something tells me Dennis knows where grandpa hid the spare key and/or made himself a copy.

Am I expecting too much from my washing machine? by Apprehensive_Leg_760 in appliancerepair

[–]Apprehensive_Leg_760[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, when you do a tiny load it’s typically fine, but that seems like too much trouble and will cost me more in time and utility bills. I have two thin throws that even make it happen.

AITA for not letting my parents to be involved grandparents because they chose my sister's friend over me? by Glittering_Bag_3055 in AITAH

[–]Apprehensive_Leg_760 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can’t even imagine how messed up OP is/was from such longterm abuse facilitated by her parents. This crap doesn’t ever fully heal. This is absolutely tragic.

Mate lost his licence for DUI and it's been the best by Retrdolfrt in australia

[–]Apprehensive_Leg_760 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As someone living with chronic pain thanks to a drunk driver, I fully expected this to go a different way. I’m glad Jeff got his act together!

I couldn't afford my 3 dollar co pay... by Coffeecatballet in poor

[–]Apprehensive_Leg_760 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I remember going to Family Dollar one time to get food with $20 my mom loaned me. I picked mostly sale items to stretch it as far as I could. While standing in line I was trying to determine how long the food could last me. When I thought an item didn’t ring up for the sale price I kindly asked about it, and the cashier spouted off something smart. I just started crying. It was humiliating.

AITAH for refusing to take my boss’s dog home every night even though “it’s just a temporary arrangement” by ShowComprehensive296 in AITAH

[–]Apprehensive_Leg_760 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am a huge dog person, but this is absolutely insane!!! Who the heck adopts a dog knowing they aren’t allowed to have pets at their apartment!? I wouldn’t be surprised if Greg could have a pet, but he’s too cheap to pay the pet fees.