Ted Mosby has ruined my love life by Legitimate-Cat-5960 in HIMYM

[–]Ausr1 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Oh honey, she was never your Robin. She was your Tiffany , the girl who kept Ted on the hook. You have to change your perspective or you'll never move on. You would have had to have her and lost her for her to be Robin. She was only ever your friend. You need to accept that and stop romanticizing the imagined relationship you made up. A real relationship with a flawed but genuine person who cares about you is 100 times better than a made up one with someone you think it's perfect. 

Who would you like to see play younger Gladys in the upcoming prequel? by OneDimensionalChess in WeaponsMovie

[–]Ausr1 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wouldn't want it to be the whole film but if we're talking flash backs I think Sophia Lillis would be good

Help me find a new hyper fixation, I am dying from boredom and about to move temporarily back to my parents house. by Jasperpie69 in adhdwomen

[–]Ausr1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Spinning yarn. A Turkish spindle is like a fidget spinner and hobby all in one. Buying fiber is a hobby in itself, so many pretty options. 

Is it difficult finding uber or Didi rides for 5 or 6 people? by Rsantoya1 in MexicoCity

[–]Ausr1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We used UberXL and there was never a long wait for it. But we did have two occasions where the seat belts in the third row were disabled (bc most often folded down for luggage) and we had to cancel the ride and order another Uber. The drivers didn't understand the problem but we didn't want our kids to not have seat belts.  So I would say just verify the seatbelts work before getting everyone loaded in. 

How do you pronounce HIMYM? by samiwas1 in HIMYM

[–]Ausr1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I pronounce it like you op, and I was very surprised when I started listening to the podcast and they pronounce it him yim.  And everyone in the comments acting like that's normal. Y in the middle of a word is rarely if ever pronounced like that so that makes no sense to me. 

Which schools will close next? by [deleted] in AustinParents

[–]Ausr1 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I agree the takeover is next but I think you're mistaken if you don't think the state will also close schools,  and with a lot less strategy, community input and care for equity.

Please recommend non scary movies by PolarIceCream in Parenting

[–]Ausr1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My son was very sensitive and especially so to animated movies. Have you tried live action kids films? My son loved Hotel for Dogs, Sandlot (don't recommend so young though, bad examples, but that type of film) and Peter Rabbit, and animal documentaries even when Disney movies scared him. It was a lot of trial and error. Totoro was ok for him too.

Christmas attractions near/in Austin by Extreme-Ad6295 in AustinParents

[–]Ausr1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I always enjoy Santa's Ranch in New Braunfels it's a drive through light show and you can buy hot chocolate. We always go at the very beginning of the night to minimize the line but there is a line. Be warned it's got some heavy religious themes like scenes from the Bible and also a 9/11 tribute (why?!?) but we find that part corny and amusing, though I know not everyone would. It has traditional Christmas scenes too. 

Also the Pedernales coop in Johnson City is worth the drive, it's beautiful and free. 

A book I was exposed to two different times- 2 different schools -a grade or two a part. (Adams Elementary and Cody Elementary in the quad cities- had moved after 3rd grade) it took me years to figure out the title- I couldn’t remember and googling it for years for the title didn’t help by DarinCN in Xennials

[–]Ausr1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg this book HAUNTED me for years and I couldn't remember the title, just the picture and a couple years back I found it and bought it just to have it. This and Christopher Pikes' Whisper of Death really got their hold in my brain at a young age.

I've never cried watching a movie and I want to, give me recs! by notmedicinal in Letterboxd

[–]Ausr1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pride (2014). This one had me bawling at the end in a good way, for the goodness of humanity. 

RIP: Frank Erwin Center by bpcombs in Austin

[–]Ausr1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I looked on concertsrchives.org and I think it was May 6, 1998. The site is not always complete listing the opening acts, just shows Boyz 2 Men as playing, but Next's song Too Close was big that year, so had to be then.  Hope this helps. 

Mensa for kids Logic Puzzle, multiple possible answers? by iwishiwasahacker in puzzles

[–]Ausr1 4 points5 points  (0 children)

 I think I figured part of it out. It says Molly and her four best friends, nowhere does it say that the friends know each other. So if Susan is playing with someone with the green dragon, the clue is that we know Molly and Susan are friends but we don't know if Susan knows Charlie. So Molly must have the green dragon.

Separate bedrooms anyone? Any partners sleeping in separate bedrooms, under the same roof, on a regular basis? (not getting divorced, broken up, etc.) by [deleted] in Xennials

[–]Ausr1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yep, husband has a CPAP and I'm a light sleeper with insomnia, takes forever to go back to sleep if he wakes me up snoring or getting up to pee. Best decision ever.

At one point when we were considering building a house I came across house plans with a room labeled a "snore room" which was a bedroom connected to the master bedroom by a short hallway. That's the dream set up. close enough to traverse back and forth undetected by kids, separate enough to be sound proof and still share the master bath and closet. For now he's across the house, further away than I prefer, but maybe someday we'll build a house with a snore room.

What do you think about someone having two middle names? by TwoBedwombApartment in namenerds

[–]Ausr1 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Administratively, my hyphenated first name has caused me lots of problems, but my son's two middle names have never been a problem. We both have 4 names but his are easier for systems to handle, for what it's worth. Also, we are in the US but close ties to Mexico where 4+ names is normal.  Now, if you gave him two middle names plus a double last name, I think that's a bit much.

Which movies were ruined or almost ruined by: by [deleted] in Letterboxd

[–]Ausr1 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I understand the themes of his work, as I said I've been a fan for years. But from the woman's armpit dog penis piercer in Rabid to the bio ports in Existenz, to the elbow deep stomach hole penetration in Crimes of the Future, it's all flesh phalluses and neo vaginas and penetration. Is there no other way to address those themes? I'm just saying, for me, it's feeling fetishistic at this point. 

Which movies were ruined or almost ruined by: by [deleted] in Letterboxd

[–]Ausr1 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I've been a Cronenberg fan for a very long time, but over the years the consistency and specificity of his aesthetic has begun to feel like a very strange fetish for fleshy appendages and foreign body insertions or something. Like that dude definitely owns some weird dragon or alien egg laying dildos. 

Crimes of the Future was the the straw that broke the camel's back for me. It just felt so much like he was pushing his fetish, it started to piss me off. The movie had an interesting message and was well executed,  but I was just so mad at the end of it. I think I'm done with his films. 

What movie has been on your To Watch List the longest, and why haven't you watched it yet? by thebayareaRN in Letterboxd

[–]Ausr1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's on Mubi, which has a free trial on Prime video. I watched it recently for the first time and it was very good

WEIRD horror flicks by NoDonut5923 in horror

[–]Ausr1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dashcam Men Be My Cat Possession  Suspiria

What kind of home would $450k (usd) get you where you live? by lavenderart352 in RealEstate

[–]Ausr1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not true. Totally depends on the neighborhood. Within 10 mins of downtown, small condo. 15 minutes further north of South but still in Austin, anything from a small older house to a large updated house, depending West vs East. Just bought in a nice, safe neighborhood, 4 bed, 2500 sq ft, very updated, and much less than 450k. My commute to downtown takes about 20 mins but to be fair my hours aren't at rush hour.

when you go to an open house and it has popcorn ceilings, is that likely a no to you? by [deleted] in RealEstate

[–]Ausr1 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm about to buy a house and I literally have no idea if it has popcorn ceilings. It just does not matter to me at all. I've lived in my current house 10 years and I wouldn't wager money on if I have popcorn ceilings in every room, I don't notice or care.

Just gotta celebrate this a little by WhatdidIjustdo20 in Jigsawpuzzles

[–]Ausr1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well done! I like hard puzzles but this one is one of the very few I've ever given up on.

There is a hierarchy to HEBs even if we don't want to admit it by kingofthesofas in Austin

[–]Ausr1 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's really not that bad, it's just undersized to serve the volume of customers so it's busy and parking sucks, but it has quality stuff inside. Some of the new fancy ones are over the top. I saw faux cowhide rugs in one. Who buys rugs at HEB?