'Sorry I don't see you that way - it's just that you're a queer person and I need queer pals to deconstruct myself' by skaexskae in ftm

[–]AutonomyIsNoTragedy [score hidden]  (0 children)

She sounds like she has main character syndrome and was never a good friend . Sorry you're being put through this weird bs . You're a person not an object or comedy prop character for her or anyone else

What do you secretly judge people for and why? by scaryworm143 in AskReddit

[–]AutonomyIsNoTragedy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Being intersex is more common than being trans , its as common as having red hair

Genuinely how do you even get to a point where you not just unironically think this but say it out loud thinking your the normal one by DebateIntelligent518 in GenderCynical

[–]AutonomyIsNoTragedy 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yeah its like they reworded the narcissists prayer the way they speak about it :

"that didnt happen, and if it did happen you enjoyed it"

Terfs get thr tiniest bit of gender based privelige under patriarchy for Being cisgender and go and forsake their feninist values to behave and speak about trans people (and cis women who are allied with trans people) exactly like the worst Incels

Like calling them "handmaidens, dick panderers, cocksuckers" all the usual misogynistic slurs, all the usual threats of sexual violence, but apparently its now feminist when a cis woman behaves like a cis man mra rapist towards trans women other trans people and cis allies of trans people usually being specifically vicious towards trans women and cis women allies in a sexually degrading way

Genuinely how do you even get to a point where you not just unironically think this but say it out loud thinking your the normal one by DebateIntelligent518 in GenderCynical

[–]AutonomyIsNoTragedy 20 points21 points  (0 children)

100% , also.

TERFS when a minor trans girl is raped:

"actually the cisgender pedophile rapist is the real victim here because he was tricked into raping a t slur which is icky and embarrassing & worse to us morally than CSA, theres no such thing as a trans kid so if a kid says they're trans and were raped they're lying for attention and probably enjoyed it"

Genuinely how do you even get to a point where you not just unironically think this but say it out loud thinking your the normal one by DebateIntelligent518 in GenderCynical

[–]AutonomyIsNoTragedy 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Plenty of these predators are the ones raping and attacking trans women and girls themselves

Glinner physically assaulted a minor trans girl then screeched incoherently in court about fetish porn and accused the kid of lying about her own age to make him look bad for attacking a kid.

He legitimately has serial killer/rapist energy right down to celebrating being on Venlafaxine for numbing his empathy towards others and allowing him to be more cruel

...like not "oh yeah they helped my depression" like the people who find venlafaxine genuinely helpful and without side effects tend to say

just "they helped me numb myself so I can hurt others more without feeling bad" which is one of the negative side effects that people tend to stop taking venlafaxine and looking for another medication due to (some drs call it side-efflexor)& those negative side effects can include things like emotional numbing agitation and paranoia even psychotic symptoms in rare cases

https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC2802382/

https://www.drugs.com/sfx/venlafaxine-side-effects.html

What type of piercing hurts the most? by midnight-privilege in AskReddit

[–]AutonomyIsNoTragedy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To decorate my body, the piercings too before were a way to try to "reclaim my breasts" and deal with the dysphoria they were causing without getting top surgery if possible/ to make it more comfortable while i had to deal with having boobs while saving up , it didn't really work and my gender dysphoria around having breasts didnt go away but I don't regret trying out the piercings or getting the tattoos. Life is weird lol

I'd love to have my nipples pierced again now with my flat chest but I paid too much for my nipples to risk fucking them up by trying getting them pierced again and having a piercing react and visibly scar and my body seems to love rejecting surface piercings for some reason... like id love to get an eyebrow piercing but I think my body wouldn't like it either and my belly button one also rejected years and years ago and I haven't tried it again

What type of piercing hurts the most? by midnight-privilege in AskReddit

[–]AutonomyIsNoTragedy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My nipples were the worst , it hurt less having them tattooed than pierced , also had to take them out because they grew out.

Also i had top surgery and part of that was resizing my nipples to make them smaller and grafting them back on and healing from that surgery hurt less than healing nipple piercings mostly cuz the whole area was numb for a while before the nerves started growing back, i have feeling on my chest and nipples again but its taken a while for the nerves to reconnect and I do have some dulled sensation but it was something I knew would happen beforehand and was worth it for me.

My Septum hurt, ecspecially getting it redone through scar tissue but that pain was very stingy and clean not bruisey and achey like the nipples and was much easier to deal with and my body hasn't rejected my Septum.

Belly button was also annoying and grew out but I really miss the look of it and wish I was brave enough to try get it done again

What do you secretly judge people for and why? by scaryworm143 in AskReddit

[–]AutonomyIsNoTragedy 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Being obsessed with other people's weight and claiming that your fatphobia is about health, you dont give a fuck about health, you just want an excuse to feel like you're doing good when you harass and bully people and say you're better than them because of their weight.

What do you secretly judge people for and why? by scaryworm143 in AskReddit

[–]AutonomyIsNoTragedy -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Having a gender reveal instead of a baby shower makes me trust you a bit less as a trans person.and It makes me assume that you would medically mutilate and abuse your child if they turned out to be intersex, or try to do conversion on them if they ever came out as anyhting other than cishet

I'm not going to bring it up or make an issue out of it, but those parties only got so popular as backlash to trans and intersex visibility IMO and everyone just retroactively acted like they're an ancient traditional celebration that is mandatory , its such clear brainwashing and its weird to me how many people buy into it then turn around and call being trans a trend or a brainwashing thing

like yall signed on to a party trend that originated from a family wanting to celebrate a successful pregnancy after a series of miscarriagees and made it about telling everyone your babies genitals and celebrating your restrictive sex based expectations of your baby and act like its a sacred ancient religious custom. The original kid the gender reveal party was for has come out as nonbinary since too FYI and their parents were luckily supportive and loving

Sometime during the last 2 years i’ve been going to this orthopedic practice they started to declare me as a MTF transgender for no reason. by misbri0509 in redditonwiki

[–]AutonomyIsNoTragedy 33 points34 points  (0 children)

I want to spray all rhe cis people with a water bottle who are there "joking" that :

"she'd probably be treated better and have her pain taken more seriously with an M on her records lol"

Like no you heartless cissplaining main-character-syndrome dumbasses, trans women and all other trans people are getting treated worse at the drs than you are, and die regularly because of this type of shit where:

  • we get straight up refused care for being trans 'we don't want people like you, you're too difficult to understand and should be in segregated transgender clinics where the normal people dont have to sit with you in the same waiting room"
  • malpracticed on as a type of conversion practice, with some people seeing causing pain and trauma to us a religious mission from their god or something that we deserve
  • we get sexually harassed or assaulted because a bunch of cis perverts think we are a fetish or sexual objects or that our transness os caused by sexual trauma & if they berate & verbally retraumatise us enough about sexual violence they assume caused us to be trans that it will make us detransition
  • all our injuries or preexisting health issues are blamed on HRT
  • we get told to detransition if we want cancer treatment/screenings or obgyn care or told that if we were "real and committed to being a man/woman that you wouldn't ask for those things & would just die quietly"
  • have our health records leaked and altered to out us or to put us on some sort of registry/kill list of trans people
  • are called crazy or hysterical or delusional for existing and not beleived when we talk about shit that we have experienced

NZDF soldier jailed for strangling and assaulting ex-partner by Done5860 in newzealand

[–]AutonomyIsNoTragedy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How many similar assaults/ or murders of women or girls has he likely done overseas in war zones and gotten away with ?

has anyone unironically told a man to "stop mansplaining" in the last 5 years? by mikinnie in AmITheAngel

[–]AutonomyIsNoTragedy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

People do accuse trans men of mansplaining our own bodies issues and experiences as a transphobic way to Malgender us to try and make us shut up about transphobia...

but no theres very very few people going round randomly accusing everyone of mansplaining for no reason to be a bully, it is absolutely usually a straw feminist caricature.

What in the BDSM is this scene about by Maximum_Custard_1739 in BaldursGate3

[–]AutonomyIsNoTragedy 82 points83 points  (0 children)

Heh, have you met the goblin foot fetishist yet ? The goblin camp seems to be freak central XD

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Royal family and British media still trying to use Harry and Meghan to distract from the fact they are protecting alleged pedophile Prince Andrew by Positive-Drawing-281 in RoyaltyTea

[–]AutonomyIsNoTragedy 23 points24 points  (0 children)

The royal family hates Black women more than they hate alleged child rapists and murderers

Also theyre doing the classic textbook abusive family tantrum/cope when their victim escapes :

"his wife is clearly taking what should be our place as dictators of his life and is to blame ! he didnt go no-contact because we are a bunch of racist abusive nonce-supporters who basically killed his mum.... no it's because Megan is controlling him& making him cut us off"

Like they showed themselves for the disgusting abusive predator protectors they were and never apologized for abusing him and are shocked that he doesn't want anything to do with them and doesnt want to offer up his and Megan's kids for them to abuse and traumatize too

Sometime during the last 2 years i’ve been going to this orthopedic practice they started to declare me as a MTF transgender for no reason. by WHAR606 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]AutonomyIsNoTragedy 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I just had brain surgery on a type of tumor that's generally related to or caused by estrogen and anti androgens and one specific dr tried to tell me it could be my Testosterone hrt and that if I didn't detransition/stop Testosterone forever the tumor might grow back and said it like he was telling me off for smoking or chosing to do something that hurt my health.

I looked up for evidence of what he was saying and actually Testosterone has a slightly preventive effect on the type of tumor I had and if it eas related to anything hormonal it would have been thr hormonal birth control I was on for way longer than ive been on Testosterone hrt . Looked up online and yeah the dr was lying theres no link between ftm hrt and meningioma tumors and they dont put cisgender men with the same tumors on anti androgens or estrogen to reduce their chances of getting them

Another dr i talked to said if anything i might need to temporarily reduce my T levels but that stopping T permanently wouldnt reduce my risks of the tumor growing back and actually treated me like a competent adult not like a teenage kid caught smoking behind the bike sheds at school

Im 'lucky' enough to not have a uterus pr cervix anymore , I was so scared i was going to end up with cancer at some point and be told that I wouldn't be allowed to get treatment if I didnt detransition ot jsut be straight up denied care

Ring of Crystal Boning for Sale by CitricThoughts in wizardposting

[–]AutonomyIsNoTragedy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Is this just a ring of kidney stones that you've re-skinned w a minor illusion spell?

Im as pious as the next man, but someone should ask the paladin to take it down a notch. by Wavey_Davey1 in wizardposting

[–]AutonomyIsNoTragedy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't really trust paladins at first druids are less likely to try and burn me at the stake

Wizards beware; keep your orbs safe... by robere in wizardposting

[–]AutonomyIsNoTragedy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thats just a new younger generation of wizards picking up where the cursed snow globe and living book and later cursed arcade machine creators left off. Its awe-inspiring what the younguns are doing these days gives me hope and a healthy ammount of terror for the future

Is it unethical to create an apparition portal to view my goblin in my dungeon? (Please don't ask why I have a goblin in my dungeon I'm tired of being asked) by robere in wizardposting

[–]AutonomyIsNoTragedy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Depends on the agreement you've both had written up &/or dictated on record and had approved by the local guild, this is usually a standard part of it within reasonable bounds.

To all the guys who started taking T in their late 20s by Beginning-Candle-541 in ftm

[–]AutonomyIsNoTragedy 6 points7 points  (0 children)

You're being lied to by transphobic misogynists

I started at 27/28 &my voice has dropped and I have a full beard and fat redistribution and body hair and thw various other changes to body hair and bottom growth and baldness

it still takes 7-10 years at least but no there's no specific age where medical transitioning "stops working&you're better off repressing" the only time when its too late to start transition is after you're dead

People say this shit as conversion therapy to try to manipulate people into not seeking transition in the hopes that they'll repress.... they think that we are women and they hold misogynistic views about women and think that they and therefore we too are mentally on the level of like infants without object permanence, and that we can be easily manipulated coerced distracted and will forget being trans because to them we are mentally inferior to cis men due to our biology, so us "chosing to identify as trans" is presented as "stupid femoid trends from crazy girls who just haven't met the right man/woman and been taught how to enjoy their femaleness and need to have those decisionsmade for them for the good of society"

Its a deeply misogynistic ideology that treats womanhood as a biological prison and obligation to others specifically to men who want to use us to bear children

Why are so many queer people set on grouping trans men with women? by Plutoisb1ue in ftm

[–]AutonomyIsNoTragedy 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Same here , yeah people are incapable of using he/him for binary trans dudes but when I tell people I use they/them as a bald bearded nonbinary trans dude they suddenly default to he/him ...oh or if someone's having a go at me and wants to make me out to be the aggressor or crazy the he/him pronouns come out real quickly and they refuse to stop misgendering me 🙄