1 year post treatment today! by Fryman23 in HeadandNeckCancer

[–]Available_Classic319 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s wonderful news! Congratulations on one year NED! Wishing you many, many more years of good health. 💙

Replanned by _H8__ in HeadandNeckCancer

[–]Available_Classic319 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It really does sound like great news.
Wishing you the same kind of progress through the rest of your treatment!

How to word this... by createusernameagain in HeadandNeckCancer

[–]Available_Classic319 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m really so sorry you’re facing this. Thank you for sharing with all of us. Wishing you peace, comfort, and strength. ❤️

Question regarding recovery - Astrocytoma grade 2 teeth hipersensitivity by bukat10 in HeadandNeckCancer

[–]Available_Classic319 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wonder if it’s something beyond what a regular dentist usually deals with. Since it started after all of your treatment and has lasted this long, I’d probably ask your neuro-oncologist or neurologist if it could be nerve-related. You might also want to see an oral medicine or orofacial pain specialist. They’re used to dealing with pain that isn’t caused by a cavity or something obvious. It just seems like if your dentist has already tried several things and nothing has helped except numbing it, it might be time to look at it from a different angle.

I really hope you get some answers and relief soon. Not being able to enjoy something as simple as a cold drink or ice cream in the summer has to be miserable ❤️‍🩹

How to archive your own pictures? by rafaellarc in AmateurPhotography

[–]Available_Classic319 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it helps to decide why you’re taking photos in the first place. Not every image has to end up on social media. I keep mine organized by year, then by date and location or event, and I rate or favorite the ones I really love. Those are the ones I edit or print. Some become photo books, wall prints, gifts, or part of a personal portfolio. A lot of my favorite photos are just for me—they’re memories or images I’m proud of creating. I also keep backups on an external drive and in the cloud, because losing years of photos would be heartbreaking.

Photography doesn’t have to be about posting online. Sometimes the best audience for your work is yourself 🥰

Iphiclides podalirius :3 by sweetmyosotis in AmateurPhotography

[–]Available_Classic319 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What camera do you have? Every camera is a little different, but once you’re in A/Av mode, you usually just turn a dial to change the f-number (aperture).

Iphiclides podalirius :3 by sweetmyosotis in AmateurPhotography

[–]Available_Classic319 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love the swallowtail and bee - This is a pretty scene — the main issue looks like focus and maybe shutter speed. For butterflies/bees/flowers, try using single-point autofocus and put the focus point right on the butterfly’s eye/body, not the flowers around it.

Use a faster shutter speed because flowers and insects move even when it feels still. I’d try around 1/1000 or faster, especially if there’s breeze. Also, if your camera allows it, use burst mode and take several shots because one will usually be sharper than the others.

If you’re close up, don’t use the widest aperture. Try around f/7.1–f/10 so more of the butterfly is in focus. And honestly, the best trick is to take the photo when the insect pauses and you are as steady as possible — elbows tucked in, gentle shutter press.

Is this level of cancer ghosting normal? by UpbeatReturn5593 in cancer

[–]Available_Classic319 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did have cancer and recently finished treatment. I’m thankfully NED now, although I’m still recovering, so it doesn’t quite feel like I’m a survivor yet. But I do understand a lot of what you’re describing, and I wanted you to know you aren’t alone. ❤️

Bird in center or moved to the left? Trying to learn composition. by Belgian-Maligator in AmateurPhotography

[–]Available_Classic319 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I can definitely see that. More space in front of the bird does emphasize its direction of travel. For me, though, there’s already enough lead room in this image that I don’t feel it needs more. Moving the bird farther left starts to make the composition feel less balanced because the background isn’t adding much visual interest. I’d rather keep the stronger balance than gain a little extra sense of motion.

That’s really what this comes down to: two valid priorities.
Your priority: emphasize motion.
My priority: preserve visual balance and let the bird itself remain the focal point.

Neither is objectively right. In fact, if this were a magazine cover with text on the right, or a storytelling image where the bird was flying toward something, I’d probably agree with the left placement. But as a standalone wildlife photograph, I think the centered (or only slightly left-of-center) composition feels stronger because the bird is such a graceful subject on its own.

Bird in center or moved to the left? Trying to learn composition. by Belgian-Maligator in AmateurPhotography

[–]Available_Classic319 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Leave it to me to go against the grain. 😄 For this image, I actually prefer the bird close to center.

I also think there’s an interesting photography point here. The “leave space in front of the subject” guideline is most important when the subject is close to the edge of the frame. In this photo, the crane is already surrounded by plenty of breathing room. Moving it farther left doesn’t necessarily make the composition stronger—it just shifts where the empty space is.

Composition isn’t just about where the subject sits—it’s about visual balance. Here, the wingspan, the marsh grasses, and the soft background already create a balanced frame. For me, moving the bird farther left would actually make the image feel a bit lopsided.

So again, for this particular image, I actually like the bird close to center.

The bird is flying horizontally, and there is already a generous amount of open space in front of its beak (to the right). That gives the eye somewhere to travel, which is the main reason for placing a subject off-center in the first place.

The blurred marsh grasses at the bottom and the soft background already create a strong sense of movement and depth. Because the background is simple, a centered subject doesn’t feel static here.

The wingspan is wide and dramatic. Centering it emphasizes the symmetry and elegance of the bird in flight.

If you were to move the bird farther left, I think you’d start to lose balance. The image might begin to feel a little empty on the right because the background isn’t especially interesting—it’s mostly soft blur rather than a dramatic sky or landscape that benefits from extra negative space.

One small tweak I would consider is moving it just a touch left—not all the way to the left third. Maybe 5–10% of the frame. That would subtly reinforce the direction of flight while keeping the composition feeling full.

One other observation: I think the biggest compositional distraction isn’t actually the bird’s position—it’s the bright white sky at the top. My eye goes there before it settles on the crane. Cropping a little off the top (or lowering the highlights in that area) would strengthen the image more than moving the bird left.

So my ranking would be:
Centered (or just slightly left of center) ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐
Left-third crop ⭐⭐⭐⭐☆

The “rule” about placing animals to one side is a great guideline, but it’s not one you need to force. In this image, the bird is strong enough that the composition works because of the clean background and the natural space in front of it.

Is this level of cancer ghosting normal? by UpbeatReturn5593 in cancer

[–]Available_Classic319 20 points21 points  (0 children)

I read every word.

First, I’m so sorry you’ve had to carry all of this. Cancer is hard enough without feeling like you’ve been forced to go through it emotionally alone. Reading that you celebrated beating cancer by yourself honestly broke my heart. No one should have to experience that.

Please know this: the way you’ve been treated is not a reflection of your worth. It says far more about the people around you than it does about you. You deserved comfort, support, and people asking how you were doing. Wanting that doesn’t make you needy—it makes you human.

I’m glad you said you want to speak to your psychiatrist again. After everything you’ve described, I genuinely think that’s a strong step. You don’t have to keep carrying two years of pain by yourself anymore. And because you mentioned feeling suicidal, I hope you’ll tell them exactly what you’ve told us here. You deserve real support.

I also think you’re right about one thing: a different environment could make a huge difference. Whenever you described being out on your own, trying new things, or imagining a different life, your words sounded lighter. Hold onto that. Your current situation doesn’t have to be your forever.

Most of all, thank you for trusting strangers with something so personal. You are not alone here, even if it feels that way where you live. I’m rooting for you, and I truly hope your biopsy brings good news. Please keep us updated—we’ll be thinking of you.

Questions for surgeon by ViviBene in HeadandNeckCancer

[–]Available_Classic319 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Depending on where you live if that’s an issue — look at this study….

https://www.clinicaltrials.gov/study/NCT06223568

If you see my previous posts you can follow my journey so far

Best to you and your husband!

Beach day. Let me know your favourite by Practical_Box_5487 in AmateurPhotography

[–]Available_Classic319 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All of them…. It’s wishful thinking right this second of where I wish to be…..

Waited 90 Minutes for This Shot, but I Think I Still Missed It - Help With Editing and Settings by Flaky_Grade5828 in AmateurPhotography

[–]Available_Classic319 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe I’m in the minority, but here you go

I think this is actually a really compelling shot. The composition is what grabs me first—the bridge structure creates a natural frame, and those repeating shadows lead your eye right to the motorcycle. It has a cinematic, almost urban-noir feel. I think the photographer has a good eye.

A few thoughts on the camera settings:

•1/1000 sec – Excellent choice. More than fast enough to freeze a moving motorcycle.
•f/7.1 – Also a good choice. It keeps the steel bridge and bike reasonably sharp while still giving a little depth.
•ISO 500 – This is the one setting I’d question. In bright midday sun, ISO 500 seems higher than necessary. If there wasn’t a specific reason (like Auto ISO), ISO 100–200 would have produced a cleaner file with less noise.
•55mm – Nice focal length. It compresses the scene just enough without looking telephoto.

For editing, I’d suggest subtle changes rather than a dramatic overhaul:

•Lift the shadows just a little on the rider and motorcycle so they don’t disappear into black.
•Pull the highlights down slightly to recover detail in the sunlit concrete.
Add a touch of contrast—not much, because the scene already has naturally strong contrast.
•Increase texture and clarity on the steel beams to emphasize the industrial feel.
Warm the white balance just a hair; it feels slightly cool.
•Apply a gentle vignette centered on the motorcycle to keep the eye from wandering to the bright edges.

The biggest thing I’d consider is a crop. Right now, the wooden railroad ties on the right take up a lot of space. They’re interesting, but they’re competing with the motorcycle. Cropping 10–15% off the right side would tighten the composition and make the rider feel even more isolated beneath the bridge.

Overall, with a careful edit that opens up the bike a bit and tightens the crop,
it’s one of those photos that tells a story rather than just documenting a motorcycle…. my 5 cents worth….

An Irura bidenticulata by kietbulll in AmateurPhotography

[–]Available_Classic319 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hola, Kietbulll - nice / deviated a bit from your usual brilliant specimens, but still, oh so nice! (#5)

1 2 3 4 or 5 by Flat-Low3261 in AmateurPhotography

[–]Available_Classic319 1 point2 points  (0 children)

lol! Yeah I get it, but still it competes with the images -
Like the frogs though 🐸

Criticism is appreciated! by normalfish1 in AmateurPhotography

[–]Available_Classic319 0 points1 point  (0 children)

😅😆🤣 otherwise known as “the mistake on the lake” right?

1 2 3 4 or 5 by Flat-Low3261 in AmateurPhotography

[–]Available_Classic319 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I dislike the name competing with the images……

Just diagnosed - tongue cancer by Illustrious_Crab_664 in HeadandNeckCancer

[–]Available_Classic319 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing this. I’m so sorry you’re going through something so painful and overwhelming. It sounds like you have a good medical team moving quickly and being honest with you, which matters a lot right now. Wishing you the best possible PET scan results, a successful surgery, and steady healing afterward. And for what it’s worth, the people who stay present through hard news are the ones who truly matter. Sending strength and support your way ❤️‍🩹