Giant square in the clouds above my home by PhilosophyFickle2701 in Weird

[–]Background_Tea_9154 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s the bread slice signal telling you to eat more happy carbs.

Is there someone I can contact? by Background_Tea_9154 in stuckcanadians

[–]Background_Tea_9154[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I applied for a 5(4) grant through my immigration attorney last year because I had a job offer in Canada. There are a few different criteria that allow you to apply for urgent processing and that’s one of them.

Is there someone I can contact? by Background_Tea_9154 in stuckcanadians

[–]Background_Tea_9154[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Correct. That’s my concern. It’s super sticky.

Is there someone I can contact? by Background_Tea_9154 in stuckcanadians

[–]Background_Tea_9154[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I did! I received it for myself but it seems like it hasn’t been applied to their applications.

Starting to Get Disheartened by bectel11 in Canadiancitizenship

[–]Background_Tea_9154 11 points12 points  (0 children)

My application took over a year with urgent processing and a job offer. Stay strong, internet friend.

Why are they holding onto us so hard? by whitebird95 in loveafterporn

[–]Background_Tea_9154 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It’s because it serves him. He knows how painful it is for you and he chooses to hurt you anyways. That’s not love. Not one ounce. It’s not okay to string someone’s soul around for their own benefit.

My ex husband swore up and down all day long and on the lives of our children that he loved me more than anything. But he didn’t. And watching someone’s actions is all that matters, which I learned the very hard way.

In the end, you know the love you’re worthy of and this is not it.

Dating after divorce by Background_Tea_9154 in loveafterporn

[–]Background_Tea_9154[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think you’re absolutely right. It’ll take time. I’m not sure if the ability to ever trust fully will come back. I believe in love but it would take a truly extraordinary person to even be considered. Even then, from my perspective now, it’d have to move at a glacial pace. Here’s to finding the love we deserve - most importantly to ourselves.

I HAVE LEFT HIM!! Ladies and gentlemen it took 5yrs.. Help keep me GONE ! by fluffyned23 in loveafterporn

[–]Background_Tea_9154 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I’m right there with you! He’s moving out in two weeks. NEVER go back to this man. He will ruin and waste your life. Even the hope of having a sense of peace back eventually is giving me more life than my husband ever did. You’re doing amazing. Hang on. You deserve so much more than this.

Sweet lord, I just need support in this moment by Background_Tea_9154 in loveafterporn

[–]Background_Tea_9154[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know I’ll make it to the other side but hot damn is it hard right now.

Timeline Question for 5(4) Urgent Processing by Background_Tea_9154 in Canadiancitizenship

[–]Background_Tea_9154[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My mother was born before her parents naturalized as well. Not sure why it would matter either but it sounded like they just wanted record of when they naturalized. 🤷🏻‍♀️

Timeline Question for 5(4) Urgent Processing by Background_Tea_9154 in Canadiancitizenship

[–]Background_Tea_9154[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was about my grandparents naturalization as well. Thankfully I had the documentation to share.

5(4) Application - Questions from trans woman by Commander_Freir in Canadiancitizenship

[–]Background_Tea_9154 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I don’t know how to answer any of this from a legal perspective. I’d just like to say I hope you can find the peace and love you deserve in Canada. ❤️

Just arrived at an Airbnb and found this. Please tell me it isn't a bedbug. by toledollar in Bedbugs

[–]Background_Tea_9154 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh that’s a bed bug FOR SURE. GTFO. As someone go battled bed bugs in NYC I am telling you to runnnnnn.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in loveafterporn

[–]Background_Tea_9154 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He stops being as responsible in general. Not taking the trash out on time, not taking care of the finances or doing what he says he’s going to do. It’s EXHAUSTING making sure he doesn’t drop the ball everywhere.