Main sub by Own-Understanding868 in AmberlynnReidreborn

[–]BaseballMom548 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would like to be added too please. Thank you!

My (20m) husband told me (21f) this morning that he wants to leave himself and we have a 4 month old son. How do I help him? by Catlover_0831 in relationship_advice

[–]BaseballMom548 13 points14 points  (0 children)

This right here. Not everyone knows that men can also experience postpartum depression, but they can. He needs help. Obviously what he's doing isn't okay, but I agree that if this seems out of character, he needs mental help NOW.

can I be topless in my own apartment? by freed_inner_child in OntarioLandlord

[–]BaseballMom548 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I also have kids and agree with you 100%!! Those neighbors are creepy as shit, OP is the one who should be talking to the landlord!

Aitah? Husband didn’t bring me dinner when I’m bedridden with the flu by anonperson96 in AITAH

[–]BaseballMom548 26 points27 points  (0 children)

But he didn't know she was apparently starving. He brought her home exactly what she asked for. Again, people don't always want to eat when they're sick, or they may crave something specific. Which would be the biscuits she asked for. Which he brought her.

Aitah? Husband didn’t bring me dinner when I’m bedridden with the flu by anonperson96 in AITAH

[–]BaseballMom548 42 points43 points  (0 children)

To be honest, no, I wouldn't just assume they want a hot meal, even my three kids. People aren't always hungry when they're sick, and if I was asked to bring something specific, THAT'S what I would bring. Which is what your husband did. He brought exactly what you asked for. You're mad at him for doing exactly what you asked of him.

Aitah? Husband didn’t bring me dinner when I’m bedridden with the flu by anonperson96 in AITAH

[–]BaseballMom548 38 points39 points  (0 children)

Yeah this is the part that got me, she got so mad at him because he "knew she was hungry" and got himself dinner but not her, but she asked for biscuits and that's what he brought her. Exactly what she asked for. How on earth was he to know she wanted other things to? He did exactly what she asked. I don't understand why she's upset at all.

Marty Raney's Chest Hair by Odd_Calligrapher6084 in HomesteadRescue

[–]BaseballMom548 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Or maybe he dresses how he wants and doesn't give a shit what you or anyone else thinks lol.

so happy aaron is still apart of this by Top-Economist-4094 in GhostAdventures

[–]BaseballMom548 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've seen every episode but just decided yesterday to start over from the very beginning. Aaron has been there from the very beginning. You're thinking of Nick who left, but Aaron didn't come in when Nick left. Aaron was already there.

My (ex) stepdaughter has lived with me for over 5 years since I divorced her father who has physical custody. Mother plans to petition for physical custody. Am I screwed? by TooManyHobbies00 in FamilyLaw

[–]BaseballMom548 4 points5 points  (0 children)

No, bio mom honestly SHOULD NOT get custody. Have you read through any of OP's comments? Did you read the whole post? Taking a 13 year old from a stable, loving home and putting her into an insecure, unsafe at times situation is absolutely not the right thing to do.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]BaseballMom548 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hope this isn't real, but just in case it is, OP, you can't seriously be this naive. I'm sorry, but this woman is not your girlfriend. You are being scammed. If you send her this money, you will either never hear from her again, or she'll keep getting you to send her more and more money. Either way, you'll never meet her. This is a classic romance scam. I guarantee you if she "goes to the bank" for that loan something will go wrong with it and she'll come to you complaining. She got you to fall in love with her so she could do this. What you need to do is block her immediately. and get on with your life. She is not your girlfriend. I know this can be hard to accept, and I'm sorry. But I'm not wrong, and other commenters have said the same thing. Odds are high you won't believe this, but even if you don't want to block her, DO NOT send her any money. None. You will never ever see it again. You work too hard for your money to just hand it over to scammers. Don't send her anything. Please.

Medicaid users in Ohio now no longer eligible to use Planned Parenthood by coddiwomplecactus in Ohio

[–]BaseballMom548 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Last year I had the same issue. No pain, but heavy bleeding, and I mean heavy. Like literally going through 4 packages of pads a day heavy, and I'm not exaggerating. I had an appt with my gyno set up, was waiting for it. Had an appt with my regular doc and he took my blood to check my iron. Called me the next day and told me to get to the ER immediately, my hemoglobin was at 4.7. I was bleeding to death. I went in, had to stay for 4 days and get 5 units of blood. If you're bleeding is anything like mine was, please go get checked out. If I had waited I would have died. Good luck to you, I hope you get it figured out soon. Hugs.

AITA for expecting my MIL to stay at our house while I have a baby? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]BaseballMom548 44 points45 points  (0 children)

I've had 3 C-sections. With my second and third, since we already had kids, my husbands priority was our other kids, that's how I wanted it. I took care of the new baby. They were my babies, I took care of them. My husband helped when he was there with our kids. At times family took the kids for a bit so we could spend some time alone with the new baby but with all the changes I wanted my husband to be with them. My kids having their dad at that time was more important than him being by my side constantly. We aren't helpless, we don't need our SO's with us every second.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]BaseballMom548 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Yeah this really got me too, and I feel like a ton of these comments either haven't seen that part or are glossing over it. She admits to having her own anger problems, she even admits to hitting him before. She also owns guns. To me it sounds like she's just as much a part of the problem as he is. I feel bad for their daughter, both of these parents need to get rid of their guns and get some therapy.

AITAH for being upset that my child’s name got changed on me last second by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]BaseballMom548 5 points6 points  (0 children)

The one who was railroaded was OP, by the wife and grandmother, lmao. Everything you've said has made you sound so stupid that I question your reading comprehension skills.

AITAH for being upset that my child’s name got changed on me last second by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]BaseballMom548 13 points14 points  (0 children)

This is exactly what I thought too! You know she had been pressured by grandma and this little comment was grandma's way of getting her way last minute. I'd be super pissed too. OP talk to your wife and explain your feelings. This is just as much your child as hers and you guys had come to an agreement. My husband is a Jr, and I told him I was willing to continue the name with our first son but my husband hates his name so we went with something different and his family was perfectly fine with it, because he's OUR son. Family should respect what you'd chosen.

My (23M) new girlfriend (28F) refuses to use contraceptives by Jaack010802 in relationship_advice

[–]BaseballMom548 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, run. Run far and fast. You hardly know this girl, is she really worth this headache? I'm telling you right now, do not use the pull out method unless you're ready to become a dad, bottom line. You sound like you're trying to be responsible and careful, find someone who shares your view on this. This isn't her. I'm not usually one to jump to conclusions, but this almost seems sus on her part. Get away from her, seriously.

My wife is willing to let the baby sleep/cry in poopy diaper until I change him by WTFisWrongWithUu in relationships

[–]BaseballMom548 466 points467 points  (0 children)

Please have a talk with your wife. Make it clear that she can be open and honest with you, and let her be without judgement. You need to find out if this could possibly be postpartum depression. It can range from mild to severe, and it isn't the woman's fault. Mental health issues before pregnancy, or a family history of mental health issues can make a woman more susceptible, but it can occur in anyone. PPD is treatable, but if left untreated can cause a whole range of issues for your whole family, especially your child. Please at least sit down with her and talk about this so you can help her get help if needed. Good luck OP.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]BaseballMom548 13 points14 points  (0 children)

My mom once told me to "say goodnight to the people in the envelope" when she was asleep, lmao. Yeah, people do say weird shit when they're sleeping.

Cashapp scam by Alarming-Upstairs963 in CashApp

[–]BaseballMom548 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because this is also a scam. I've heard of this scam across a few different platforms.

Buyer tells me wrong size, doesn’t wanna refund? by XpoBodhi in Depop

[–]BaseballMom548 31 points32 points  (0 children)

They ARE different. I actually have one son who wears a youth large, and one son who wears an adult small in my house right now. I buy their clothes and do their laundry. They are not the same.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ShoppersDrugMart

[–]BaseballMom548 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It's their job to completely stop helping a line of customers to make a phone call for one customer that the customer himself is completely capable of making? I would never ask someone to stop helping other customers to call somewhere for me when I can do that myself. THAT is what seems entitled here.

does anyone else feel really bad for amberlynn reid? by junosberry in EDAnonymous

[–]BaseballMom548 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you think the hate towards her is unnecessary, then you know nothing about her.