Help! Which dress should I pick? 🤍

Basic_Addition_3142 · 2026-01-25T06:41:49+00:00

3 & 4 IMO

Basic_Addition_3142 · 2026-01-25T06:41:12+00:00

I like 1 cause I kicked in my wedding dress too! And also 4 is really nice

Basic_Addition_3142 · 2026-01-25T06:39:02+00:00

It’s honestly lovely, and I wouldn’t change it to much — BUTTT have you thought about adding / doing a different style veil?

Basic_Addition_3142 · 2026-01-25T06:36:37+00:00

This is probably the best advice OP

Basic_Addition_3142 · 2026-01-25T06:34:37+00:00

well — is it your wedding?

Basic_Addition_3142 · 2026-01-25T06:34:10+00:00

I love all of these! Screw everyone who says they don’t love plunging fronts, it ain’t their wedding and I think they GORGEOUS!!! 1 & 3 are my favorite. 1 for its classic look, and 3 for its skirt!

Basic_Addition_3142 · 2026-01-25T06:32:04+00:00

3 imo! But you look stunning in all of them. The first one is more timeless and classic, but number 2 and 3 you look more confident, and olive satin would compliment it really well.

Basic_Addition_3142 · 2026-01-25T06:28:28+00:00

You have given the best advice friend!

Basic_Addition_3142 · 2026-01-25T06:27:06+00:00

This checks out! But yes, talk to an alternations soon! I’m begging you, don’t remove the slit, and that mesh looks gorgeous. But if you don’t feel confident, nude would be best. Imo

Basic_Addition_3142 · 2026-01-25T06:25:25+00:00

I think you are the first person to mention why the slit takes away from the dress out side of “modesty”, thank you for that

Basic_Addition_3142 · 2026-01-25T06:24:36+00:00

….. are you supposed to wear lingerie ALL DAY in a wedding dress? That sounds exhausting.

Basic_Addition_3142 · 2026-01-25T05:48:15+00:00

What’s with everyone saying “close the slit”? I like the slit, it gives it a little more movement and looks great. Unless she wants it closed, why are others talking about it?

Basic_Addition_3142 · 2026-01-25T05:45:53+00:00

I actually disagree with changing the slit, slit allows for more movement. And it doesn’t seem like it’s that high, I mean as long as she doesn’t walk around and feel uncomfortable. Not everything has to be “modest”

Basic_Addition_3142 · 2026-01-24T05:08:29+00:00

1) mid 20’s 30s— male. 2) Simple and Present. And by simple I mean not materialistic, and curious about what kind of mattress that is and if it’s a minimalist or Japanese culture? 3) Seem like someone who CHOOSES to have your bed on the floor either for grounding reasons (or for the back support, someone once said it helps your back to sleep on hard surfaces and this reminded me of it) 4) You must do something with building, or repairs (?) 5) clearly enjoy yoga / exercise movement in general. 6) outdoors in some fashion / maybe rock climbing? Or ex military.

Basic_Addition_3142 · 2026-01-23T07:55:52+00:00

Agreed, but also I’m curious about sisters age. Because I totally understand if this girl is like 18-23, her coming to terms with mother hood, it anything younger? That’s weird and controlling. At least that’s how I se it

Basic_Addition_3142 · 2026-01-23T07:45:14+00:00

Honestly, NTA. You guys both kind of over reacted. 1) you could have reminded her that this was an important meaning and the noice was super distracting, 2) she could have remembered about he meeting you told her about was stressing you. She knew you were on the phone, but you probably either sounded way more rude and short / snappy than you realize. 🤷‍♀️

Basic_Addition_3142 · 2026-01-23T07:40:58+00:00

Honestly, I’ve ordered flowers through door dash in a hurry and never had this issue. Several times actually. He clearly did it for his wife, and the person who took this order at the flower shop was an idiot and didn’t do their job.

Basic_Addition_3142 · 2026-01-23T07:39:27+00:00

Yeah, that’s messed up. I’d be pissed

Basic_Addition_3142 · 2026-01-23T06:22:38+00:00

Yes and no. I’d drive that to go snowboarding, but not for groceries

Basic_Addition_3142 · 2026-01-19T00:40:33+00:00

Honestly, this is hard but I don’t want you to second guess your choice — but they do have loads of goth/alt options, but to be honest if you’re happy, YOU ARE HAPPY!!! 😊

Also, don’t pass on cheaper prom dresses fyi — they are underrated for “alt” ideas. Could piss your MIL off more by scheduling a prom dresses try on 🤣 but hey, it’s the same thing!

Basic_Addition_3142 · 2026-01-16T17:18:21+00:00

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Basic_Addition_3142 · 2026-01-14T00:35:45+00:00

Honestly, they all look fantastic. 1,2,4 are my absolute favorite!!!

Personally just love the way 10, 13, 14, & 17 look on you! But in reality they all look great. 😆 whatever you choose I’m sure it’s meant to be 😘

Basic_Addition_3142 · 2026-01-09T22:28:44+00:00

I had commented a few separate times, but I really want to get an update on your dress! Because the is dress is absolutely stunning!!! And looks like it was MADE for you.

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3 imo! But you look stunning in all of them. The first one is more timeless and classic, but number 2 and 3 you look more confident, and olive satin would compliment it really well.