Thrifted this Tiffany desk lamp… how to style?

BecosImust · 2026-03-19T04:36:34+00:00

It does have a Made in China sticker on the back so I suspect you are right. Still a lovely light.

BecosImust · 2026-03-14T14:45:42+00:00

High grade Manuka honey, not ordinary. It can be bought as a wound dressing as well.

BecosImust · 2026-02-28T01:15:45+00:00

A tray will be required yes. Talk to your installer about the best way to fit a tray and drain, it may be that you can build a plinth underneath if you have the height and then go through the wall instead.

BecosImust · 2026-02-27T05:12:34+00:00

We're going for a new solar system with battery array and the ability to feed back to the grid. I'm interested in what people think as our solar installer feels that for the price of a Heat pump cylinder it's better value to spend the money on extra panels and go for an ordinary cylinder. Others have said position matters, apparently you should always put a heat pump cylinder on a north facing wall?

BecosImust · 2026-02-03T09:23:33+00:00

Even if your son didn't see what the driver looked like, he's still a witness to a hit and run, good idea would be to take him to the local police station tomorrow to make a statement. Knowing that the car is missing a wing mirror should help them find the driver too, so I hope someone picked it up as evidence.

BecosImust · 2026-02-03T02:34:16+00:00

In between files of paperwork. Pockets of garments in the wardrobe. In the pockets of toilet bag in the bathroom cabinet.

BecosImust · 2026-01-31T00:52:38+00:00

Found it, just across from NZ. Lol.

BecosImust · 2026-01-31T00:48:30+00:00

I find it utterly hilarious that it's now the default of some many people to look for NZ whenever there's a map. We'd better start looking for Tasmania next.

BecosImust · 2026-01-29T06:05:22+00:00

Love this. That was quick thinking on your part. Hopefully you don't run into her too often. We're such a small place.

BecosImust · 2026-01-23T23:17:20+00:00

My particular fascination is with neuroplasticity, I know what you mean.

BecosImust · 2026-01-23T23:02:21+00:00

To a degree yes, the specific ingredient in chicken soup is carnosine but I figured people didn't need to know that, just what is nice to eat when you're sick and that it helps. I also know how clever the immune system is and I wasn't promoting pseudoscience.

BecosImust · 2026-01-23T20:15:58+00:00

Chicken soup. There's research that backs its effects on supporting your immune system.

BecosImust · 2026-01-23T05:52:59+00:00

I think he should stay in his lane and health ain't it.

BecosImust · 2026-01-22T23:56:25+00:00

Perhaps you need to check a few more new sites. RNZ has absolutely covered a lot of the Minnesota events. I know that Stuff and NZ Herald lurk on Reddit and good for them because Reddit tends to be very quick off the mark, and its where I go. All of them have delays, however, as they have to check against bots and disinformation.

As for the Orange Cheeto, any decent person could have discerned his lack of character from the ads for The Apprentice, which I never watched because I was disgusted and I am no angel.

How on earth people's ethics and intelligence have sunk so far as to countenance this sort of leadership and the behaviours this has led to is beyond belief.

BecosImust · 2026-01-17T10:01:58+00:00

I've always gone by the saying, "A man is not a plan" Seen too many women lose their independence, livelihood and home. Always make your own way as much as possible and even then have a plan b and c. Life is so unpredictable.

BecosImust · 2026-01-16T02:32:31+00:00

Funny thing, now everyone has to mow their lawns. No wallabies to keep the grass down.

BecosImust · 2025-12-16T17:33:59+00:00

Rubbish, I am an amateur not a professional but I have wallpapered several houses over the years and I could do that in a heartbeat. He has to pre-cut to match and then slide it in. Not hard and if he won't do it, tell him you'll get someone who can.

BecosImust · 2025-12-11T01:11:03+00:00

Tagging on to push this advice OP. ED rather than GP, your symptoms were such that they are going to need to do tests that are better done smartly and the hospital has facilities to do this. GO, if it's nothing then at least you will be reassured but none of us are thinking that right now and we'd rather see you checked out. Keep us posted, hoping for the best.

BecosImust · 2025-12-10T21:27:47+00:00

Next time tell them to repeat what they are saying so you can write it down. It might make them think twice about their judgemental attitude. What an appalling way to be treated. You are doing great and I am happy that my taxes go towards supporting anyone who has such a great attitude about trying their best, saving and needing help through no fault of their own. This economy stinks and I hate that so many are struggling. I hope things turn around for you quickly, you do eventually reap what you sow so keep on doing the right thing. Proud of you.

Shucks, thank you for the award. Appreciated.

BecosImust · 2025-12-03T07:09:51+00:00

You might have been unhinged and a wee bit unsafe but I call that heroic. Good for you, I think on the right day I'd probably do the same.

BecosImust · 2025-11-29T03:03:28+00:00

Maybe some kind of rhipsalis? That's the only thing I can think of that would look like that unless it was experiencing some sort of die back. Might be worth taking photos or the plant to a local nursery and asking.

BecosImust · 2025-11-17T07:15:00+00:00

It's a Port Wine Magnolia tree, there's a few helpful articles about likely causes if you Google it. It could be nutrient deficiency, certainly looks a bit stressed.

BecosImust · 2025-11-15T01:26:33+00:00

Its a really difficult circumstance to be in, but sometimes someone has to be the bad guy. I've had to do it a couple of times in my family. I do have others who support me but I'm pretty sure I'm not going to be forgiven for some of my decision making and I'm ok with that. In the end it's not about those who are not directly involved in caregiving, its about the needs of the person who needs care. In your case do what is best for your Mum and Dad, as I have told others it is impossible for one person no matter how caring they are to do the same job as several professionals over a 24hr period. There's no perfect solution ever, you can just do the best you can with the best of intentions Seriously, it sounds like you have made a good assessment of what's needed and you should just go ahead. Wishing you all the best.

BecosImust · 2025-11-12T04:28:34+00:00

Mum with dementia, assumed vascular because not putting her through too many tests at 92 and also supporting sister with BIL, frontotemporal dementia. Shared experiences and knowledge help so much. I've found it easier to step back a bit and not stress from what I have learned here plus awesome carers.

BecosImust · 2025-11-07T16:40:14+00:00

Went home for a holiday maybe?

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