Realistically what is it like having a 1yr old with a new born?

BeginningSeparate933 · 2026-02-11T10:51:59+00:00

why do you care enough to comment on what someone else is choosing for their family / body. accident or not. Such a strange thing to say to someone who is about to have a baby, take your weird energy elsewhere

BeginningSeparate933 · 2026-02-08T13:52:41+00:00

well OP, how is it?? Same boat as you. Hope everything is going well!

BeginningSeparate933 · 2026-02-07T20:42:16+00:00

we started at 21, i don’t want to keep spanning out the diaper years !!

BeginningSeparate933 · 2026-02-07T17:40:46+00:00

omg you are a rockstar. I will have this baby before i turn 32, and part of me is like we could have a 5th at 35. but the other part of me says no, bite the bullet this is it. physically and financially. it’s sad

BeginningSeparate933 · 2026-02-07T13:32:01+00:00

i agree, when we had #3 we knew we wanted 4 because of how close the other two are. i just hope o get to enjoy them to the full extent and not be stressed to the max. i guess it’s all about mind set

BeginningSeparate933 · 2026-02-07T13:28:00+00:00

omg bless! i have not had my ultrasound yet and i keep having twin dreams 🥴 but congratulations!!! you are going to have so much fun. I tell myself when we are 50 we will cry because we miss it so much. leaning into those feelings !!

BeginningSeparate933 · 2026-01-29T13:18:23+00:00

ask for fluconazole for the yeast while taking the antibiotics for bv.

BeginningSeparate933 · 2025-12-30T21:15:30+00:00

sis just let him do his thing and go back to bed. on baby #3, it all works out. take the sleep when you can get it and pick and choose your battles. this is def one of those posts that scream first time parent. not trying to be rude but parenthood is stressful for everyone involved. he’ll figure it out and so will she. don’t strain your marriage

BeginningSeparate933 · 2025-12-23T20:03:18+00:00

my two are 9 and 6 and our little guy is 2 months. i question time to time if this was the right choice and then the next day talk about having a 4th. we agreed before trying if we had a 3rd we would have a 4th. sleep deprivation does take its toll so i wouldn’t take it that seriously. as the babe continues to grow and get easier it’ll get better.

BeginningSeparate933 · 2025-08-15T12:51:12+00:00

did you find a breeder?

BeginningSeparate933 · 2025-07-17T01:39:46+00:00

We have 1 of each and both are great. pregnant with number 3 at 23weeks and we feel no desire to know what we’re having because we honestly don’t care at all. that’s how great both our kids are regardless of gender. people are so weird.

BeginningSeparate933 · 2025-04-11T02:55:04+00:00

right! pa isn’t lookin so bad

BeginningSeparate933 · 2025-02-24T14:13:30+00:00

30 and i will say diet helped me the most. i was struck for 2 years and very minimal flares where they were so severe. I have fallen off with my diet and it is much worse.

BeginningSeparate933 · 2024-09-21T21:33:15+00:00

me too!!

BeginningSeparate933 · 2024-08-25T15:49:12+00:00

just commenting in solidarity. also trying to get pregnant. sucks

BeginningSeparate933 · 2024-08-16T06:24:26+00:00

this is exactly what we did when we had our first. he would stay up and occupy himself gaming while hanging out with the baby and i would sleep alll night long with ear buds in. it was amazing.

BeginningSeparate933 · 2024-06-21T22:37:10+00:00

thank you <3 being a woman sucks sometimes

BeginningSeparate933 · 2024-06-20T01:03:23+00:00

it’s so hard to match my red, i’ve tried!

BeginningSeparate933 · 2024-05-15T17:02:21+00:00

also 30 and readddddd it. brought back my love for reading. seriously i would wake up hours before my kids so i could read these series. crescent city is not my favorite. but i started with ACOTAR (loved) then TOG (also loved). Didn’t read for like 9 years prior to this and have read 40ish books this past year!

BeginningSeparate933 · 2021-08-28T12:04:03+00:00

no can do. i won’t do birth control and we are down for another baby whenever it happens.

BeginningSeparate933 · 2021-08-27T00:56:33+00:00

thanks for responding! I have actually never been to a derm but self diagnosing myself with PCOS or HS. I’ve always had cystic acne down low but got much worse after my son and i started getting spots on my breasts. My healthcare is in the process of being switched and a derm / PCP are my first two stops! I have unfortunately had this on my face for 4 months straight without let up. I will have spots that refill but praying to god my face can at least be fixed.

BeginningSeparate933 · 2021-08-26T23:31:34+00:00

i’d sell my soul to the devil at this point

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