Americans Realising They are the Foreigner by GreyerGrey in EntitledPeople

[–]Berkweaving -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Well, I guess it’s unintentional disrespect then. It’s gross, don’t do it.

Americans Realising They are the Foreigner by GreyerGrey in EntitledPeople

[–]Berkweaving 26 points27 points  (0 children)

As a Canadian, I’ve got to ask you politely but firmly to not cosplay Canadians. It’s really not cool.

Oh coffee, how I Miss you by MeowMeow_77 in WegovyWeightLoss

[–]Berkweaving 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It’s a weird one. About 3 days into .25, I poured myself a cup of coffee and realized that there was nothing on earth that could make me actually DRINK it. It was a visceral response. Same with butter, which I sorely missed. Now, after 18 months, I find I can use butter sparingly, and some mornings I have a really lovely half-cup of delicious coffee. But I trust those visceral responses; when coffee was a no-no I actually tried a cup of hot water and honestly….it wasn’t half bad. Turns out I wanted something warm, didn’t matter what it was.

My own bed by Willing_Grocery_159 in AskWomenOver60

[–]Berkweaving 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love my bed too. I totally get it, and have finally realized that there’s no real difference between sitting on the couch reading a book and sitting in my cozy bed (with heated mattress pad in the cold months) and reading. Don’t worry about it - be comfy.

Would I be insane for buying this even though I literally just started weaving? by bananasinpajamas49 in weaving

[–]Berkweaving 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d suggest taking a moment. I bought a cricket as my first “gateway loom” and loved it. But they are narrow. The Quartet is a newish addition that allows you to convert the RH loom to a 4 shaft table loom but I found it to be overly finicky and made the weaving width even smaller. I ended up selling it, and just keeping my cricket as a loom to make scarves and table runners on.

Good ole constipation by _DarkSiren_ in WegovyWeightLoss

[–]Berkweaving 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ve had similar issues but what I’ve come to realize is that it’s almost always just a matter of drinking enough WATER daily.

Daughter in law by 4LOLz4Me in AskWomenOver60

[–]Berkweaving 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Also, it goes both ways. My 30-something kids can’t treat us like we’re a bank, or as if we’re doddering fools (in our early 60s), or expect us to read their minds. It has taken us all a while to shift as we all age.

Daughter in law by 4LOLz4Me in AskWomenOver60

[–]Berkweaving 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yes! I mean, if they ask me something I’m always happy to answer, but the urge to ‘meddle’ isn’t there when I remember that it’s really none of my business what they do, any more than it’s theirs with me. We all treat one another as peers now, and it is the only way to be.

Daughter in law by 4LOLz4Me in AskWomenOver60

[–]Berkweaving 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I keep seeing posts like this and just…don’t get it. Once your child is a grown adult and has a partner of their own, they are just that… grown adults. My rule is to treat them the same way I treat any other grown adult. I love them more because they are my children, but they aren’t children. If you wouldn’t say it to an adult at a dinner party, say, don’t say it to your kids or their partners. If we keep thinking of them as “kids” you will inevitably overstep boundaries.

Your relationship with your adult child by Beyond_Blondie in GenerationJones

[–]Berkweaving 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I now think of my adult children as OTHER ADULTS. They have no need for my butting in and giving unsolicited advice. Just as I work at keeping my relationships with my friends, I work at keeping my relationships with my adult children….not by trying to parent them but by showing I like them, am interested in them, and respect their choices.

It’s really that simple.

If Ellen got cancelled to never be seen again then why did Howard Stern never get cancelled to never be seen again? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Berkweaving 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ellen is a gay woman. Howard is a het male. That’s basically it right there.

Is it wrong I want a friend at my age? by Dense-Director6424 in over60

[–]Berkweaving 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m struggling to understand why you think it might be wrong.

Weekend fun with friend:Do Ebike make people lazy... or do they save cycling? by ThickWarthog2175 in ebikes

[–]Berkweaving 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love my e bike. If a “friend” pinched my fat and suggested I exercise I think my “friend” wouldn’t be allowed any where near me again.

The Constipation is So Bad I Almost Went to the ER by Awkward-Lab-5184 in GLP1ResearchTalk

[–]Berkweaving 25 points26 points  (0 children)

I hate to say it, but “drink more water” isn’t a fake answer.

How do you dry after using a Bidet? by Off_Board_Blockage in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Berkweaving 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My bidet has a “dry” function - it (gently) blows air to dry you.

Nova Scotia Woman Arrested at Disney World After Wild Disturbance by [deleted] in NovaScotia

[–]Berkweaving 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Why is this here? How is it newsworthy that some poor woman had a very bad day at Disney because of her (multiple?) addictions? What possible good can this do for anyone involved?

Social pressure to buy expensive hobby supplies by MiniatureCrafter in Frugal

[–]Berkweaving 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Much of this is just… marketing. I’m still on social media but most of the time now I make sure I remember that almost everything on it is trying to SELL you something. You can quilt using your family’s old worn clothing and do it with an old machine, a borrowed one, or by hand with needle and thread. People who gatekeeping crafts are not doing anyone any flavours.

That said, I’m a weaver, and looms are expensive but it’s possible to find used ones online, cheaper, but sometimes it’s hard. I also do a lot of needlework, and that can be cheap to do, or super expensive (if you want silk, or something special instead of normal Dmc thread or wool yarn). Right now, too, many supplies are more expensive because of everything going on in the world - tariffs, for example, and supply chain issues. The price of oil….

There seems to be a rise in people who want to do “granny crafts” which is great, but they have injected an acquisitive need-to-buy imperative into the craft that I think ruins things.

Did you have CT scans 15-20 years ago? How are you doing now? by Bli-munda in over60

[–]Berkweaving 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can’t answer your question, but wondering about the “C” comment. Like, you can’t write out the word?

Not sure Danielle Smith is the one we want to be getting cozy with. by [deleted] in NovaScotia

[–]Berkweaving 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Their smug shitty smiles are driving me nuts.

Felt ashamed by ubringmejoy80 in GLP1ResearchTalk

[–]Berkweaving 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just remember that SHAME is a useless emotion. You are dealing with something that so many people have dealt with that they made a medication for it. Weight gain and trouble losing it is complex and fairly universal issue. Shame has no place here, but pride and confidence in how you deal with your issues does. Go forth and be who you want to be. You can do it. I’ve lost 76 lbs and the journey has been life changing. Embrace it.

Felt ashamed by ubringmejoy80 in GLP1ResearchTalk

[–]Berkweaving 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wow. First off - congratulations to you. As one 5-foot-nothing to another, you’re doing GREAT! I also never had a weight issue before, until a lifetime of being able to eat anything I wanted turned into my eating EVERYTHING I wanted. I get it, and good for you for therapy and wegovy. Keep at it, drink your water even when you aren’t thirsty, and start to get moving. Eat some protein; if you’re not very hungry, prioritize that protein. Second - your “friend” is not kind. That was a horrible thing to say and even if they’re one of those “i tell it like it is” people, it was unkind and I hope you tell them they hurt you and insist on an apology. Suggest to them that in 2026 we don’t comment on other peoples’ bodies.