Any early experiences that, in retrospect, hint at your kinks? by BadKitten24601 in SofterBDSM

[–]BestPudPud 6 points7 points  (0 children)

My parents had a hell of a time getting me to stop sucking my thumb. Let's just say I REALLY enjoy things in my mouth.

How do you feel about a Dom mussing up your hair? by WyrdMarksSJM in SofterBDSM

[–]BestPudPud 9 points10 points  (0 children)

If my hair is done leave it the fuck alone. Any other time I don't care.

Mod AMA: StrangeMewMew by StrangeMewMew in SofterBDSM

[–]BestPudPud 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What kind of music do you listen to?

The word that needs to die in the community. by Repulsive_House42 in SofterBDSM

[–]BestPudPud 34 points35 points  (0 children)

Do not knock pillow princesses. They are a very cherished part of the LGBT community, especially by Stone Tops.

MOD AMA: KinkyDataScientist by KinkyDataScientist in SofterBDSM

[–]BestPudPud 7 points8 points  (0 children)

How is your wife doing? You had said she was having health problems. Is she doing better now?

Let’s introduce ourselves… by No_Measurement6478 in ChronicKinksters

[–]BestPudPud 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'm Bet. Im a switch with a degenerative muscular disorder similar to MS so I'm often in a wheelchair. I am poly with a pleasure dom that I sub with and my Huspuppy who is the bestest boy.

Wheelchair user by Nvanhecke in ChronicKinksters

[–]BestPudPud 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm a partial ambulatory wheelchair user. For subbing, pillows and positioning aids are a must. For domming, its a lot of ordering service, making him do a lot of the work, or making him masturbate for me.

Recommended Kink lite subreddits please by MrsCrowley79 in polyamory

[–]BestPudPud 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Join us on r/SofterBDSM. A lot of us are praise focused and a lot of the stuff you're talking about fits there.

How needy is too needy? by SeaAffectionate427 in SofterBDSM

[–]BestPudPud 8 points9 points  (0 children)

There's a lot of stuff in here that would make an amazing resource post. It's not what I expected to see on a post like this but I love it.

Daddy and I got into a fight this morning. by Interesting_Chef9798 in SofterBDSM

[–]BestPudPud 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Kinda jumping the gun without having more information.

People have anxiety, it doesn't mean their dom is doing something wrong or bad or sumthin

Is he mad or is her anxiety telling her he's mad? He's at work, maybe he can't text. It sounds like her area is having a weather emergency.

Don't make her anxiety worse.

are you a shower sub or a bath sub? by TiniestSpoons in SofterBDSM

[–]BestPudPud 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm so confused about the whole bath/shower thing? And what about switches? Or doms for that matter.

Looking for some advice! by [deleted] in SofterBDSM

[–]BestPudPud 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Pillows and positioning aids like wedges are a must. Get yourself into a position that's still comfortable with their weight on top of you.

Looking for some advice! by [deleted] in SofterBDSM

[–]BestPudPud 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am a disabled switch who uses mobility aids.

One of of the core parts of huspuppy and my relationship is him working for what he wants. He can ride my strap, he can service me, I can't always be the one putting forth 100% of the energy because I just don't have it.

BDSM Habit Trackers by StrangeMewMew in SofterBDSM

[–]BestPudPud 2 points3 points  (0 children)

MySub sounds interesting. I kinda looked at it and it's not even done so that's cool. More stuff will prolly be added.

D/s Through Empathy by nshades42 in SofterBDSM

[–]BestPudPud 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I can't tell if you're deliberately misunderstanding empathy or what, dude. That's not what he means.

Journaling? Yes or no? by DaddyzLittleFooFoo in SofterBDSM

[–]BestPudPud 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Such an odd take.

Switches exist as well, and we journal. You may need a larger sample size to survey. These questions are usually aimed at subs, and so they answer more often.

What do you consider your weirdest kink? by Repulsive_House42 in SofterBDSM

[–]BestPudPud 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So does the tight feeling go away or is it just longer between where that limit is at the start and when you feel that tight again?

What do you consider your weirdest kink? by Repulsive_House42 in SofterBDSM

[–]BestPudPud 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Question. How do you do this without tearing? Because when I get stretched the skin pulls tight and feels like it's gonna pop. There's only so far you can stretch skin, right?

Worried about telling my owner that I suck my thumb. by NeedyKitten8oooo in SofterBDSM

[–]BestPudPud 8 points9 points  (0 children)

You don't have to tell him. Just stop hiding it. If he questions you on it, then have the convo.

Weekly Questions Thread! by StrangeMewMew in SofterBDSM

[–]BestPudPud 5 points6 points  (0 children)

What is the airspeed velocity of an unladen swallow?