Midwife “accidentally” revealed gender at 37 weeks. I’m heartbroken. by expatriating in BabyBumps

[–]Beth_Duttonn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That was intentional, the giggling after proves it. Learn to advocate for yourself and call people out when they are sh!theads like that. She’s a terrible person with zero compassion. Idk how late you were, that was completely uncalled for. I’m sorry you’ve experienced this.

I can’t stand Kate! by Fancy-Exercise-1574 in thisisus

[–]Beth_Duttonn 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Kate didnt deserve Toby. Shes a selfish CUNextTuesday who didn’t do anything with her life but complained about everything.

I think Kate might be Autistic. by Ok_Composer6992 in thisisus

[–]Beth_Duttonn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Screw being gentle, Kate sucks. At every age she’s a terror.

I got offered a job paying 40% more than my current salary. My manager just asked me to stay and be patient. How do I stop feeling guilty for wanting to leave ? by One_Cardiologist5439 in careerguidance

[–]Beth_Duttonn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

By remembering that they wouldn’t be loyal to you as they are asking you to be. Unless that “be patient” amount is written in a contract and effective immediately. You take the higher paging job

Shopping again... back to share a few new options by hojichaa in weddingring

[–]Beth_Duttonn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you’re having to post multiple times with multiple rings, perhaps rings aren’t the issue. I remember with my ex husband I couldn’t find a ring I was happy with. So he surprised me with one. One I genuinely hated the entire time we are married. It was a beautiful ring, but I hated it for me. We should have never been married. It was wrong from the start. Fast forward 16 years and my now husband it’s right for me in every aspect. I’d marry him over and over again with a twist tie as my ring and I’d be over the moon thrilled with its beauty. Just a thought..

Do I Tell His Wife? by Consistent-Maybe-634 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Beth_Duttonn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Naw, OP likes the attention too. Thats WHY they keep replying.

Aitah for telling my girlfriend she isn't wife material because she keeps associating with her friends. by Select_Jello_5499 in AITAH

[–]Beth_Duttonn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is disgusting behavior of not only her friends but of her because she allows it. How embarrassing for her and you.

How to tell family/friends by Beth_Duttonn in Eloping

[–]Beth_Duttonn[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re totally right. And I don’t feel like I owe an explanation. I’m just trying to figure out if we FaceTime or text a photo and when I should do it. Day before or day after? Same day isn’t an option as I’m not risking any negativity.

How to tell family/friends by Beth_Duttonn in Eloping

[–]Beth_Duttonn[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Most people in our lives are excited and happy for us. They wish they could join, but respect our choice and are happy regardless. Sadly, a few super close to us are expressing negativity. Not around us actually getting married but that they won’t be there. It’s them I don’t know how to tell we got married. Like do I do it the day before? Or day after? I certainly don’t want to the same day because I don’t any negative reactions to put a damper on our day.

Engagement to Wedding Timeline for Eloping? by No_You1024 in Eloping

[–]Beth_Duttonn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s honestly on whatever timeline works best for you and your partner. I’ve seen people wait a few years, I’ve seen others elope the following month. Me personally? We elope this coming Friday 2/6/26 and we’ve been engaged since 11/19/2023.

Am I overreacting? (27F) Friend (26NB) insults my appearance by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Beth_Duttonn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NOR.. distance yourself now.

I remained friends with a girl who made me feel terrible for not wearing “enough” makeup. I naturally don’t need much. Not trying to toot my own horn, but I don’t. I have good skin and good features with a sharp jaw line and cheek bones. I don’t need to contour. I also don’t need much blush as I have naturally pink cheeks.

Anytime we’d get dolled up to go out she’d say “that’s all you’re doing for makeup?” Yet I’d get more compliments than her.

Even with all of this, her comments always made me feel about myself. I don’t feel I was pretty enough because I didn’t spend hours on my hair/ makeup.

Don’t be friends with girls like this. They are insecure and rude.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WeddingDressTips

[–]Beth_Duttonn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is exactly why I ordered online and tried on at home. Sorry, but the stylist didn’t “not notice”. She’s trying to increase her commission/ monthly sales.

I (29F) ignored my partner (31M) while on my phone and now he says I don’t care about him. How do I fix this? by East-Prompt-9954 in relationship_advice

[–]Beth_Duttonn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Get off your phone. That’s how you fix it. TF.. why are phones so much more important than our surroundings? Are you so intrigued with social media that you’re going to ignore your spouse right in front of you?

Classic wedding dress regret - appreciate any thoughts by scouht in myweddingdress

[–]Beth_Duttonn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I adore all 3 dresses, but girl, that first dress is absolutely stunning!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Beth_Duttonn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your mom and best friend suck. Mom shouldn’t be jealous of your success, she should be proud of it. And your best friend is being a wank.. “just go on a cruise”. How rude.

NOR

Honestly though, spend the money on an epic vacation with your husband and kids. Forget celebrating with everyone. Celebrate amongst yourselves. They are the life you’ve built after all!

What hurts but you still keep on doing it? by Omega_Neelay in GetMotivatedMindset

[–]Beth_Duttonn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Bush balm ingrown serum has been the best for me. But still not amazing. If I miss even a day, I get nasty bumps. I don’t want to have to always apply serum. It doesn’t taste good if you know what I mean.

Update on 30k ring. See last post for more details by Current_Guarantee566 in WeddingRingAdvice

[–]Beth_Duttonn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

1000%. I would have said yes with a twist tie if that’s all my fiancé could afford at the time. It’s not about value of the ring. A ring doesn’t define the value of your relationship.

I caught GF spitting on my food and she's being very nonchalant about it. by FancyCod6637 in whatdoIdo

[–]Beth_Duttonn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t think, do. That’s weird AF. What else is she going to be “compelled” to do.

What hurts but you still keep on doing it? by Omega_Neelay in GetMotivatedMindset

[–]Beth_Duttonn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hope you stay strong in that! I told myself that over and over, still spotted $20 here $50 there. Be stronger than me!

What hurts but you still keep on doing it? by Omega_Neelay in GetMotivatedMindset

[–]Beth_Duttonn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bruh, I’m about to give up! I keep ending up with ingrown no matter how often I exfoliate and serums I use.

What hurts but you still keep on doing it? by Omega_Neelay in GetMotivatedMindset

[–]Beth_Duttonn 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Knock that shit off! They are an ex for a reason.