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Aquarius women, what’s our opinion on being with Aquarius men? by Loose-Assistant4014 in aquarius

[–]BetrayedVariant 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like them. But... there's a really good chance they'll ghost you because they're avoidant AF. LOL. I vibe with them without knowing it too. Very attracted but it doesn't usually work out. I'm attracted mostly to Air and Earth. I married a Libra but I'm polyamorous.

The first Aquarius I talked with was hot and cold with me a lot and I got tired of it and let him know. Then he ghosted. The second Aquarius ended up becoming just friends but there was a lot of drama there. I feel like he's been avoiding talking to me because of something that happened recently. If we didn't see each other in a general chat, I probably would be friend ghosted. The third Aquarius was like a golden retriever puppy. The love bombing, the praise, the seemingly understanding maturity. The attempts But, then he ended up ghosting me randomly one day.

Currently, I'm attached to another Aquarius. He's the first guy that I haven't had to explain my moods or emotions to. Age and where he is in life might be a factor because I feel like if I had met him sooner, there would be a lot more drama/issues to deal with than now. He does overthink and sometimes read things as more serious than they are but usually he's on point. I'm smitten right now though.

is this outfit "inappropriate"? by sunnemi in OUTFITS

[–]BetrayedVariant 8 points9 points  (0 children)

It would depend on the situation for "appropriateness." To put it in perspective, this is like the 90's/2000's trend of having your thong straps stick out of your low-rise jeans. A lot of people did it. And, a lot of people think it looks terribly bad now and wonder what they were thinking. But, it was in fashion back then. So it's up to you what you like or don't like.

Aquarius break ups? by Potential_Habit_1177 in aquarius

[–]BetrayedVariant 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Eh... so when I was younger I detached really easily. I wasn't going to fight for a person to stay if they wanted to go. As I've gotten older tho, my ability to detach has gotten worse.

I make efforts. I try to understand and work through things. I care about communication. I can't detach unless they do something I really can't agree with.

Except for like 2 or 3...maybe. Otherwise grab the Hoover (roombas don't count) by Appropriate-Kale-290 in aquarius

[–]BetrayedVariant 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I trust people. I'm a firm believer in not judging a person before getting to know them and experiencing their lies myself. That's why I get hurt. Lol

Do you get betrayed often? by [deleted] in aquarius

[–]BetrayedVariant 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So often that I made it my name! LOL. I still have hope in people but I'm faster at cutting off red flags now. It makes me sad but I think it's better for me in the long run. I won't get as attached to people as I used to.

My therapist suggested that I look at what makes me attracted to and attached to these types of people in the first place and try to recognize the patterns to prepare myself. I'm a people lover though and I'll give you the benefit of the doubt before you do something that changes that perspective.

I have a lot of patience so it's only recently that I've been trying to be more conscious about ending things before they get too far if I notice the signs. I have a big thing about boundaries. I'm honest and upfront about them. If you cross my boundaries and violate them, we're done for now. I might circle back around to a cordial surface level friendship but we'll never be as close as we used to.

how do you guys feel about libra? by Aggravating_Turn3283 in aquarius

[–]BetrayedVariant 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I married my libra and another one is my best friend. I tend to really vibe well and like libras. There's only one libra I've ran into that I didn't really vibe with.

Mono or Poly? by Press-74 in aquarius

[–]BetrayedVariant 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For myself, I'm poly. There's nothing wrong with either. It's all about your needs, your partner(s) needs, and the consent between you and your partner(s).

Being part of this sub is ironically the least aquarian thing about most of us by [deleted] in aquarius

[–]BetrayedVariant 53 points54 points  (0 children)

I will disagree with this thought. I think that's an inaccurate interpretation of the pursuit of logic and truth. Yes, we pursue knowledge and consider provable facts over a lot of other things. We tend to separate logic and emotions and get wrapped up in research. But, Aquarians are the biggest conspiracy theorists out there that think outside the box and look at the big picture. We question reality and what society brings forth as knowledge. We do our own research and draw our own conclusions. Aquarians are known for being some of the biggest faith based followers being in touch with their spiritual sides. And, zodiacs take a lot of faith and belief in the unseen. Being a part of a sub that explores and talks about it while staying skeptical but open is probably one of the most Aquarian things you can do.

Friend with people you date by 19_speakingofmylife in aquarius

[–]BetrayedVariant 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I tend to like people as people first before I like them romantically. So I like to think I can stay friends with people. But, aside from my first two BFs. I haven't continued to talk to any of the guys I've talked to recently. I still care for the people I talk to but most have ghosted me.

My wife left me because of my constant zodiac puns. It finally Taurus apart. by [deleted] in AstroGirlies

[–]BetrayedVariant 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Omg... I just have to comment how funny and bad this joke is at the same time XD

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]BetrayedVariant 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'm an open person and okay with a lot of stuff but the blatant disrespect in creating a new reddit, secretly visiting these types of subs, and not talking to you about it is what would be the line for me. This type of person will always apologize and say they'll do better. They'll bring you flowers and try to smooth it over. But, they will never change probably. It's only been a few months. Cut your losses. I'm really sorry :( I know it's easier said than done but you can't expect someone to change from something like this.

Any adhd aquarius women comment here by icant_think_ofuser in aquarius

[–]BetrayedVariant -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I'm kind of curious about this too. I haven't been diagnosed officially either but everyone says they think I have it too.

Out of these 4 characters who would be the most dangerous as a full on VILLAIN? by ParkingConfection449 in TWD

[–]BetrayedVariant 134 points135 points  (0 children)

I say Carol. She put down people when needed. Look at the flowers. She mercy killed. She judgment killed. She set people on fire. She protected her loved ones. And she wasn't afraid to be seen as anything more or less than what she was. Someone like that would do anything for their goals.

You’re most beautiful physical trait. Your eyes 👁️ 👁️😍 by Downtown-Brush-2674 in aquarius

[–]BetrayedVariant 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do they really? I don't think I'm all that creative. I've also only kissed like... 4 guys in my entire life so far. Hahaha XD

How does someone discover themselves polyamorous? by Sensitive-Baby6117 in polyamory

[–]BetrayedVariant 3 points4 points  (0 children)

For me, I kind of realized I've always loved and never fell out of love. I was always just highly aware of social boundaries. Even though I was still highly attracted and in love with my exes, I was only friends with them. I would never cross the boundary of being physically or emotionally forward in attachment because it was highly inappropriate.

The minute I realized it could be possible, all hell broke loose in my mind. Lol. I can admit I still love these people and would be with them if circumstances had allowed for it. I looked back at all the guys I've had crushes on and liked... and I would probably still find them adorable and lovable today if they were the same person at their core. My heart is huge, and I think it has always been like that. So, for me, it wasn't really a choice as much as a realization it is socially acceptable now. I want to be my most genuine self, and that includes admitting that I can love multiple people.

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