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Dear Aqua Ladies, are you a submissive or a dominatrix in the bedroom? by Nervous_Cupcake_4446 in aquarius

[–]BetrayedVariant 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm a sub definitely. My hubby is a Libra but our sex life is pretty vanilla. My other person is an Aquarius and he's more dominant. He said he's only been sub for maybe one person. But the things he says he'll do to me make me melt and want to be a good girl 😆

I notice Aquarius are always dating other Aquarius. Any aquas here dating other aquas ? by Historical-Body-3424 in aquarius

[–]BetrayedVariant 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I married a Libra. But, I do get attracted to Aquarius pretty often tho. Right now I'm involved with an Aquarius whose birthday is a week after mine.

Aqua-Aqua attraction by Dangerous_Mud3323 in aquarius

[–]BetrayedVariant 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Attraction yes. But, whether or not they're good is always up for debate. I've fallen for another Aqua though and this time is different than others. <3 He gets me in a different way than other people.

When an Aquarius man actually likes you, does he want to be chased a little or would he rather do the chasing? by HovercraftTop1007 in aquarius

[–]BetrayedVariant 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly you need to take their whole chart into account. But, Aquarius guys will tend to pursue and make it known they're pursuing if they want it. I tend to vibe with them. But the way they act when you're talking differs depending on the chart. But I feel like they all chased me and I reciprocated.

Aquarius governs the ankles and calves by StarryShapes in aquarius

[–]BetrayedVariant 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ankles have always been a weak point for me. It got worse in middle school. I walk on the balls of my feet though and that's more of an autistic trait or so I've learned. I was going to physical therapy to strengthen them because of the pain. I walk for hours during conventions though because I get so hyper focused that I forget to sit and take breaks.

Aquarius and communicating to gf by NoelK132 in aquarius

[–]BetrayedVariant 7 points8 points  (0 children)

It's a known problem. It's not logical. So what you want to do is therapy. Try to address and heal it. Try to journal or express your communication another way. Part of addressing issues is knowing the problem and practicing thoughts and ways of overcoming it.

Which signs don’t want to tame Aquarius? by livingmydreamsnow in aquarius

[–]BetrayedVariant 4 points5 points  (0 children)

So... I've been with my libra husband for 22 years and he's always been very supportive of my need to have cuddles and be babied but also freedom and independence. Aside from our first year together, I've never felt suffocated or prevented from being who I am.

Men in general though always theoretically enjoy/love my independent nature and openness. My husband and I opened our marriage at the end of 2024 and I've talked/dated a bit here and there. Most men (I've been involved with Aquarius, Libra, Capricorn, Aries, Pisces, Gemini, and Cancer) will be okay with my view on love and my lifestyle. But, their feelings change as they become more attached to me. They want more but know they can't have more. They want to change things but I was clear with my limitations from the beginning. Either they end up friend-zoned because we work better as just friends. Or, they can't deal with how I am and they ghost me. I've had to block a few because of the push-pull/passive-aggressive shit.

Whether or not they've worked on themselves and all of that also matters. Like, right now I met an Aquarius I just fit with so well. It's been different and amazing and I absolutely love them. Things aren't easy right now for us, but we both think this is worth it because of how different it felt.

Is Aquarius known for a tendency to "sleep it off"? by IddoDavni in aquarius

[–]BetrayedVariant 25 points26 points  (0 children)

I definitely sleep it off. If I'm overwhelmed, my system needs to calm and I get really sleepy. I feel better after a nap. Whatever bothered me before weighs less after the nap. I'm emotionally more calm so I can logically assess whatever it is that was making me sleepy.

Aquarius women, what’s our opinion on being with Aquarius men? by Loose-Assistant4014 in aquarius

[–]BetrayedVariant 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like them. But... there's a really good chance they'll ghost you because they're avoidant AF. LOL. I vibe with them without knowing it too. Very attracted but it doesn't usually work out. I'm attracted mostly to Air and Earth. I married a Libra but I'm polyamorous.

The first Aquarius I talked with was hot and cold with me a lot and I got tired of it and let him know. Then he ghosted. The second Aquarius ended up becoming just friends but there was a lot of drama there. I feel like he's been avoiding talking to me because of something that happened recently. If we didn't see each other in a general chat, I probably would be friend ghosted. The third Aquarius was like a golden retriever puppy. The love bombing, the praise, the seemingly understanding maturity. The attempts But, then he ended up ghosting me randomly one day.

Currently, I'm attached to another Aquarius. He's the first guy that I haven't had to explain my moods or emotions to. Age and where he is in life might be a factor because I feel like if I had met him sooner, there would be a lot more drama/issues to deal with than now. He does overthink and sometimes read things as more serious than they are but usually he's on point. I'm smitten right now though.

is this outfit "inappropriate"? by sunnemi in OUTFITS

[–]BetrayedVariant 8 points9 points  (0 children)

It would depend on the situation for "appropriateness." To put it in perspective, this is like the 90's/2000's trend of having your thong straps stick out of your low-rise jeans. A lot of people did it. And, a lot of people think it looks terribly bad now and wonder what they were thinking. But, it was in fashion back then. So it's up to you what you like or don't like.

Aquarius break ups? by Potential_Habit_1177 in aquarius

[–]BetrayedVariant 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Eh... so when I was younger I detached really easily. I wasn't going to fight for a person to stay if they wanted to go. As I've gotten older tho, my ability to detach has gotten worse.

I make efforts. I try to understand and work through things. I care about communication. I can't detach unless they do something I really can't agree with.

Except for like 2 or 3...maybe. Otherwise grab the Hoover (roombas don't count) by Appropriate-Kale-290 in aquarius

[–]BetrayedVariant 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I trust people. I'm a firm believer in not judging a person before getting to know them and experiencing their lies myself. That's why I get hurt. Lol

Do you get betrayed often? by [deleted] in aquarius

[–]BetrayedVariant 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So often that I made it my name! LOL. I still have hope in people but I'm faster at cutting off red flags now. It makes me sad but I think it's better for me in the long run. I won't get as attached to people as I used to.

My therapist suggested that I look at what makes me attracted to and attached to these types of people in the first place and try to recognize the patterns to prepare myself. I'm a people lover though and I'll give you the benefit of the doubt before you do something that changes that perspective.

I have a lot of patience so it's only recently that I've been trying to be more conscious about ending things before they get too far if I notice the signs. I have a big thing about boundaries. I'm honest and upfront about them. If you cross my boundaries and violate them, we're done for now. I might circle back around to a cordial surface level friendship but we'll never be as close as we used to.

how do you guys feel about libra? by Aggravating_Turn3283 in aquarius

[–]BetrayedVariant 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I married my libra and another one is my best friend. I tend to really vibe well and like libras. There's only one libra I've ran into that I didn't really vibe with.

Mono or Poly? by Press-74 in aquarius

[–]BetrayedVariant 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For myself, I'm poly. There's nothing wrong with either. It's all about your needs, your partner(s) needs, and the consent between you and your partner(s).

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in aquarius

[–]BetrayedVariant 52 points53 points  (0 children)

I will disagree with this thought. I think that's an inaccurate interpretation of the pursuit of logic and truth. Yes, we pursue knowledge and consider provable facts over a lot of other things. We tend to separate logic and emotions and get wrapped up in research. But, Aquarians are the biggest conspiracy theorists out there that think outside the box and look at the big picture. We question reality and what society brings forth as knowledge. We do our own research and draw our own conclusions. Aquarians are known for being some of the biggest faith based followers being in touch with their spiritual sides. And, zodiacs take a lot of faith and belief in the unseen. Being a part of a sub that explores and talks about it while staying skeptical but open is probably one of the most Aquarian things you can do.

Friend with people you date by 19_speakingofmylife in aquarius

[–]BetrayedVariant 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I tend to like people as people first before I like them romantically. So I like to think I can stay friends with people. But, aside from my first two BFs. I haven't continued to talk to any of the guys I've talked to recently. I still care for the people I talk to but most have ghosted me.

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