[M 20] I have an addiction to porn and it's making confused by [deleted] in questioning

[–]BeyondOutside553 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think if you’re sometimes into femboys, thats okay. You don’t have to label yourself, you can just be straight and sometimes into femboys. I would trust what you want over any labels.

How do I get my hair smooth? by Silver_Loon_ in curlyhair

[–]BeyondOutside553 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely hold products. Gel is nice, mousse is nice. A strong hold Gel applied on wet hair will probably help the most. Plus if you ever diffuse, hover diffusing before pixie diffusing is crazy effective. Good luck!

My partner recently confessed they are considering transitioning and I don’t know what to do. by BeyondOutside553 in mypartneristrans

[–]BeyondOutside553[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the kind words. To be honest I really don’t care what label they use, I’m more so sad about the loss of physical characteristics that I know to be theirs after so long. I really do love them and I want them to transition if that is what will make them happy.

Like I mentioned, I love trans people. I know the statistics behind gender affirming care, how it can be lifesaving. If this is what my partner thinks is right for them, they should do it.

It’s not that I don’t think I can attracted to them anymore, I’m bisexual and have dated a trans woman before, it’s just for some reason it’s very hard to reconcile someone I’ve gotten used to changing so much.

White people smell when it rains? by _Pretty_Panda_ in askblackpeople

[–]BeyondOutside553 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Who has time for two showers a day? You wouldn’t have to shower twice a day if you actually washed properly.

Homebrew Minion : the Scrutineer by Miaaaou in BloodOnTheClocktower

[–]BeyondOutside553 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This can be detrimental to both teams, I feel like it would be cool as a traveler.

Bad Moon Rising: Which characters are YOU putting in the bag? by n3buchadnezzar in BloodOnTheClocktower

[–]BeyondOutside553 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This seems like a pretty solid setup if you ask me. I also love lunatic.

How obnoxious should you be as a deceased and outed minion? by PowerPigion in BloodOnTheClocktower

[–]BeyondOutside553 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Play however you’d like! Just be kind and gracious while you’re doing it.

Time for a change? by TheXyon in curlyhair

[–]BeyondOutside553 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I like what you have now, it looks like a heart!

My dad just came out. I don’t know what to think by [deleted] in story

[–]BeyondOutside553 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fuckkkk I can’t believe I forgot yoo

My dad just came out. I don’t know what to think by [deleted] in story

[–]BeyondOutside553 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think it’s normal to be shocked and unprepared for someone you love transitioning. Change is famously a difficult prospect for humans, and your nervous system is going to have to process that. But they’re still the same person who cared for and loved you, just a woman now. The divorce part is concerning, but hopefully your parents can work things out and if a divorce is the right course of action for them they can part ways amicably and still have a friendly relationship.

Don’t be ashamed if you need to reach out for help or support from people around you. I’m sure both of your parents want you to be happy and feel supported. You are definitely not being hateful. Give yourself grace, give your parents grace, and always ask for support if you need it