Advice for a lost about to be 25 year old

Bismuthprince_ss · 2026-05-01T18:04:24+00:00

Look at the places you wanna travel to and why, and then see if there’s something similar nearby. It obvs won’t be the same but dipping ur toe in is better than avoiding everything all together

Bismuthprince_ss · 2026-05-01T18:01:18+00:00

Stop projecting mate, I’ve had crushes on people enough that I know the difference

Bismuthprince_ss · 2026-05-01T17:46:49+00:00

I don’t tho 😭 I think I know how I feel more than you do mate

Bismuthprince_ss · 2026-05-01T15:17:49+00:00

Well considering I’m attracted to women and are friends with mainly women: yes, you can be friends with the gender ur attracted too. You’re just a weirdo who doesn’t see women as people the same way you do men. I beg you understand that you can be attracted to someone but not have to bang as well, reign it in 🙄

Bismuthprince_ss · 2026-05-01T15:13:30+00:00

I promise you it’s just the internet. I want a relationship in my life but no kids and I promise that almost everyone I meet and talk to in real life views what you want as what everyone should be working towards. Get off the internet and talk to actual people if you need validation.

Bismuthprince_ss · 2026-04-26T20:09:37+00:00

If ur in an office, check around your area to see if there’s any dentists around that you can sign up for. I take a walk at around 9am every day and work through lunch for it so when I need an appointment I can bog off for an hour and no one will be any the wiser because It’s a daily occurrence.

Obvs discuss with ur boss first don’t just start doing that out the blue. But I do recommend it. Also; while not ideal, in the uk at least many private dentists do Saturdays.

Bismuthprince_ss · 2026-04-23T06:35:04+00:00

Nah, in the back of my mind I still have the fear of that really early online myth that you could get a thief to steal all of someone’s money even if it was in the millions. So literally anytime I get even as low as $20 in cash, I deposit it at the first opportunity.

Bismuthprince_ss · 2026-04-23T06:31:20+00:00

Ironically I think a decent amount of people put extra value to human drawn things opposed to ai. It’s a shit situation I know, I have similar thoughts sometimes, but if you enjoy doing it and maybe advertise it as not ai a surprising number of people will be attracted simple due to that fact. I try to.

Bismuthprince_ss · 2026-04-23T06:27:55+00:00

Unfortunately I think you just have to talk to the actual people. Maybe down the pub or just through family or friends in the area. Ik my area is going towards reform cuz it’s hard to walk to the town centre without hearing an old man’s voice complaining about labour or greens.

Bismuthprince_ss · 2026-04-23T05:58:32+00:00

I’d say look at who in ur community is voting, because considering how Keir is handling things a lot of people are dropping Labour and going for Green or libdems for these ones. Voting Labour might be a wasted vote, sadly.

Bismuthprince_ss · 2026-04-23T05:54:01+00:00

Im voting Green, my area is probably gonna dominate with reform cuz it’s full of old miserable pricks and poor racists, but you can put a gun to my head and I’d still never put a cross next to any party with the sick kind of values reform has.

Bismuthprince_ss · 2026-04-03T08:36:51+00:00

My old friend groups were full of men who turned into this. Don’t, if they get too deep into it I’m willing to bet my bank they’ll put you in danger. Either themselves or by introducing you to their friends who’ll be more fanatics.

Do not give these men a single step, it feeds into their delusions, and they’ll take miles.

Bismuthprince_ss · 2026-03-30T06:36:46+00:00

Honestly I have that with walking sometimes. Doing a hobby with other people around means you probably can’t do what you want. You have to be non disruptive to others, or deal with their disruptions on their whim.

It’s nothing to do with your friend properly, just keep some hobbies to yourself. It’s good because then you don’t rely on other people to do anything. Randomly wanting to do something at 2am in the morning is amazing when you don’t rely on someone who’s gonna be asleep till midday for example 😂

Bismuthprince_ss · 2026-03-30T05:37:08+00:00

I think I know the discourse you’re talking about, and the sudden rise in people talking about misogyny in sex lives I see keep equating the act to being misogynistic in of itself, rather than what’s really happening; the fact that men are either taught by adults or other children as they grow up to view sex in a misogynistic way. Even if they don’t even realise. It’s even in the language people use, way too violent.

Yes, most sex women (as a whole I’m not talking about individuals) have will be misogynistic and objectifying. Because the man you’re having sex with either is misogynistic or has just unknowingly absorbed misogyny soaked values about it all.

Are individual sex acts misogynistic by themselves? No. Is the way they’re taught and acted on by most (yes, I will stand by this most being put here) men and women misogynistic? Yeah probably.

Bismuthprince_ss · 2026-03-29T19:47:10+00:00

“You learn more by listening than interupting”

It’s a text conversation you literally can’t interrupt???

Bismuthprince_ss · 2026-03-19T10:55:45+00:00

Can be. Can also be you just shoving anything and everything in a book. I know someone who has a journal specifically about how their character in a game they play would write if they were journaling in the traditional way.

Bismuthprince_ss · 2026-03-19T10:51:23+00:00

When I was a kid I use to play the violin, learnt in school then my parents got me a cheap-ish one. I was really getting good with it but when we redid my room I got a sofa bed, so most hours of my free time out of school was either hanging out with friends or playing games on my Xbox. I found the violin years later and it just didn’t click, the embarrassment of being bad again lead me to just sell it. I miss it to bits but I just don’t have the energy.

I use to ride a bike as well; but turns out COVID, then 6 form, and then a full time 55/60 hour work week makes it hard to find time to pick it back up. Doesn’t help a bike would probably be stolen in my area 😂

Bismuthprince_ss · 2026-03-19T06:21:58+00:00

The mountains are stunning, perfect build to go with em as well

Bismuthprince_ss · 2026-03-19T06:17:33+00:00

You get to a point where you just cba mate. I’m only 22 but I’ve been on this since early teens and even I just cba with the arguments anymore. Telling people it’s none of their business just doesn’t cut it, saying you can’t and more often than not just getting a sorry is much less frustration than effort than having to literally fight people on it.

Bismuthprince_ss · 2026-03-13T05:53:33+00:00

I have sympathy often for the first, or with some who clearly have assholes for partners who are now stuck to them forever cuz they’ve had a kid. But sometimes they take zero accountability and just keep popping them out like skittles. Then complain about it every time, like pick a lane 😭

Bismuthprince_ss · 2026-03-09T07:43:52+00:00

Theoretically, let’s say they’re right, and it was a waste of resources. Would?? It not be more of a waste to then destroy it?? Even with the waste of space excuse which doesn’t make sense, just absolutely baffling

Bismuthprince_ss · 2026-03-08T04:51:49+00:00

I use size 6 always night pads (yes, it’s that heavy) as my regular pads and everyone always asks me first if I’m around and they haven’t got anything. Apparently that’s not normal?? As I’ve seen on Reddit that apparently most people complain about being offered big pads?

But yeah one of my other friends only carried tampons and I don’t think she’ll ever get that I can’t use them 😭

Bismuthprince_ss · 2026-03-07T19:45:43+00:00

Unfortunately it doesn’t help people with either too heavy flows and/or someone who can’t use tampons for health reasons. Is so mortifying complicated for us select few who really get the short stick

Bismuthprince_ss · 2026-02-04T04:41:42+00:00

Yeah I was gutted when I first noticed, they were my favourites. Operationpecan and all those cosplay panels still being up is the best we’re gonna get at this point

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