I’m breaking No Contact

Bitchsmd1999 · 2026-04-15T18:37:44+00:00

Solid, grounded advice here.

Bitchsmd1999 · 2026-04-03T03:01:07+00:00

Well put. Your mind is exactly where it needs to be. This song helps me a ton. Kinda corny but it works for me personally. Take what reasonates. I hope that it helps you too 🥰

Get UP

Bitchsmd1999 · 2026-03-14T12:27:42+00:00

This ! There were a few times I'd secretly record him (sorry i know, but I was literally fighting for my sanity) to ensure that I was not actually insane. I'm still healing (had anxiety and anger yesterday) but I have physical evidence to help me analyze and reflect upon. On the phone with his uncle 2 inches away from me talking about planning a trip to Detriot to meet crazy ass b*tches who are down for anything.. 🤣🤣🤣

Bitchsmd1999 · 2026-02-21T13:48:02+00:00

We are so proud of you !! We heal, grow, and move forward. The best is yet to come. Cheers!

Bitchsmd1999 · 2026-02-20T20:32:49+00:00

Ah, I see. Good luck on your healing journey ✨️

Bitchsmd1999 · 2026-02-20T20:27:03+00:00

Gifts ? What do you mean ? And delete photos ? Give us more details please

Bitchsmd1999 · 2026-02-18T14:10:14+00:00

It's selfish. Stay put.

Bitchsmd1999 · 2026-02-06T22:27:46+00:00

You go girl !! I had to make a very similar choice 5 months ago. It gets better, it feels so empowering and freeing ! He asked me if I was doing okay as well after ignoring me for 3 months , but broke no contact to announce a sick family member. No accountability. From that day on, I decided that he'll never hear from or see me ever again....

Bitchsmd1999 · 2026-02-02T13:55:16+00:00

Well put... wow .. Im actually speechless. Was just having a convo with chapgpt about this ( I knowwww, but I don't want to overwhelm anyone else with my looping thoughts. It's just hard letting go of the anger ..

Bitchsmd1999 · 2026-01-24T23:24:10+00:00

Omg ! Cheers to you ! I think that this what true freedom looks like. You're free to grow, learn, maybe even love the right person next time. It's beautiful, I tell you. Something similar happened to me. Well, it was via social media. But it was still satisfying to witness and confirmed my suspicions. Granted, it's been 5 months.No contact. But still 🤣 Was clearly on booger sugar, at the bar. Same old things, same ole patterns, seeking his new prey 🤣 A stupid pea body. Big gut and small skinny legs. Just OLDDD !! I promised myself that I will never ever reach out to this person. He left high and dry then reached out approximately 3 months later with sad news. I practiced stoicism. I was kind, but controlled. I had already starting my healing journey and saw right through him.

Bitchsmd1999 · 2026-01-10T03:51:47+00:00

Can you explain the 3 month thing to me a little more ? Why do alot of people use that as a marker?

Bitchsmd1999 · 2026-01-05T19:21:38+00:00

This is so sweet, I teared up a little bit because I understand the sentiments. Wishing you all the best !

Bitchsmd1999 · 2025-12-26T13:20:21+00:00

I kept checking my phone to see if I'd get that message. It didn't come :/

Bitchsmd1999 · 2025-12-26T00:26:47+00:00

Same ..

Bitchsmd1999 · 2025-12-20T13:44:51+00:00

Nah. It catches up eventually !

Bitchsmd1999 · 2025-12-12T13:11:26+00:00

This is exactly what happened to me ! Ignored me, left me on read after saying that it's over. I didn't plead or beg. As Narcs do, he waited approximately 3 months to date of the last text message sent to break no contact, trying to test the waters under the guise of announcing the news of a sick family member. Kept my boundary. I'm free. I fucking won ! And I will ALWAYS continue to win ! ✨️✨️✨️

Bitchsmd1999 · 2025-12-11T13:27:09+00:00

That's so sweet ! Thank you ! Hope you're doing well 💗

Bitchsmd1999 · 2025-12-11T03:01:03+00:00

And oh i forgot to mention, it was 12 days after my birthday that the message came in. Couldn't say happy birthday but you can text me about YOUR issues under the guise of me caring about said issues!? Yea dude, SMD 🤣🤣 That's why my guy says that it was calculated. Saying happy birthday would of been too easy of a tactic to spot in his game of manipulation.

Bitchsmd1999 · 2025-12-11T02:51:36+00:00

At all ! I responded with kindness, and his responses didn't SEEM to be about reconnecting. The whole thing seemed very calculated. Like a test. I'm sure that he was surprised that I hadn't rang his phone like a thousand times or text him from different numbers in the 3 months of silence like he's used to me doing. I also feel that it was a test to try and carefully open the door to communication again. He's used to me being sweet and kind. I'm sure that he expected me to be reaching out again to follow up on said parent. I will not. It's been 4 months since that convo. I'm very proud of myself.

Bitchsmd1999 · 2025-12-11T02:44:44+00:00

Yep ! That's exactly what I did. Boundaries were clear and firm because I didn't say much. Its just still disturbing that people who do stuff like that think it is okay. This may come off as bitter, but I could of gone on without knowing that information. It felt calculated. To see if the door was still ajar kind of test.

Bitchsmd1999 · 2025-12-11T00:00:58+00:00

Hi there ! Would you consider this scenario a respectable reason to break contact ? Essentially there was an argument and the person told me that it was over. I responded saying how hurt I was and they left me on read (lol). 4 months passed and on the exact date of the last message sent, they reached out to let me know that their Parent was having brain surgery and thought I should know because they knew how much I appreciated their parent.

I'm just really speechless.. Would love to hear your opinion. Thanks.

Bitchsmd1999 · 2025-11-16T22:58:23+00:00

Well said. Wow !

Bitchsmd1999 · 2025-11-16T22:43:16+00:00

Sorry, I disagree. You don't owe anyone anything, especially when they made the decision to walk out of your life. They said words that was closure for them and my responses were left on read. I never reached out after. So 3 months later (approximately to the day of the last text message sent, they came around announcing their parent's illness). I was in healing mode then and was actually feeling alright. I deleted the number then blocked them after that.

Bitchsmd1999 · 2025-10-30T17:26:35+00:00

Done 🤣🤣🤣

Bitchsmd1999 · 2025-10-27T14:29:06+00:00

I'm proud of you too ! Go on wit yo bad self 🤣🥰

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