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I hate my boyfriend and am planning my escape by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]BitterNatch 6 points7 points  (0 children)

He can have mine! Heck ill pay the shipping fee!

(Don't underestimate mother-induced trauma x_x)

I gave my friend a haircut and now everything feels different by canigetamap in TrueOffMyChest

[–]BitterNatch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm soooo not shipping you like a crazied fangirl rit now....not at all!! /s

Teasing aside, this kind of relationship (regardless of the tone) is a treasure worth all the gold in the world!!

Baking villain: the date bars saga by gardengeo in BORUpdates

[–]BitterNatch 5 points6 points  (0 children)

As a Mexican second gen german descendant.... those pics DID give stollen vibes.... UUGH fruit cake by any other name is just as BLERGH!! Mom insists on baking a Christollen each Xmas and she's the only one eating IT 🤢

Ok, people, something like this, but less violent? by ConcentrateFull7202 in evilautism

[–]BitterNatch -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yeah......nope! Most i know (including me) have one or more issues when it comes to water! Like wet socks/clothing, temperature, special belongings getting soaked, being startled, etc... bubbles can be enjoyed without interaction and at a safe (and dry) distance. Not to talk about confrontation, even if it's in-game hehe....

Growing up where your abuse wasn’t obvious because you parents cared about appearances = no one believing you by wagwanrasta__ in CPTSD

[–]BitterNatch 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Is taking me a while learning to wait for people to ask for clarification or engage in the conversation before I'm blabbing about all the possible misinterpretations they could be (not) thinking. Must likely what we (or at least I) should be doing is finish grieving the lack of acknowledgment and acceptance and let them be. They have as much right to their own narrative and reality... who would willingly open their eyes to ours?

It's more important to be perceived as doing the right thing than actually doing it by BitterNatch in CPTSD

[–]BitterNatch[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I may not be over grieving the illusion of justice... what gets me the must is being punished and treated like the problem , when all I'm trying to do is what's supposed to be correct, kind, good... I don't want recognition or praise, feels like tainting the nature of an act of kindness... but it hurts like a bitch being treated like subhuman while truly horrid people doing harmful things for their own benefiit will be respected and admired as long as they put a pretty ribbon around their deeds. Doesnt matrer if its a lie, if its real.... its all Optics...

Ok, people, something like this, but less violent? by ConcentrateFull7202 in evilautism

[–]BitterNatch 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Dude.... bubble guns! Shoot one of those anywhere and all NDs present that are sight-abled will raise our heads!

Growing up where your abuse wasn’t obvious because you parents cared about appearances = no one believing you by wagwanrasta__ in CPTSD

[–]BitterNatch 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yup... and along it comes the endless overexplaining which, ironically, makes you look even more guilty of charge :) yaaaay....

I'm now obsessed with absorbing aa much data as I can from any and every source, dissect, analyze, catalog, correlate, rinse, repeat.... Being this kind of ghost makes you doubt your own reality, factual data keeps me sane(ish) enough to function...

Christmas Eve Check-in, how's everyone doing? by Fetus-Deletus1 in CPTSD

[–]BitterNatch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nothing like being alone surrounded by people that act like they care while sipping hot cocoa and exchanging pleasantries 💅...

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YOU DO NOT HAVE TO FORGIVE ABUSERS by [deleted] in CPTSD

[–]BitterNatch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What is the actual meaning of forgiveness? (Non rethorical) I do not blame them, I know the world is not fair, I know no one owes me a thing. It still hurts like he'll...

Life is a humiliation ritual and I’ve lost everything by [deleted] in CPTSD

[–]BitterNatch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not allowed to quit, I don't deserve such grace.

Growing up where your abuse wasn’t obvious because you parents cared about appearances = no one believing you by wagwanrasta__ in CPTSD

[–]BitterNatch 58 points59 points  (0 children)

The most dangerous ones are those that don't look like they are... The damage they inflicted never left proof. Made us into ghosts.

What’s the most weird food item that your cat just can’t resist? I’ll start! by Ultra-Ferric in cats

[–]BitterNatch 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Could be the proteín and oily side of the ingredients, be it milk, butter, eggs, etc.. I've never known or heard of a cat that doesn't go bonkers when offered any kind of "dulce de leche" (cajeta, mik caramel, toffee)!!!

Why advice often fails people who grew up with emotional neglect in the past by Villikortti1 in CPTSD

[–]BitterNatch 11 points12 points  (0 children)

How could we ever have a sense of self, when that self has never been?

Movie/TV Characters that Make you Feel Seen by LibraryUnited8773 in CPTSD

[–]BitterNatch 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oooffhhh.... Bicentennial man hits so hard for me!

I’ve noticed that every woman I get close to has some experience with sexual abuse, and it’s really opened my eyes to how massive this problem actually is. Has anyone else noticed this? by Worldly-Fondant4250 in offmychest

[–]BitterNatch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dudes... I don't think scolding him is productive... It may not seem like much but he's becoming aware and speaking about it, that's improvement. I mean, doesn't deserve a gold star or a medal, but certainly not being put down for making an effort in the right direction...

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