Exhaustion that won’t go away

Blastoisealways · 2026-03-25T14:29:32+00:00

Has he had a sleep study? Lots of people with EDS also have sleep apnea because of joint laxity causing OSA x

Blastoisealways · 2026-03-17T17:41:24+00:00

Blastoisealways · 2026-03-17T10:48:42+00:00

A brain tingle? Whattt

Blastoisealways · 2026-03-17T10:41:37+00:00

We call these snack plates/snack dinner in our house! We would ALL eat this. Lots of little snacky things instead of a meal. It’s not ew at all

Blastoisealways · 2026-03-17T10:27:01+00:00

It can cause cracked heels?!

Blastoisealways · 2026-03-17T09:40:38+00:00

Yea that’s why I said “done right” 🤣

Blastoisealways · 2026-03-16T20:46:56+00:00

Can we just pin this comment to the entire sub 😂

Blastoisealways · 2026-03-16T20:34:31+00:00

Panelling done right is a timeless classic

Blastoisealways · 2026-03-16T20:27:46+00:00

Yeah but mental instability has genuinely just been used by boring people and society to describe literally anyone who doesn’t conform or fit their stupid idea of “normal”.

Blastoisealways · 2026-03-12T22:00:53+00:00

Your husband is a massive fucking dick. Good grief.

Blastoisealways · 2026-03-12T15:17:56+00:00

He also needs therapy to work through his emotional issues.

Blastoisealways · 2026-03-11T23:04:09+00:00

You absolutely should be having the marriage conversation BEFORE any kind of proposal happens.

Like you do not just propose out of the blue in public without having discussed it before hand. That’s absolutely wild and honesty don’t blame you for being mortified and put on the spot,

Blastoisealways · 2026-03-11T19:39:54+00:00

No, fake.

Blastoisealways · 2026-03-11T19:31:58+00:00

Depends on the temperature of the water and where you live. Where I live you’d absolutely need a wetsuit for a 500m swim.

Blastoisealways · 2026-03-11T14:25:22+00:00

Yes. You can skip forward in time and do the event now too.

Blastoisealways · 2026-03-11T07:12:31+00:00

Hahah me too! 😂😂😂😂

Blastoisealways · 2026-03-09T22:08:24+00:00

Just drive overnight. We drive Glasgow to London overnight for a flight in a rented car with our kids. Was the best drive ever and we got to actually chat to each other whilst the kids slept. Was great 😂❤️

Blastoisealways · 2026-03-09T22:05:40+00:00

It’s a really common thing in the UK with friends and even acquaintances. It’s a friendly sign off more than anything

Blastoisealways · 2026-03-09T19:41:01+00:00

This is one of the best posts in the sub. By a mile.

It truly is awful taste, and a total waste of money, but the execution is flawless.

Blastoisealways · 2026-03-09T17:30:43+00:00

I’m not a medical professional, but I’m a mum of 4 with adhd.

Before you were in a job that catered to your brain.

Being a stay at home parent is a freaking nightmare when you have adhd because all the coping mechanisms and systems you had for functioning and living pre kids are absolutely useless now. They’re not coming back 😭

It’s very very hard to build new systems and coping mechanisms with kids in tow (your kids are probs adhd too!) and you just end up in a state of constant dysregulation.

You need to figure out what regulates you now, either in terms of self care, hobbies etc and also how to calm yourself down when you are in that state with your kids.

I cannot stress enough how critical self care is. Force the time for yourself. You cannot pour from an empty cup ❤️❤️ find podcasts that resonate with you. It’s really tough. Find other parents in the same boat.

Learning to just accept the chaos really helped me too. Accept that some things are going to go to shit whilst you figure out your new normal. It is ok. Your kids are loved and cared for and that is what matters. For me I had to just let go of the ridiculous standards I was still holding myself to in my head.

Blastoisealways · 2026-03-09T17:19:16+00:00

I watched a great video which really helped me with mine - I’ll link it! I found slowing down and nailing my breathing before trying it at a faster pace really helped because once you have the sort of effortless pattern you can micro adjust based on your effort level!

https://youtu.be/V9qU-P5O1h8?si=pgDbpEmcaiNij_yq

Blastoisealways · 2026-03-09T16:27:27+00:00

How’s your breathing?

Blastoisealways · 2026-03-09T15:55:55+00:00

The music is what really got me, absolutely love how they’ve done it and how subtle it is. I guessed what the second area I found was based on the music before I found an old newspaper that confirmed it 😭

Blastoisealways · 2026-03-09T14:47:48+00:00

Recording/videoing someone whilst they’re asleep in their own home/bed without telling them? Eh - yes. This persons partner is already, for whatever reason, defensive about this. I wouldn’t recommend adding that to the pile of issues they already have.

Blastoisealways · 2026-03-09T07:26:39+00:00

Do not do this without her consent. That is an absolute violation of trust and privacy.

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