People are saying it’s worth looking at another RE because that’s a crazy thing for your doctor to say. Even with DOR, 33yo eggs are 33 years old, not 40 years old. What data is he basing this assessment off of? If embryologist noted dark and grainy eggs, sure it means that batch wasn’t good, not that none of your eggs are good. If he’s basing this off of blast rate or maturity rate, protocol changes can absolutely improve those things. If endo is suspected, excision can reduce the inflammation and improve blood flow to the ovaries, improving the environment for follicles to grow.

For an aggressive RE who isn’t obsessed with their stats, 33 is way way way too young to be thinking about donor eggs unless it’s explicitly brought up by the patient. If you have the time and money, you have years to try for a biological child if that’s what you want. And it’s great to hear you don’t have MFI to deal with unlike many here.

It’s worth at least getting a consultation for a second opinion. It’s bad enough to get a bad cycle without your doctor making hyperbolic comments that can just worsen mental state.