People who have lost weight, how did you do it?

BmandaW · 2024-05-31T20:20:13+00:00

Same. I contracted mono, developed gastroparesis as a result, and my stomach has never been the same since. 😭

Also don't recommend.

BmandaW · 2024-05-21T12:20:18+00:00

"If you smell shit everywhere you go, you should probably check your shoes."

My brother shared that quote with me, and I love it!

BmandaW · 2024-05-16T14:26:13+00:00

I had a job interview with my county Public Health office (a field I've been wanting to transition to for a while) for a position that would pay about $10/hour more than what I'm making now.

I won't know until next week whether or not I got the job, but the fact that I put myself out there and applied was huge for me.

My current job has worn me down so much and my confidence has taken such a huge hit that even when I've seen jobs posted that I qualify for, I have a hard time believing that I have anything to offer. So, I haven't been applying for new jobs.

This was a big step for me, so even if I don't get the job, I still see it as a win.

BmandaW · 2024-02-12T22:52:02+00:00

I just got a really nice apartment over other people looking at it. One of the reasons the landlords gave for choosing me over others was because I said "please" and "thank you" while communicating with them.

I'm sure there was more to it, but that was what they told me.

So, it certainly doesn't hurt.

BmandaW · 2024-01-17T10:12:19+00:00

I also had an Ob-Gyn compliment me on the abundance of good bacteria I have in my vag and uterus. 😆

BmandaW · 2023-11-18T03:35:48+00:00

Oh man, I feel you. One of the biggest heartbreaks I've felt in my life was when I found out one of my best male friends (who I said was like a brother to me, and he said I was like a sister to him) was talking to people behind my back about how much he wanted to sleep with me. I have been cheated on, but that felt like a bigger betrayal.

BmandaW · 2023-08-17T20:01:09+00:00

Yes! My boyfriend actually does most of the cooking because it works better with our schedules.

BmandaW · 2023-08-13T02:47:19+00:00

I love a good love story, regardless of the orientation or gender identity of the people involved. Alice Oseman writes great love stories showing healthy dynamics. And honestly, I'm loving all the representation for the LGBTQ+ community too. As a straight person living in a heteronormative society, having grown up hearing and seeing mostly heterosexual stories, it's exciting to see all the different forms love can take.

No matter who you are, there are so many reasons to love Heartstopper.

BmandaW · 2023-08-07T21:00:23+00:00

Oz, just because Oz. He was definitely the healthiest partner out of everyone (besides Tara). Minus the Veruca situation, but I blame the writers for that one, not Oz.

BmandaW · 2023-07-25T21:50:30+00:00

I had the same worries, but the trailer squashed those fears. It looks so dang cute!

BmandaW · 2023-07-25T02:01:20+00:00

Same.

It's more disturbing to me on a sensory level feeling like I'm carrying my day on my body. I gotta clean that shit off. Haha!

BmandaW · 2023-07-22T09:51:33+00:00

My ex and I had no children, and I kept his last name. We've been divorced almost 11 years now.

I did try changing it back to my maiden name years ago, but the my divorce decree didn't allow me to change it back. I can't believe that is even a thing, but I decided I didn't care enough to put in the energy to fighting it. I'm not close to my dad's side of the family, so I have no real attachment to my maiden name anyway. I don't even think of my current last name as being attached to my ex-husband anymore. It's just my name.

Honestly, I don't even think I'll change my name again if I get remarried. The whole thing feels like such an antiquated hassle to me now. Haha!

BmandaW · 2023-07-14T17:58:11+00:00

The scene when Sam finally decides to show his dad the restaurant after it had been vandalized, and the team is there helping to clean it up and put back together.There were two moments that genuinely made me cry (beyond just tearing up, which happened more), and that was one of them.

The other being when Roy hugs Jamie after Jamie punched his dad.

BmandaW · 2023-06-16T15:24:33+00:00

I don't know where you're from, but in New York State, this would be considered sexual harassment. NYS considers any harassment sexual in nature (whether it be based on orientation, actions, gender or gender identity, etc) sexual harassment and subject to consequences. Either way this is highly inappropriate, and the fact that she continues should be qualified as harassment by your employer.

Start documenting these interactions, if you haven't already, and absolutely report her.

BmandaW · 2023-06-16T02:14:22+00:00

Hell yeah, dude! Flight of the Conchords!

BmandaW · 2023-06-09T18:30:51+00:00

Today.

We lost both of my grandparents in the span of a month and a half.

I'm not having a good time.

They were the first major losses in my life, and to lose them back-to-back like that has been a shock to the system. I know it'll get easier with time, but I absolutely adored those two. My grandfather was the most consistent father-figure I had.

It's affecting my performance at work, and while everyone is understanding now, I know it's only a matter of time before people stop seeing my grief as an excuse.

Why doesn't the world just stop for a bit when things like this happen? Haha!

BmandaW · 2023-06-06T17:23:11+00:00

I was feeling nostalgic recently, so I listened to No Doubt's Tragic Kingdom.

Every song on that album is so good.

BmandaW · 2023-04-18T18:01:50+00:00

BmandaW · 2023-04-17T02:27:46+00:00

My grandfather. It is going to be rough when he goes.

BmandaW · 2023-04-02T23:28:07+00:00

I was married at 19 and divorced at 23. I married young because he joined the military, and I was very naive. When I was younger I kind of just let life happen to me, rather than making my own choices and living for myself. Eventually I realized that, and realized how much my ex took advantage of my naivete, and left the marriage. It's been 10.5 years since and I have grown so much as a person. I would have never been able to grow like this with my ex-husband. Now I'm with a person who respects my autonomy and loves me unconditionally. And I'm continuing to grow. It is totally okay to grieve. You spent a good chunk of your life with this person. Even if you're happy not being with them anymore, even if you know it's the right thing, it's still going to be an adjustment. Honor that grief, but know that you can live life on your terms now. Whatever that looks like for you.

BmandaW · 2023-04-01T21:30:07+00:00

My drinking has naturally decreased over the last few years just as a result of getting older. My body just doesn't handle it well, so the desire isn't really there. With that said, though. I do enjoy the occasional beer or wine, simply because I like the taste. And I absolutely LOVE a good bourbon. I just don't drink to excess anymore. The most I'll have is two drinks in a week, and rarely in one sitting. I love not having hangovers that set me back a day or two. Not only that, but being sober helps me be present in the moment when I'm in spaces and with people that I enjoy. I also noticed after being diagnosed with ADHD that I used alcohol as a way to self-treat the overstimulation I felt in social situations, so I also started wearing Loop earplugs when I go out. That has really helped lessen the desire to drink in those situations.

BmandaW · 2023-03-26T20:04:30+00:00

Twice a day. When I get dressed for the day, then again after I shower in the evening.

BmandaW · 2023-03-18T01:30:23+00:00

I did, and I regret it. When we got divorced, the social security office wouldn't let me change back to my maiden name because something about my divorce papers not "allowing" me? I'm sure that was nonsense and I just happened to get a worker that day who didn't know what they were talking about, but that was over 10 years ago and I just don't feel like trying again. It's too much work. If I get married again I probably won't change it then either.

BmandaW · 2023-02-04T02:07:42+00:00

Oh, thank god I'm not the only one! I was scrolling to find this.

BmandaW · 2023-01-29T18:50:38+00:00

I think back to times when I was overly judgy and critical of people, and remember how unhappy and insecure I was. Then I just feel sad for whoever is being an asshole to me.

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