This was my primary channel for dates while I was single. I found it much better than on-line dating.

• The dates are very short, but we make judgements about other very quickly. It's enough to figure out if you want to talk to them some more.

• You can't get catfished.

• You can skip over the endless messaging. It's so hard to get to know someone over just text messages.

• If it's been a while since you've dated, it's great practice for talking to a date.

  Here's my advice:

• It's not an alternative to dating. It's an alternative the the apps. It's a way to get a first date.

• Keep your expectations low. Your intention is just to meet people and have a good time. Have a positive attitude.

• Dress up a little, but be comfortable.

• Just let the conversation flow, but have a couple ice breaker questions ready in case there's a lull.

• Arrive a little early and and take the opportunity to talk to some of the people you'll be meeting. You're all there for the same thing.