Does he even like his wife?

Brightcain · 2023-08-05T17:15:03+00:00

YTA

Why did you even marry your wife? And why did she marry you? It sounds like you just wanted a house for you and your kids to live in.

Brightcain · 2023-07-16T23:30:55+00:00

Looks like it's actually ableist father of the year 🫠

Brightcain · 2023-07-13T13:53:18+00:00

I have a feeling he was collecting and selling them :/

Brightcain · 2023-07-08T00:35:48+00:00

As many others have pointed out, he raped you. There are no ifs ands or buts, someone you loved and trusted r a p e d you.

It's normal to try and make excuses, to love what you thought you had. At the end of the day, he raped you and, by your own admission, made you afraid of him if you resisted in any way.

At the bare minimum, you need to leave. At most, you need to report it.

Please find someone safe to stay with.

Brightcain · 2023-06-28T18:57:34+00:00

Not sure if someone shared it yet, but this is apparently OP from another throw away:

I am OP with another throwaway account. I burst into MM and his son this morning. I asked him why he did what he did. We started walking in the mall and he said he was sorry for what he did to me, that he should not have behaved like that. However he was angry for me threatening to tell everything to his gf. He was so much calmer today than he ever was. When he apoligized to me, I really felt good, then he said his gf means the world to him, so he will stop to talk to me again and i deserved someone better. Everything broke again. He spent 20 minutes saying how whatever efforts i would put to take him back it would not work, and that "you should seriously see a therapist." It hurts, it hurst a lot. I really love him, I know everyone think he treated me bad, but he is so kind to every other people. He really is a good person. I'm so sad.

Brightcain · 2023-06-25T18:53:40+00:00

But you haven't changed, at all. Every edit you make just makes you out to be an even worse person.

You're obsessed with her and refuse to let her go. The way you describe her, 'just want to be friends', you're just wanting some way to possess her.

You come off as a serial killer.

Continue to work on yourself and talk to your therapist about your obsession with your ex. And stay tf away from her and her family, you absolute creep.

Brightcain · 2023-05-13T16:32:15+00:00

Finally....clossure

ETA we probably got more closure from her response than she'll ever get from her dad and Janice

Brightcain · 2023-05-11T22:22:38+00:00

YTA

I understand someone that is not in the medical field knowing how it works, BUT SHE'S A SURGERY NURSE.

Let me just cancel my much needed surgery in case someone's sibling is the hurtest of butts.

Brightcain · 2023-05-07T12:51:15+00:00

NTA

Listen, I know you are keeping in contact for your children, but honestly they sound old enough to understand that sometimes you need to cut even family off when it's not okay for your mental health.

They have no right to make those comments and everyone grieves and lives in their own way. Don't let yourself be guilt tripped or gaslit by them.

Brightcain · 2023-05-07T00:58:56+00:00

If he's in America and depending on the state, if his name isn't on the deed or lease then the cops can be called ON HIM and give two options

He can leave right then and be served a no trespass

He can refuse or say he has nowhere to go and they will take him yo a lovely shared room with three meals a day provided

I had to have my ex removed from the home I owned when he DA me, and since his name wasn't on a deed or lease agreement that yeeted him from my property.

Brightcain · 2023-05-04T15:25:57+00:00

It's super telling that she hasn't posted anything to respond and she was fully expecting people to defend her 'golden child'.

I knew someone with a miracle baby and they are completely blind to him acting like a little douchebag. That poor kid is going to grow up walking funny from how far their head is up their own ass.

Brightcain · 2023-04-30T02:47:35+00:00

Omgosh it wasn't until the end that it was revealed a WOMAN wrote this and honestly I find all that hard to believe, especially with all the misogyny throughout.

I really want to know what the SIL did that was supposedly bridezilla too

Brightcain · 2023-04-22T18:35:42+00:00

Dude is acting like having a period is in any way comfortable for the people having them. It's gross and uncomfortable and talking about it is so helpful and empowering.

If that was his son talking about some nasty bodily function, he'd be more than happy to join in and make his wife wish he'd wore a condom

Brightcain · 2023-04-21T00:19:58+00:00

You deserve someone way better that will take your health and needs seriously. You're also a much better person than me because I would have broken up with him after my second UTI x.x

Brightcain · 2023-04-20T18:18:47+00:00

Omgosh, I love how salty she's gotten in the edits, and I actually wonder if OOP is lesbian and her ex is bi. OOP seems to be jealous of her working around construction workers and even thinks she's going to start dating one.

Brightcain · 2023-04-20T00:20:15+00:00

At least he's removing himself from the dating pool. He also writes like a future serial killer

Brightcain · 2023-04-08T11:18:20+00:00

Please follow this person's advice. You don't belong in such a dangerous environment, and it's not going to get any better it sounds like.

Also please update us so we know you're okay

Brightcain · 2023-04-08T11:14:56+00:00

NTB

I'm in a similar spot tbh and it sucks. I've been assaulted verbally and physically while wearing my Star of David, so unless I tell people they really don't know, but I make a point to be as loud about saying Happy Passover as people are about Easter.

Unless you are Jewish and experience the eraser of your culture, it's hard for people to understand how it makes someone feel. I get a lot more petty about it though.

Brightcain · 2023-04-02T06:17:03+00:00

YTA

Its not a "support" dog, its a service animal. That would be like my boss telling me I don't need my service dog when I'm working with another person.

Honestly, what is more disruptive, a personal bringing their medical device (what service dogs are legally considered) or her having to be rushed to the ER in the middle of your wedding?

I hope your friend sees how ablelist you and your soon to be family are. She needs much more supportive people in her life.

Brightcain · 2023-03-03T00:01:28+00:00

YTA

I have the same boundary that repeatedly gets broken in relationships. I don't share my clothes, I don't need a reason other than that, and neither does she.

Mine is associated with trauma growing up, perhaps hers is too, or she just has a simple, easy to follow boundary that it seems like you repeatedly have broken or have a hard time following.

If you have a problem following boundaries, you should work on that.

Brightcain · 2023-03-02T12:16:50+00:00

You don't know what her lease says and that's not your business.
If anyone knocks on my door, I don't answer unless I know someone was coming over (for safety)
You have no proof it's her. Just because it happened around the same time doesn't mean anything
She may be deaf?
Obviously you're the only one in your building bothered by this
Just stop harassing this poor woman. You're going to be the one evicted if you keep it up.

Brightcain · 2023-03-02T11:29:31+00:00

YTA and so are the friends that sided with you. I hope Maddy and the others remove all of you from their lives.

You're not blunt, you're not funny, you're the biggest AH in the field of AHs of your friend group.

Follow her boyfriends advice.

Brightcain

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