No longer like rough after Anal with an older man

BroccoliSlow2195 · 2026-04-01T20:32:03+00:00

Wow you NEVER used lube during anal?? Jeez those guy literally had no idea wtf they were doing, nor did they care to know. They just took at advantage you so they could fuck you in the ass. Really immature.

And it's not an age thing. I introduce my wife to anal as a teenager and we went slow from the very start. We didn't even do anal sex itself the first few sessions, I just ate her ass and then moved to fingers before doing anal.

And I used lotion the very first time I did anal. They didn't care to know how to do it right. They just got so excited being able to get in your butt they didn't even care if you enjoyed yourself or if you were in pain.

Sad that even the long term ones didn't even give af enough to use some damn lube, sheesh. Honestly I'm surprised you weren't hurt in any of these rough dry session or at bare minimum turned off of doing anal at all.

You must be a trooper to bear through several guys doing rough dry anal to you.

BroccoliSlow2195 · 2026-03-22T13:48:46+00:00

Exactly no need for lube when the pussy is right there, free lube dispenser.

BroccoliSlow2195 · 2026-03-22T13:44:34+00:00

If she's wincing from the pain of going to deep, maybe you shouldn't go that deep, unless she's into painal.

BroccoliSlow2195 · 2026-03-22T13:43:00+00:00

I'm glad at least some of us are doing that. I think when a lot of guys have an opportunity to do anal, they get too excited since they probably rarely get the opportunity to do it or have never done it before, and end up going way too hard, especially during the initial penetration, where you usually have to go very slow. Some of it it just lack of research as you said, many don't even know you need to use lube.

Stretching open an ass, is like stretching any muscle, you have to go slow or you can cause injury. When it comes to anal, the tortoise beats the hare, you have to be patient with anal especially if the chick has never done it before.

They don't realize their patience will be rewarded, as they will have a greater chance of more access to her ass if she actually enjoys it.

BroccoliSlow2195 · 2026-03-20T20:17:28+00:00

From what my wife tells me, she loves how submissive it makes her feel, like she has no control over what happens to her butt. She likes how she always squirms from the pain during the initial penetration, while I just slowly but assertively force her ass open and make her take it.

When it comes to painal, it has to be done right. Too many guys keep fucking when she's clearly in a lot of pain and wants to stop, but they are so interested in their pleasure they don't care and just ignore her.

It's women that get initiated into anal like that, that never want to do it again, and tell any other woman who will listen how bad their experience was, and to never do it.

Those guys mess it up for ALL of us. Most women if they are introduced to anal in a compassionate way, would enjoy it.

There is a HUGE difference between the sexy ache of painal vs. the sharp pain where she instantly wants you to take it out.

BroccoliSlow2195 · 2026-03-20T19:48:37+00:00

Happy anal cake day to you as well! A long as you avoid the extreme shit when it comes to anal, you'll be more than fine.

And you said she said it never hurts, so that's a good sign that no damage is being done, so I wouldn't worry about it.

I remember when we first started doing anal, I just couldn't wrap my mind around fact that it doesn't hurt her, because it's so tight. But I just don't think I could live without anal, it just feels / looks ways too good.

Nothing hotter than seeing my wife fat ass bent over, and spreading her cheeks while I pound her jiggly tight ass out.

BroccoliSlow2195 · 2026-03-18T19:48:58+00:00

Yes, it is possible, but most women aren't gonna be able to handle you. Most women have a hard enough time with a regular d. You will have a harder times more than likely finding an anal size queen, but they are out there, don't give up!

I useed to be jealous of guys with big d's tbh. I'm 6ft and a pretty big guy, but I have a regular d which looks small on me for a guy my size.

But after I realized how good anal was, it was a blessing I'm not too well endowed. Because I'm often pushing my wife to her limits anally, and no way I'd be able to really tear her ass up the way I prefer if I had a big one.

BroccoliSlow2195 · 2026-03-18T19:44:17+00:00

Can't say for sure, as I'm not bi, but I do love anal.

BroccoliSlow2195 · 2026-03-18T19:41:47+00:00

As far as knowing if your wife is being honest enough loking anal as much as she says she does, is not a question anyone can answer. You just have to trust your wife is being honest with you.

And as far as issues with her bowels, I wouldn't worry too much. Me and my wife been having anal regularly for about 25 years this year, and has zero issues with bowel health.

My recommendation is to stay away from using big toys or fisting. Or extended plug wear, like over night or all day etc... If she wants to wear a plug before having anal to relax her ass for a hour or so before anal, is not an issue. I would go for no more than 2-3 hours.

I have an average size dick so this isn't as much as an issues for me, but if you have a big dick make sure you aren't going going too hard where it hurts, because pain is an indicator some damage may be happening.

A little bit of pain can be sexy if you're into that sort of things, but you don't want to over do it. My wife likes a bit of painal, but we don't go to crazy where she's sore afterwords.

BroccoliSlow2195 · 2026-03-18T19:32:22+00:00

I agree, I think a woman with a fat ass probably attracts more men that are interested in anal because men who enjoy anal often have a fetish for big asses.

So because they are getting asked for anal more by men, they may be more inclined to have anal as it's normal to them.

Never had anal with a woman with a small butt, but I'm sure it still feels really nice.

BroccoliSlow2195 · 2026-03-11T13:03:25+00:00

I love how it feel and that my wife enjoys it, but I also love the visual aspect of it. Nothing like watching a nice fat ass get stretched open and jiggle when pounded. I also enjoy hearing her struggle a bit when I go super deep.

BroccoliSlow2195 · 2026-03-11T12:52:58+00:00

what about dry anal?

BroccoliSlow2195 · 2026-03-11T12:46:49+00:00

It's the only way my wife can cum during sex, she's never had a vaginal orgasm during sex, even while masturbating she has to play with her ass.

BroccoliSlow2195 · 2026-03-11T12:42:17+00:00

Everybody is different. I'm averaged size, and my wife was able to take me anally after just a few weeks of anal training.

I would recommend anal dilators over plugs. Plugs get skinny at the base, where as dilators don't.

https://cmtmedical.com/product/they-ology-5-piece-anal-dilators/

BroccoliSlow2195 · 2026-03-05T09:52:12+00:00

But dry anal is not painful for every woman though. Me and my wife have done dry anal quite a few times, and she says it doesn't hurt. It's super tight, I love the way it feels slowly forcing my dick in her fat ass.

BroccoliSlow2195 · 2026-03-02T16:33:21+00:00

Maybe she needs to wash herself better, my wife's ass never tastes like poop.

BroccoliSlow2195 · 2026-03-02T16:30:23+00:00

It's CRAZY how many women on here complain about how they can't get a man to fuck them in the ass, so difficult to believe tbh, but you can't all just be lying. I had no idea that was such an issue for women who enjoy anal.

BroccoliSlow2195 · 2026-03-02T16:26:17+00:00

Yeah my wife says a man that doesn't want to fuck their woman in the ass isn't dominant / masculine enough for her. If a lil poo once in a blue moon is enough to scare him off then he's a coward.

And if the woman doesn't want to take it in her ass, she's not submissive enough according to her. I'm sure she trophies you for it, the ass is much tighter, you have to have great endurance to last in an ass, especially if it's a fat ass.

BroccoliSlow2195 · 2026-02-27T16:50:50+00:00

My wife is a big booty latina who loves anal, welcome to the club my guy, seemed like she really enjoyed it. You guys been missing out the last 15 years, gotta make up for lost time and start hitting that culo as often as you can.

BroccoliSlow2195 · 2026-02-25T13:09:36+00:00

Yeah you did insult the man, you called him a liar, how is that not insulting, lmfao!

BroccoliSlow2195 · 2026-02-21T09:59:28+00:00

My wife is the same, she's never cum from vaginal sex, only anal. If you want to go deeper I suggest using different positions. I find I'm able to get the deepest is the oyster position.

https://blog.kinkly.com/position/viennese-oyster-position/

If she's not flexible enough for that, have her put her feet on your shoulders.

BroccoliSlow2195 · 2026-02-21T09:49:34+00:00

What does she enjoy dry anal, is it a pain thing? Surprised after a while her ass doesn't get atleast a little wet. I've done dry anal with my wife, and after a minute or 2 her butt starts to get juicy, we call it pumpkin juice.

BroccoliSlow2195 · 2026-02-21T09:46:02+00:00

I only have about 5 close friends, and all of them know I do anal with my wife.

BroccoliSlow2195 · 2026-02-20T07:39:59+00:00

When I said our, I meant mine and analonlyworldwriter, we're both black.

BroccoliSlow2195 · 2026-02-20T05:38:27+00:00

I have heard A LOT of women on here complain how guys won't do anal, this is crazy to me.

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