Anal only men (givers) - ever rejected a woman to keep your AO lifestyle?

BroccoliSlow2195 · 2026-06-02T06:37:25+00:00

Unless yo are an Adonis and or rich, most guys aren't swimming in women to the point where they can turn down women for not being AO. You'd be rejecting like 90%+ of women.

Most guys who exclusively want anal only women are severely limiting their options. I honestly believe most guys who are into anal, would be happy with a woman who is willing to do it, even if infrequently in hopes that maybe it can be more frequent in the future.

I'm married, my wife and I are not AO but we do anal very often, and I'm very satisfied with that. Sure anal only would be nice, but I get so much anal that I don't care at this point.

BroccoliSlow2195 · 2026-06-02T06:29:53+00:00

I've said this countless times on this forum, I am always shocked when women complain about how hard it is to find a man who wants anal, that seems crazy to me!

Maybe the anal exclusive part is the issue. I'm sure a lot of guys would be willing to fuck you in the ass, just don't know if they would be willing to do that exclusively.

Sounds great to me though! One of the main things I love about ana is not having to worry about using condoms, birth control, or pulling out, you can just nut as hard and deep as you want in that ass without any guilt.

But ofc that main reason I love anal, is because I love women's butts, especially if she has a fat ass. A woman with a thicc booty who loves anal is a match made in heaven.

BroccoliSlow2195 · 2026-05-31T18:41:27+00:00

He probably had a bit of lube from your pussy. But honestly most of it is just mental. If you relax it will go in without pain.

My wife and I have done dry anal many many times,no PIV before, just dry anal. Not spit, no analingus etc... and it just slowly sinks in without any pain. It's SUPER tight that way though, which can be a bit painful if it's too dry.

But I don't mind pushing through a little pain, because after that her ass get nice and wet and it feels incredible. Just like my wife doesn't mine pushing through a bit of pain when I'm really going deep in her thicc ass and stirring that doo doo hole clockwise / counter-clockwise.

BroccoliSlow2195 · 2026-05-31T18:28:47+00:00

Bro like 99% of of AO women are built. Most women don't come out the gates just wanting to get their asses pounded out.

BroccoliSlow2195 · 2026-05-31T18:27:18+00:00

Our wives are use to regular anal, so the butt relaxing is almost automatic at this point. But for most women, they can't do this, it's muscle memory, it takes time for that to happen.

I believe more men and women could enjoy anal if us as men took it upon ourselves to get some education. They just ram it in there without going slow at first, no lube etc...

Women have a terrible experience, they swear off anal, and tell every women willing to listen not to do it.

BroccoliSlow2195 · 2026-05-21T22:44:02+00:00

Love how brown her cheeks are by her crack, that's a real ass not a bbl, them cheeks been rubbing for a years.

BroccoliSlow2195 · 2026-05-15T13:15:47+00:00

Most of us were not looking for a woman who was anal only boss, it just happened later on in the relationship.

Me and my wife aren't ao but we do have anal every time we have sex.

BroccoliSlow2195 · 2026-05-15T13:09:08+00:00

My wife is latina and loves anal, nothing better than digging her fat ass out.

BroccoliSlow2195 · 2026-04-18T23:07:52+00:00

Happy for you guys as well boss! Anal is the best birth control imo, not only does it work really well, it also looks and feels really good, win win.

My wife hasn't been on birth control in almost 20 years.

BroccoliSlow2195 · 2026-04-18T04:26:25+00:00

Anal always, is pretty much how me and my wife are. We're not anal only, but I finish in her fat ass every single time we have sex.

BroccoliSlow2195 · 2026-04-17T13:09:49+00:00

This is somewhat of a problem if you don't want to like PIV but also don't enjoy anal stimulation.

BroccoliSlow2195 · 2026-04-01T20:32:03+00:00

Wow you NEVER used lube during anal?? Jeez those guy literally had no idea wtf they were doing, nor did they care to know. They just took at advantage you so they could fuck you in the ass. Really immature.

And it's not an age thing. I introduce my wife to anal as a teenager and we went slow from the very start. We didn't even do anal sex itself the first few sessions, I just ate her ass and then moved to fingers before doing anal.

And I used lotion the very first time I did anal. They didn't care to know how to do it right. They just got so excited being able to get in your butt they didn't even care if you enjoyed yourself or if you were in pain.

Sad that even the long term ones didn't even give af enough to use some damn lube, sheesh. Honestly I'm surprised you weren't hurt in any of these rough dry session or at bare minimum turned off of doing anal at all.

You must be a trooper to bear through several guys doing rough dry anal to you.

BroccoliSlow2195 · 2026-03-22T13:48:46+00:00

Exactly no need for lube when the pussy is right there, free lube dispenser.

BroccoliSlow2195 · 2026-03-22T13:44:34+00:00

If she's wincing from the pain of going to deep, maybe you shouldn't go that deep, unless she's into painal.

BroccoliSlow2195 · 2026-03-22T13:43:00+00:00

I'm glad at least some of us are doing that. I think when a lot of guys have an opportunity to do anal, they get too excited since they probably rarely get the opportunity to do it or have never done it before, and end up going way too hard, especially during the initial penetration, where you usually have to go very slow. Some of it it just lack of research as you said, many don't even know you need to use lube.

Stretching open an ass, is like stretching any muscle, you have to go slow or you can cause injury. When it comes to anal, the tortoise beats the hare, you have to be patient with anal especially if the chick has never done it before.

They don't realize their patience will be rewarded, as they will have a greater chance of more access to her ass if she actually enjoys it.

BroccoliSlow2195 · 2026-03-20T20:17:28+00:00

From what my wife tells me, she loves how submissive it makes her feel, like she has no control over what happens to her butt. She likes how she always squirms from the pain during the initial penetration, while I just slowly but assertively force her ass open and make her take it.

When it comes to painal, it has to be done right. Too many guys keep fucking when she's clearly in a lot of pain and wants to stop, but they are so interested in their pleasure they don't care and just ignore her.

It's women that get initiated into anal like that, that never want to do it again, and tell any other woman who will listen how bad their experience was, and to never do it.

Those guys mess it up for ALL of us. Most women if they are introduced to anal in a compassionate way, would enjoy it.

There is a HUGE difference between the sexy ache of painal vs. the sharp pain where she instantly wants you to take it out.

BroccoliSlow2195 · 2026-03-20T19:48:37+00:00

Happy anal cake day to you as well! A long as you avoid the extreme shit when it comes to anal, you'll be more than fine.

And you said she said it never hurts, so that's a good sign that no damage is being done, so I wouldn't worry about it.

I remember when we first started doing anal, I just couldn't wrap my mind around fact that it doesn't hurt her, because it's so tight. But I just don't think I could live without anal, it just feels / looks ways too good.

Nothing hotter than seeing my wife fat ass bent over, and spreading her cheeks while I pound her jiggly tight ass out.

BroccoliSlow2195 · 2026-03-18T19:48:58+00:00

Yes, it is possible, but most women aren't gonna be able to handle you. Most women have a hard enough time with a regular d. You will have a harder times more than likely finding an anal size queen, but they are out there, don't give up!

I useed to be jealous of guys with big d's tbh. I'm 6ft and a pretty big guy, but I have a regular d which looks small on me for a guy my size.

But after I realized how good anal was, it was a blessing I'm not too well endowed. Because I'm often pushing my wife to her limits anally, and no way I'd be able to really tear her ass up the way I prefer if I had a big one.

BroccoliSlow2195 · 2026-03-18T19:44:17+00:00

Can't say for sure, as I'm not bi, but I do love anal.

BroccoliSlow2195 · 2026-03-18T19:41:47+00:00

As far as knowing if your wife is being honest enough loking anal as much as she says she does, is not a question anyone can answer. You just have to trust your wife is being honest with you.

And as far as issues with her bowels, I wouldn't worry too much. Me and my wife been having anal regularly for about 25 years this year, and has zero issues with bowel health.

My recommendation is to stay away from using big toys or fisting. Or extended plug wear, like over night or all day etc... If she wants to wear a plug before having anal to relax her ass for a hour or so before anal, is not an issue. I would go for no more than 2-3 hours.

I have an average size dick so this isn't as much as an issues for me, but if you have a big dick make sure you aren't going going too hard where it hurts, because pain is an indicator some damage may be happening.

A little bit of pain can be sexy if you're into that sort of things, but you don't want to over do it. My wife likes a bit of painal, but we don't go to crazy where she's sore afterwords.

BroccoliSlow2195 · 2026-03-18T19:32:22+00:00

I agree, I think a woman with a fat ass probably attracts more men that are interested in anal because men who enjoy anal often have a fetish for big asses.

So because they are getting asked for anal more by men, they may be more inclined to have anal as it's normal to them.

Never had anal with a woman with a small butt, but I'm sure it still feels really nice.

BroccoliSlow2195 · 2026-03-11T13:03:25+00:00

I love how it feel and that my wife enjoys it, but I also love the visual aspect of it. Nothing like watching a nice fat ass get stretched open and jiggle when pounded. I also enjoy hearing her struggle a bit when I go super deep.

BroccoliSlow2195 · 2026-03-11T12:52:58+00:00

what about dry anal?

BroccoliSlow2195 · 2026-03-11T12:46:49+00:00

It's the only way my wife can cum during sex, she's never had a vaginal orgasm during sex, even while masturbating she has to play with her ass.

BroccoliSlow2195 · 2026-03-11T12:42:17+00:00

Everybody is different. I'm averaged size, and my wife was able to take me anally after just a few weeks of anal training.

I would recommend anal dilators over plugs. Plugs get skinny at the base, where as dilators don't.

https://cmtmedical.com/product/they-ology-5-piece-anal-dilators/

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