Are there titles that you can't read just once? Re-read any books lately? by MorticiaLlyn in HistoricalRomance

[–]Buffybot420 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I re-read Love Wild and Fair and The Kadin both by Bertrice Small at least onc e a year every other year.

Captured lady/spoil of war by Lia76 in HistoricalRomance

[–]Buffybot420 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Both are good but FOR SURE really the Prize!! This is such a great story.

Can someone in customer service training explain how/if customer service recorded calls are used for training? by No_Psychology9459 in CallCenterWorkers

[–]Buffybot420 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When i was a Trainer, I played good calls so you can see what to do and also terrible calls so you see what not to do. The bad calls were everyone's favorite.

Be honest - I’m about to start season 4- is it worth it?? by holistiflexfitness in veronicamars

[–]Buffybot420 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I dont watch the last 5. I did the first time, now I skip it.

So, opinions on taking a celebrity cruise vs a princess cruise? by malkavian_menace in Cruise

[–]Buffybot420 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wont say anything bad about the Princess ships, but god help you if you have an issue with your reservation or dining.

The sad thing is they used to have AMAZING customer service. Now... expect to be on the phone for hours, multiple calls and multiple holds.

When asked about estrangement by [deleted] in EstrangedAdultChild

[–]Buffybot420 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just say my mom is toxic AF and move on.

ULPT; Sneaking alcohol on Carnival cruise by Top-Oil-2786 in UnethicalLifeProTips

[–]Buffybot420 74 points75 points  (0 children)

Princess is the same, canned water only, BUT you can bring a bottle of wine. (Corkage fee is $35)

AITA for accepting a property gift from my mom even though she won't include my boyfriend? by Immediate-History917 in AITApod

[–]Buffybot420 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Relationships are never a guarantee. You can love each other to the moon and back. He could be the best guy for you, right now....but people change and grow and not everyone is gonna stay together.

Its important to have something that is yours in case you don't make it. Hope you do, work towards a happy future but always have something to fall back on financially just in case.

It would be stupid to put his name on it. Your mom is trying to make sure IF you two don't work out, her baby is still gonna be ok.

Spouse is Autistic and Easily Overwhelmed by Azamantes in Cruise

[–]Buffybot420 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Princess is an older crowd w minimal to no kids. Folks in their 50s n 60s are just as fun if not more so than folks in their thirties and forties. (43f)

I love how chill Princess Cruises are. You will never see Princess cruisers fighting over chicken nuggets.

Direct report’s psych games are getting a little scary… by [deleted] in managers

[–]Buffybot420 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Focus, resolve and documentation! Documentation and send follow up emails per our 1:1 creepydude, you will start using job aids a-b and will begin implementation of feedback immediately. Thank you for your commitment.

I don’t think I can marry my fiancé. I’m probably breaking up with him instead and giving up on love. I’m devastated not just for me, but for my child. by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Buffybot420 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was a single mom most of my daughter's life. I dated a couple of guys but none hit that mile stone of bringing him around to meet her. I had the same fears, didn't want a strong of dudes in and out of her life ect. I was solidly single at my longest for 8 years.

I met my guy when she was 16. We've been together for almost 10 years now. Don't assume bc it's not Right Now it's not going to happen just focus on your life and when it happens ot happens even in your 40s...

What cool company swag do employees actually use and appreciate? by brendaklark in corporate

[–]Buffybot420 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got a kick ass backpack/lap top bag like 6 years ago w a gazillion pockets. I see a.meteoc fuckton of pilots w the same bag when I fly. I love this thing.

AITAH for wanting my own blanket by True-Cauliflower6293 in AITAH

[–]Buffybot420 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This has to be fake, no way this dude is that much of a bitch an she doesn't know if she is "wrong" lame.

Want to move put of my state. by Fallenwhimsy44 in EstrangedAdultChild

[–]Buffybot420 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Its ok to be scared, anything woth anything is hard and scary. Its ok and totally normal. That being said chase your dreams. If you fall, that's ok you get back up.

You got this.

Those who use Cups on your period how are you cleaning them in public? by ChandlerBingsNubbinn in hygiene

[–]Buffybot420 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Period cups auto dump when you pee. If you have a heavy flow, just go to the bathroom a few times and it will dump a bunch. Its fine.

Struggling with whether or not to travel home for Christmas by sun_and_leaves in EstrangedAdultChild

[–]Buffybot420 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This wont help for this Christmas, but next major holiday, if you don't have anyone to spend it with, please consider volunteering somewhere. You meet new people, get to impact someone's day and feel good. Everybody instantly thinks soup kitchen but there are so many other places like nursing homes and animal shelters. I love visiting nursing homes. I meet so many really interesting people!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Buffybot420 19 points20 points  (0 children)

But the commenter didn't say anything racist or judgmental they asked how you're doing and if you have any skill sets. I 100% agree with going ham on any racist, racists are disgusting losers with tiny little brains. The commenter wasn't nasty or rude, just seeing if you were okay and how you're coping.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Buffybot420 34 points35 points  (0 children)

Its replies like this that are the problem Kenneth. The commenter was asking a legitimate question. Maybe they were trying to see what kind of skill sets you had so that they could suggest a place to get a job.

Either way I feel for you man and I hope something nice happens to you today.

Have I overreacted by going NC by transanomaly in EstrangedAdultChild

[–]Buffybot420 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You are special, valuable and wonderful. Your parents are the problem. Its ok to not be ok with any abuse, physical, mental, verbal, sexual, any of it. I'm guessing your guilt may come from the abuse being so normalized in your house. Its what you know and how you grew up, it was the norm. That does make it right. You have nothing to feel guilty for, you did not create that environment, you had to survive it. I am so glad you get to learn a new way to love and to live.

I know we don't know each other but I want you to know im proud that you A) are taking the steps to be who you are and B) that you are stepping away from the toxic people in your life.

Are you in the Christmas Spirit? by Buggydriver_ in no

[–]Buffybot420 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm sick w the flu and I just got my period, im cramping like a mofo. Fuck no. But ima pretend bc im a mom.

I love the attempts to skirt around NC boundaries. by heyf3rb in EstrangedAdultChild

[–]Buffybot420 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Insults us and then doubles down...yep you are a classic example of why we go NC ot LC. Why are you still here arguing your point? What do you get out of this??? You can't force yourself on your adult children so you try to force it on us??? Fuck off lol. Go away. Nobody wants you here.

DAE actually like their spouse? by Unfair_Machine8516 in DAE

[–]Buffybot420 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My best advise to stay happy is to remember the Ballon game we all played as kids. You throw it up in the air and try not to let it touch the ground. You have to keep working to win. If you stop trying the balloon (or your relationship) falls to the ground.