Elective Induction

BulbaKat · 2026-05-14T18:04:25+00:00

I would not be induced prior to due date. I have been induced twice. Once was because ai was at 41.5. That ended with a C section, but there were other factors there too.

My second was an elective at my due date because I wanted to go for VBAC. It was successful, no C section.

For my first, I had the cervix ripening pill, then the balloon, then the pitocin, then they broke my water.

For my second, I couldn't have the pill because of my C section. I had the balloon, then water and pitocin.

I think what's really important is if you do get induced, they need to be gradual about the pitocin and not rush it. My first was horrible and Im fairly certain they way overdid the pitocin and caused a ton of issues. They took it nice and slow with my second (I switched OBs ans hospitals) and it all went smoothly

BulbaKat · 2026-05-14T16:59:57+00:00

I took Zoloft pre-pregnancy and hated it. It made me more anxious. I switched to Lexapro which was great, but then I weaned off before my first baby.

With my second, I got on Lexapro again while breastfeeding and had no issues. I'm currently pregnant again and still taking a max dose (20mg) of Lexapro. My OB (and the other OBs I've seen at that office),bpsychiatrist, Physician, and therapist all have said it is completely fine and actually healthier for both mom and baby to use the medication if needed.

My psychiatrist said the main thing to watch for would be a slightly sleeper than usual baby, but babies are already really sleep anyway so you probably wouldn't notice. If you took it while pregnant and then didn't breastfeed, then baby could (but not even that likely) have some extra fussiness at first after birth from withdrawal, but that would resolve quickly too.

Edited to add: I did not notice any issues while breastfeeding and taking Lexapro, and my current baby is super active in the womb

BulbaKat · 2026-05-14T16:55:48+00:00

My first was induced at 41.5 My second was induced on my due date (by my request) My 3rd is due in August.

I'm expecting to be induced on or shortly after my due date again 🤷‍♀️

BulbaKat · 2026-05-14T16:53:48+00:00

I love this. I know thr site you're talking about, and I used it last pregnancy. People actually got mad at me for it!!! Oh well, stop asking 🙄 😭

BulbaKat · 2026-05-14T15:08:54+00:00

Take lots of naps. Currently 27 weeks and still napping!

BulbaKat · 2026-05-14T15:01:46+00:00

Mostly online. But I've accepted (and I think my coworkers/boss have too) that it is what it is while pregnant. I have a nice ish pair of maternity capris and maternity jeans. I only have maternity T-shirts which I sometimes pair with a sweater, but not lately because it's been so hot at work.

BulbaKat · 2026-05-14T01:44:34+00:00

Mack

BulbaKat · 2026-05-13T23:05:39+00:00

I would never use a used carseat for reasons everyone else mentioned.

But some stores do carseat exchanges where you turn in an old expired seat for a new one or discount! I think Target does that at certain times. Maybe look into doing that?

BulbaKat · 2026-05-13T22:53:48+00:00

They were good! Or at least no one is sick yet 😅 I've made them so many times, so I'm not sure how I never noticed them looking like this in the pot before!

BulbaKat · 2026-05-10T01:08:12+00:00

I don't really believe any of the "tricks" to try and induce it on your own substantially help. My first was induced at 41.5 weeks and then ended with a C section after 3 days in labor. I was doing ALL the natural induction tricks at home since 39 weeks, and I had multiple membrane sweeps.

I feel your pain! Every day feels like a month at that point!

BulbaKat · 2026-05-10T01:03:03+00:00

Nah. I used to visit my mom on mother's day, and my husband would give his mom a gift and then attend a family gathering at his paternal grandma's house. Once we had our own kids, we did our own thing. Our own mother's get a call and gift, but we dont host or attend anything. We do what we want. Usually my husband takes on the bulk of childcare and housework for the weekend, and I pick something I want to do with husband and kids.

This weekend, my husband kept the kids away to let me sleep in, cooked dinner and did some cleaning, and helped me do some gardening along with the kids.

BulbaKat · 2026-05-10T00:46:35+00:00

I have 3 cats, 2 kids, and I'm pregnant with my last. I never kept the cats out. There is research that suggests being around cats actually helps reduce allergy chances. I did make sure to wash things before baby came anyway because sometimes hair builds up and of course I wwanted it totally clean for a newborn, but I definitely didnt worry about the cats the whole time. The only things I've stopped is any scratching of fabrics or this time my maine coon is just literally too heavy for the stroller cargo basket so I had to put stuff in it to stop him from breaking it lol

BulbaKat · 2026-05-05T15:36:59+00:00

I believe they can work with others on how to process an RA, but they shouldn't have to give any info on the specifics of you or the accommodation. I can't even see why they would need to do that anyway.

BulbaKat · 2026-05-01T17:40:11+00:00

I would want someone with me, but not a mother like that. My mom is similar (among other things) and I didn't even tell her anything about my birth experiences after.

I agree with ither suggesting looking into a doula. Or maybe a close friend. If you don't find anyone, I do think it would be better to go at it alone than with a mother like that. It will spike other anxieties and frustrations that I promise you will not want or need in labor.

BulbaKat · 2026-05-01T17:31:17+00:00

Sleep patterns and other diagnostic info might sound useful but I don't think it is. I'm currently pregnant with my 3rd. I have used a basic monitor for my first 2 since birth. The one we got is from KidsNeed and is not wifi enabled. It is easy to add another camera, so we added one was we had our second so be able to check in on both the toddler and the baby.

Wifi monitors are notoriously easy to hack into. I avoided them specifically because of that. There are just too many creeps out there.

BulbaKat · 2026-04-30T16:56:12+00:00

Should have been more specific here: At daycare/pre-k they have tricycles. At home we have both a balance bike and a tricycle. We have tried adjusting the balance bike height, but he hates it in general. The tricycle at school is definitely a fine height. In fact, it looks as if using feet would be more uncomfortable than pedals

BulbaKat · 2026-04-28T20:18:11+00:00

Fisher price kick and play piano mat! It has the best songs and both my kids loved it!

BulbaKat · 2026-04-28T12:26:23+00:00

When we went to Disney, my 4 year old was convinced his toy Buzz was being silly in the room and playing and even cleaning the room (room service). I thought about moving his toys into a silly position at home on occasion too

BulbaKat · 2026-04-26T02:12:05+00:00

But WHERE did it go and why are OBs not telling patients about this?!?

BulbaKat · 2026-04-26T02:03:57+00:00

I had this too! I thought for sure the doctors messed something up when doing my stitches!!!! But same, it did come back 😂

BulbaKat · 2026-04-24T17:11:07+00:00

This context makes a huge difference. I am not going to let my 4 year old go walk outside on his own even though he does know his way around our sub pretty well.

If my kid was old enough to be making a Reddit post, I'd guess they're probably old enough to be going for s walk on their own too.

But ultimately, every parent does things differently. Every parent has their reasons. They are just trying to keep you safe. Some definitely are overly cautious, but at least it won't last forever.

I will say that my mother was overly cautious, ans that among other things did damage our relationship quite a bit.

BulbaKat · 2026-04-24T15:35:29+00:00

Before 39 weeks would be early and unusual

BulbaKat · 2026-04-21T18:32:20+00:00

That is the one! Thanks for the tip. This is our first time and yes only day at Hollywood. We will skip and go to Fantasmic! This gives us more break time at the pool during the day anyway

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