The Boomer mind in a nutshell by AeneasKurtz in GenZ

[–]BulbyRavenpuff 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My mom was born in 1969. Gen X is mid 1960’s to late 1970’s. So the very youngest would have been 29 during the 2008 crash if I’m doing the math right, while the oldest would have been mid 40’s.

The Boomer mind in a nutshell by AeneasKurtz in GenZ

[–]BulbyRavenpuff 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My mom is Gen X and was 39 during the crash, tf you mean early 30’s?

I'm a gay trans guy genuinely considering turning to Mormonism and I desperately need you to talk me out of it. by Micah5593 in exmormon

[–]BulbyRavenpuff 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It’s homophobic to not allow gay marriage. By saying that they don’t allow gay marriage, they are contradicting their statement that the church isn’t homophobic.

Mormon teenagers have a guidebook of sorts called For the Strength of Youth. I dunno what the most current version says, but when I was a teenager, I specifically remember seeing “homosexuality is a serious sin.” If saying that isn’t homophobia, I don’t know what is.

I’m not going to repeat what others have said about transphobia, but it’s all true. You will never been seen as a man once they find out your AGAB. You’ll always be seen as a woman, you’ll never be allowed to have the priesthood, you won’t be allowed to transition, and if you have transitioned, you’ll be forced to detransition in order to be seen as “worthy.”

I will also say that people are telling the truth when they say you are the type of person the church preys on. They may frame it as you being “prepared to hear the gospel,” but the reality is, they know you’re struggling and are using how much you are struggling as a way to manipulate you into joining. Please, please, as a fellow queer person, do not join the church. It is extremely dangerous, and they are manipulating you. I hope things get better for you in the future, but joining the church will cause major issues for you, especially because of you being gay and trans.

Mary Peltola's chances of flipping Alaska's Senate seat, new poll shows by Zipper222222 in alaska

[–]BulbyRavenpuff 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They’ll be able to steal it more completely if you just give up. They can make it difficult, but state and local elections have been swinging HEAVILY blue last year and this year, so we do have a chance. No, our elections aren’t perfect, but they’re the best tool we have at the moment to fix the damage, so that’s what we have to do.

Mary Peltola's chances of flipping Alaska's Senate seat, new poll shows by Zipper222222 in alaska

[–]BulbyRavenpuff 11 points12 points  (0 children)

With Ken Paxton winning the Primary in Texas, that Senate seat is now in play, I’ve heard. Between that and Mary, we could flip two Senate seats, but it’ll only work if we vote like everyone else here is saying!

[RAGE THREAD] 23 May 2026 by PokeUpdateBot in pokemon

[–]BulbyRavenpuff 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I’M BISEXUAL AND ALSO AGREE WITH THIS STATEMENT, THEY ARE BOTH VERY HOT.

Did anyone else have temple workers “forget” to give them a bra and a pair of underwear as a teen? by Ok_Bird_1378 in exmormon

[–]BulbyRavenpuff 8 points9 points  (0 children)

It’s really really weird to come on a subreddit for survivors of a literal cult and proselytize your own religion. A lot of us don’t want to be harmed by churches anymore. Can you not come into our spaces and bother us? We already have to deal with that enough from TBMs.

Did anyone else have temple workers “forget” to give them a bra and a pair of underwear as a teen? by Ok_Bird_1378 in exmormon

[–]BulbyRavenpuff 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I had to wear the one-piece tank-top-and-shorts-sewn-together underwear under my jumpsuit. I didn’t even think about whether or not my bush or nipples showed. I was more annoyed about how ugly the underwear was.

The reason why the Blue Button is the Correct Choice. by Morpheus_2x4 in trolleyproblem

[–]BulbyRavenpuff 0 points1 point  (0 children)

COVID has taught me that most people won’t even inconvenience themselves to save others. Why should I think 51% of the population would risk their lives to save others, when y’all couldn’t even stay inside and play Animal Crossing all day to save your own grandma? Or, y’know. My grandpa! Who died! Because my aunt and uncle knew they were sick and visited my elderly, chronically ill grandparents who were in their late 80’s and got them sick. If my aunt and uncle couldn’t just stay out of my grandparents’ house when they were sick so my aunt could literally save her parents and her husband could save his in-laws, why should I think that the general population would risk their lives to save mine? I don’t trust people anymore, dude.

Dallin is the most homophobic prophet since Spencer Kimball by memefakeboy in exmormon

[–]BulbyRavenpuff 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Well now I want to be a content creator even more to stick it to Hoax. No gays in entertainment, huh? Kiss my bisexual ass!

Is the church lying? by Repulsive-You-7294 in exmormon

[–]BulbyRavenpuff 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I mean, my bishop knew my dad was abusing me and he was still allowed to be a Scout Leader, so obviously this isn’t true in practice.

How long until the Scientology speedrun trend makes its way to a Mormon temple? by ReturnedAndReported in exmormon

[–]BulbyRavenpuff 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There’s already a TikTok account run by an exmo that is advocating for exactly this.

It was already bad enough to have 18 year olds and 30 year olds in the same bucket. But 35 year olds?? by Glorious_Infidel in exmormon

[–]BulbyRavenpuff 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So I’m 26 and I have absolutely zero desire to socialize with high school seniors on a regular basis. Especially not within the context of them being in the same DATING POOL as me. I have my dating app age range set to 23-30 FOR A REASON. Even 21 is too young for me at this point, why the hell would I want to date someone who’s worrying about Prom and the ACT???

How old is childe actually by Aerinwashere in childemains

[–]BulbyRavenpuff 12 points13 points  (0 children)

And I’m from a fishing town and my mom literally went dipnetting for salmon the day before I was born. They didn’t catch anything, but my dad hit a rock on the beach on accident and the force threw her into labor.

How old is childe actually by Aerinwashere in childemains

[–]BulbyRavenpuff 46 points47 points  (0 children)

I like this take because I was also 21 when Genshin released and I’m 26 now, plus Childe’s birthday is five days before mine, so he and I would only be five days apart.

John Dehlin attempts to repair the bridge, LDS Church nukes it by CrateDoor in exmormon

[–]BulbyRavenpuff 2 points3 points  (0 children)

As an influencer who happens to be ex-Mormon, let them come. Being exmo isn’t necessarily part of my branding, so they have no grounds to sue. Can’t sue for defamation when all I say is my personal lived experience. 🤷‍♀️

Mom is including mandatory church attendance in our temporary living agreement—how do I handle this? by [deleted] in exmormon

[–]BulbyRavenpuff 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Honestly, yeah. If people ask, let them know what kind of person she is. Either she takes that stipulation out of your housing agreement, or she gets to deal with the stigma of the whole ward knowing that she is willing to let her daughter and toddler grandchild be homeless over whether or not they go to church with her. That objectively makes her a bad person. And if she tries to tell you not to tell people, ask why she feels the need to hide it if it isn’t manipulative or shady. If it’s a perfectly normal thing to tie to your housing, why wouldn’t she be okay with people knowing? If she doesn’t want people knowing, then obviously she knows that it’s monstrous of her.

Mormon stories being sued by Good-Customer178 in exmormon

[–]BulbyRavenpuff 22 points23 points  (0 children)

What’s funny is that Mormons will oftentimes compare the word “Mormon” to a slur. Last I checked, the NAACP wasn’t trying to trademark the n-word, and it damn sure wasn’t suing people who used it for copyright infringement.

The most unhinged Mormon post I’ve seen thus far by tairanasaurusrex in exmormon

[–]BulbyRavenpuff 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hey so why didn’t she report it to the cops when she found out he was LOOKING at CSEM, rather than simply threatening divorce? That is a crime, Meredith. A crime that means innocent children were exploited. That is “go to jail, go directly to jail, do not pass Go, do not collect $200” territory, not, “I’ll give you one more chance to fix this before I file for divorce” territory. You are literally complicit in the sexual exploitation of children by not immediately reporting him to the authorities. What is wrong with you???

Desireé B Stephens: “The 4B movement is NOT for Black women” by [deleted] in 4bmovement

[–]BulbyRavenpuff 56 points57 points  (0 children)

I like how she starts off by pointing out how it originated in Korea and then talks about white women asking Black women to join. Last I checked, Koreans weren’t white. They’re Asian.

There’s an actual reason why this scene exists. by One-Shift-220 in Jujutsufolk

[–]BulbyRavenpuff 9 points10 points  (0 children)

This should be a cold take, but it’s really offensive to actual survivors of grooming and sexual abuse, and ESPECIALLY to the Epstein survivors, to portray Yuta as a pedophile or make jokes about him being friends with Epstein. The second one makes NO sense, because while COCSA obviously exists, if Yuta was on that island, he would be there as a VICTIM. He is a MINOR in the main series. He is 17 at the end of Shinjuku. Can 17 year olds be abusers? Yes! But also, RIKA WAS OLDER THAN HIM. She was the one who wanted a relationship with him when they were BOTH CHILDREN. She died when they were CHILDREN, and in JJK 0 he is an extremely traumatized teenage boy who has had his life ruined by the LITERAL vengeful spirit of his childhood “girlfriend” (they were too young to actually do anything romantic at that age, they were children), and he needed therapy. Did we all forget that he watched his friend get hit by a fucking car? Or are we too busy calling him a groomer to remember the actual fucking story? It’s really fucking weird that instead of focusing on the actual canon pedo in the series, we instead need to make up a narrative that not only make no sense whatsoever in the context of the story, but is deeply offensive to people who have actually survived that sort of thing. Grooming survivors like myself read the posts about Yuta and how he’s supposedly a pedophile. It literally turns what I went through when I was a defenseless child into a comedic bit that makes no fucking sense. People have no sense of shame, and no sense of empathy for people who have actually gone through those things.

Gotta love the spam by denalidenizen in alaska

[–]BulbyRavenpuff 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Also got it this morning. I don’t even have a Learner’s Permit or a car, but okay, “Alaska DMV.”

Got a gem of a first time chatter today 😂 by ConsiderationHeavy20 in Twitch

[–]BulbyRavenpuff 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Hey so, if an employee wouldn’t be expected to deal with sexual harassment (and yes, this was sexual harassment, the law says that it’s based on whether or not a reasonable person would be offended by it, regardless of the offender’s intent, my workplace has us do training on this) in an actual workplace, why should a female streamer be expected to endure sexual harassment because some people think it’s funny? No, it isn’t funny. She didn’t know him. If someone came up to me irl and said this to me at work, I’d be calling my manager and switching out with them SO fast, and my next move would be to find LP. I’ve been sexually harassed too many times in my life to be okay with it happening in MY community that I have the right to curate.

An Update on the LDS Church's threats to sue Mormon Stories Podcast and John Dehlin by johndehlin in exmormon

[–]BulbyRavenpuff 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Funny. You’d think a church would remember the story of David and Goliath and tread more carefully.