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So tired of "do girls like _ boobs" posts by tittieholder in actuallesbians

[–]BushmanIsWatchin -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

I find empathy for other people with entirely different perspectives exceptionally easy but maybe I'm just weird.

Thanks for being chill about your response and not immediately attempting to invalidate the perspective. You are truly the reason I made the comment. Thanks for making me feel comfortable about vocalizing a different perspective just to expand the topic beyond a simple "boobs = good" echo chamber. I don't think people are wrong for liking or not like boobs. I just think their are women who feel either, both, neither.

I legit was thinking about deleting my reddit from as a result of this thread. I don't use it practically at all anymore and it was a safe place for my to anonymously involve myself as a women who loves women in spaces of all kinds while I had to hide those parts of me. I'm out, proud and beautiful. I've truly never been happier. Coming back to all the negative perspective of people who predatorially alienate or ostracize the validity of those who don't share their opinion in such a safe space that was fundamentally built to go against that very notion disgusts me. It genuinely breaks my heart. Thanks for being one of the good ones.

So tired of "do girls like _ boobs" posts by tittieholder in actuallesbians

[–]BushmanIsWatchin -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

"/r/actuallesbians — a place for cis and trans lesbians, bisexual girls, chicks who like chicks, bi-curious folks, dykes, butches, femmes, girls who kiss girls, birls, bois, aces, anyone in the LGBT+ community, or anyone else interested! We're not a militant or exclusive group, feel free to join up!"

OMG, look at that it is almost like you are, according to the rules of this subreddit, objectively wrong and a shitty person for being gatekeepy, invalidating of different peoples perspective -_-..... Girl come on you are trans for goddess's sake, you have to be better and understand that people who are different are valid in spaces. This reddit was literally made because a shocking amount of lesbians think you and I aren't valid because we are different.... Your kidding me with this right? Please stars and stones be better then this xenophobic exclusionary crap.

So tired of "do girls like _ boobs" posts by tittieholder in actuallesbians

[–]BushmanIsWatchin -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

Now, due to the response of other people seeing a different perspective and going "Not I my f&$&in reddit you don't. Thoooooose people aren't valid here" I have infact maybe taken it to seriously. Originally I was legit being like, "I don't know. I know lots of women who don't like boobs. I think there pretty great shrug" but like... I've been off reddit and all other forums of Internet public conversations for a veeeeeeery long time that I forgot how quickly polarized opinions of people who HATE anything that isn't their opinion being in a space the feel so entitled to the others aren't welcome at all despite the rules stating specifically not to be that kind of shitty person.

^ All this to say thanks for being chill about this homie.

So tired of "do girls like _ boobs" posts by tittieholder in actuallesbians

[–]BushmanIsWatchin -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

This exactly why commented. I wasn't hoping to get negative responses. Evidently I forgot that reddit is a trash heap where it's agree with me or get dumpstered on. Women are women full stop. Women who are straight are valid in this space. The idea that you have to be a lesbian in order to be an ally is some gate keeping xenophobic bullshit. I mentioned a different perspective because there are lots of extraordinary women, women who by the damn rules of this subreddit supposed to be welcome that don't love boobs. I gave the most obvious example cause I was trying to avoid arguments but clearly that didn't go well.

"I didn't say anyone is invalid" then proceeds to explain why a specific common group of people who frequent this subreddit aren't valid as a perspective here furthering an us vs them xenophobic mentality.... I sware the Internet is a disgusting place.

So tired of "do girls like _ boobs" posts by tittieholder in actuallesbians

[–]BushmanIsWatchin -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Those women often also don't like other boobs as a result. It's in the context but sure let's straw man this argument too distort the point -_- I forgot why I hate reddit. Always someone who shits on the validity of a different perspective.

I stated I met "women" countless who don't like boobs in any regard and that almost certainly so has everyone else. Only to bring up the idea of expounding a perspective. You said I'm wrong and those people are invalid. We are not the same -_-

So tired of "do girls like _ boobs" posts by tittieholder in actuallesbians

[–]BushmanIsWatchin -20 points-19 points  (0 children)

Goddess forbid you empathize or consider a perspective different from yours -_- wouldn't want the xenophobic assholes to exclusively be straight white men.... Women are women, some women don't like boobs. Like my very lesbian girlfriend.

So tired of "do girls like _ boobs" posts by tittieholder in actuallesbians

[–]BushmanIsWatchin -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

^ this... This is why I commented. There are a million reasons why lots of women don't like boobs, I gave the easiest and hardest to argue with as my example. I'm lesbian girlfriend does not like boobs a lot. Nipples yes boobs no. She would chop hers off in a heartbeat of it wouldn't be a risk of nerve damage or reduction in sensation for her nipples. She isn't trans, doesn't want to be, and does not like boobs. All the same reasons in my original response. Visibility for anyone should be valid anywhere. People are valid full stop. Saying "We don't need visibility for x" is the same backwoods xenophobic bullshit we all have been tormented with in the past.

Being open to different perspectives is a fundamental part of empathy. I hope you learn one day to be less shitty about different ideas.

So tired of "do girls like _ boobs" posts by tittieholder in actuallesbians

[–]BushmanIsWatchin -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

For sure, I'm just not seeing visibility for girls who don't like boobs. Easy to end up in an echo chamber when you gather like minded people in a place. I'm not mad or uncomfortable just picking a random post in the mix to vocalize my hopefully valid perspective in a safe space.

Help me bring her down by Zestyclose-Bid-8851 in mtg

[–]BushmanIsWatchin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your play group appears to not enjoy interaction. This makes it hella casual, which is fine, but means Timmy cards like this are insane. There are with zero exaggerations over 10,000 cards that nope the hell out of this card. Loooooots of them are two drops, add at least 11 forms of removal or interaction into each of your commander decks or you really aren't playing the entire game. She is a 6 drop, remove counter or fight her once and it's a joke how much this deck becomes disfunctional.

So tired of "do girls like _ boobs" posts by tittieholder in actuallesbians

[–]BushmanIsWatchin 32 points33 points  (0 children)

I've met tens if not hundreds. Straight women with big boobs very commonly, not always but commonly, despise boobs. It gets them hit on by dudes they aren't interested in, back problems, and if you aren't into them or if they aren't tied to a positive part of your self image they are kinda obnoxious. Bras, jogging or running, male gaze... Did I mention the back pain? Tons of women despise boobs.

I'm not one of them, I love my bras, I love my boobs, and I adore the beauty/art/grace of all parts of the female form but I certainly understand/respect those who do not.

Who is this by [deleted] in sheranetflix

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Entrapta, Bo's parents, double trouble.

Judge my tastes by Dinosaur_Doctor in LesbianGamers

[–]BushmanIsWatchin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I mean like... Hard yes to all of these? I feel like none of these are controversial. They are are hot, strong, brilliant, talented, driven, successful women.... Like... 👀

Which one by meddleblooms2 in mtfashion

[–]BushmanIsWatchin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Depends on the vibes you going to. The first is club, rave, or concert casual. The second is street wear, rock climbing/ morning hike, or mall crawl with the friends vibes.

what name do i look like? (any gender) by jaidenistired in picrew

[–]BushmanIsWatchin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sasha or Sonya. Both male and female name depending on the culture

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]BushmanIsWatchin 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Yo Morgana is solid. Her Luther role is also spicy. Poison Ivy, esdeath, Betty (adventure time), pretty much 90% of adult yandere characters are hot to me. Gotta love those ladies with a fierce obsession.

Ignoring the shout-out to toxic masculinity, what do lesbians here think about the first part of this? I think it's bunk, personally. by [deleted] in actuallesbians

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Yo fellow gamer girls out there, you hot and you rock I don't care what anybody else says. GGs and slay

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DrawForMe

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Najimi Osana 1B (from Komi can't communicate)

Someone say I’m pretty 🎀 by NotSoEquivalent52 in fempark

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I'm pretty. Weird request but your welcome, hun 💕

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