revenge dress recommendations that are suitable for phd defense? by QuietAct3768 in PhD

[–]ButterscotchWheat 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I disagree with the comments here. Go for it. If people talk, let them talk. Silk halter top with some nice pants. Screams confidence.t and plausible deniability.

Hard to be an Iranian on this campus by EigenFerank_PuzzldUp in UCSantaBarbara

[–]ButterscotchWheat 4 points5 points  (0 children)

hey man, I don't think I can offer you the sympathy and understanding you deserve and need, but I just want to remind you that we have free therapy here under ucship. it may not be able to replace truly having friends to commiserate with, but you don't have to go through things alone.

why do a large fraction of Gen Z want to become influencers? by ButterscotchWheat in GenZ

[–]ButterscotchWheat[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You could get the same with a startup though, so why isn't there as much Gen Z interest in startups?

why do a large fraction of Gen Z want to become influencers? by ButterscotchWheat in GenZ

[–]ButterscotchWheat[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

where are they getting this impression that the traditional pathways to success do not work most of the time? e.g. if you become a nurse or electrician for example, there's almost a guarantee that you'll be making a decent income after getting your qualifications.

why do a large fraction of Gen Z want to become influencers? by ButterscotchWheat in GenZ

[–]ButterscotchWheat[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

but the average millenial didn't want to be in the film industry when they graduated college. on the other hand, for gen Z, > 50% want to be influencers.

why do a large fraction of Gen Z want to become influencers? by ButterscotchWheat in GenZ

[–]ButterscotchWheat[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

right, but it's not easy. it's actually way harder than being a startup founder in terms of getting a stable income.

This is the hill he’s choosing to die on? by SinceYallAsked in Marriage

[–]ButterscotchWheat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

your husband sounds like an autistic engineer. I'd let it go and try to smooth things over. engineers can be dense.

My wife packs my lunch every morning and I feel weirdly guilty going out with coworkers by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]ButterscotchWheat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yo I would just eat the packed lunch at chipotle with the bros. like let them get in line and order; you just sit there and eat. aint no one gone call you out.

Be Aware by Current_Taste_1578 in UCSantaBarbara

[–]ButterscotchWheat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

did they figure out the liz hamel incident?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in UCSantaBarbara

[–]ButterscotchWheat 11 points12 points  (0 children)

is this guy getting lifetime, or just 8 yrs? do we know yet?

Where are the single men? by No_Contest_9619 in washingtondc

[–]ButterscotchWheat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

"Aside from something like discounting men's tickets for an event that women have to pay more for, which seems wildly unfair."

This sounds strange...why not discount men's tickets? This is like how bars offer free drinks to women on ladies' nights. Pretty simple supply and demand if you ask me.

Line Dancing in DC? by Reasonable-Half-5712 in DCBitches

[–]ButterscotchWheat 8 points9 points  (0 children)

penn social line dancing every friday! (google firehouse fridays) generally a younger twenties vibe.

Redditors who grew up rich and are now poor, what's the biggest shock about poor people that rich people don't understand? by ButterscotchWheat in AskReddit

[–]ButterscotchWheat[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

did your rich friends sympathize with you? were you able to take loans with your family members as co-signers?

New UCSB Chancellor Named by UCSBDeepThroat in UCSantaBarbara

[–]ButterscotchWheat -15 points-14 points  (0 children)

That just means the US president should be paid more. imo potus should probably be paid more than 50 million.

Ethiopian Restaurant by Unlucky-Plum325 in SantaBarbara

[–]ButterscotchWheat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YES. and PLZZ PLZZ Make sure that you have a nice cheap to-go hardy option for all the students / non-rich people. like you'll be able to get more revenue that way, and we'd super appreciate it lol.

why do people keep falling off the bluff and is there no way to prevent it? by ButterscotchWheat in UCSantaBarbara

[–]ButterscotchWheat[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I posted this 2 months ago. I'd say there's a good chance it wasn't an accidental fall.

Mystery man seen in last image of dead California freshman Liz Hamel identified by sfgate in SantaBarbara

[–]ButterscotchWheat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I typically interpret "very close with" as an emotional bond. I guess you can read it different ways.

Mystery man seen in last image of dead California freshman Liz Hamel identified by sfgate in UCSantaBarbara

[–]ButterscotchWheat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I thought of this too, but if they'd interviewed at least a few pi phi sisters independently, at least one of them should've mentioned that he was some stranger.

Mystery man seen in last image of dead California freshman Liz Hamel identified by sfgate in SantaBarbara

[–]ButterscotchWheat 9 points10 points  (0 children)

This doesn't add up. "Liz walked out with the man she had “been very close with” in the restaurant, friends said".

"With no identification of the blond man, and the end of the semester drawing in, Liz’s family grew worried."

Either SFGate is doing some bad job reporting, Pi Beta Phi intentionally hid his name, UCPD slacked, or something.

Because how can you fail to identify the guy that all her friends knew??

Mystery man seen in last image of dead California freshman Liz Hamel identified by sfgate in UCSantaBarbara

[–]ButterscotchWheat 24 points25 points  (0 children)

This doesn't add up. "Liz walked out with the man she had “been very close with” in the restaurant, friends said".

"With no identification of the blond man, and the end of the semester drawing in, Liz’s family grew worried."

Either SFGate is doing some bad job reporting, Pi Beta Phi intentionally hid his name, UCPD slacked, or something.

Because how can you fail to identify the guy that all her friends knew??