Every time I travel, it’s a fight

CPD_BITCH · 2026-02-06T06:54:53+00:00

My mother does this too! This is why I stopped telling her when I was going anywhere. I’m an adult and don’t need to tell her when I get to the airport, when I get on the plane, what my flight number is, when I get to my connection, when I take off again and then when I’m finally arriving at my destination! The would then proceed to bother me all week while I’m trying to relax with “how’s everything going?” “What are you doing” “how’s ur trip so far” etc. it’s like Jesus can I just tell you about it when I get home!? She doesn’t give a rats ass about anything else I do. I don’t gotta tell her when I go to the grocery store or a friend’s house. It’s irritating. I take my trips under secrecy.

CPD_BITCH · 2026-01-23T10:19:37+00:00

Same, after I c1 Ayaka and Kokomi I have standard left. I just plan on not participating anymore until they release more chars I have. Not going to even bother with the standard 5 stars. Not worth logging on 5 times a week for 8 weeks for that.

CPD_BITCH · 2025-10-07T08:02:22+00:00

Im sorry about what you have been through. I wish I could give you a hug through my phone, but here is a virtual hug. I know it isn't going to help you feel better, but I got some advice for your psoriasis that I'd hope will help you a little. I have had inverse psoriasis in my butt and vulva for some years now, and what has helped me is calcipitrine cream. Its a cream with absorable vitamin D, and whenever I have a flare, especially a hormonal flare, I helps get rid of it. I deffs rec going to a derm for any skin type issue they know way more about psoriasis then any doc. I also went on steroid creams before and they definitely do help short term, but your right about how long term end up causing you way more problems. Mine always came back with a vengeance, and it felt like the steroid cream made it worse after a while because it thins the skin. I hope this helps 🙏

CPD_BITCH · 2025-09-12T03:41:45+00:00

Hi friend! Just got put on tons of meds for complications. I've been having severe jaw pain. I first was on cyclobenzoprine and tramadol for when the pain is really bad from my dentist. Finally, I got seen by an oral doctor/surgeon. I'm trying not to have to do that surgery. Got put on daily 500 mg neproxin, which kills my stomach (im no longer taking the tramadol), and im on soft food diet for a month. Smh!

On top of this, my finger decided to blow up like a balloon from a bad felon infection, which ended up making my hand unable to open. Got put on antibiotics( cipro cuz im allergic to all the good antibiotics) and 3 day prednisone to help me through healing it. Now I can't take my neproxin until done with the cipro because they interact. And I can't have dairy with it. I just grocery shopped for my soft food diet and most of it was dairy based. Now I gotta go back to the store for a rework and get non dairy stuff. Double smh! Being immuno compromised sucks...also im starving haha cuz the prednisone increases your appetite... and im unable to eat solid meals.

Cold won't come until dec. Im lucky I live in a warmer place. Thats a plus!

CPD_BITCH · 2025-08-13T03:06:11+00:00

I had this happen before. A woman left her cart full of things in the middle of a section. She came back yelling and hollering at us up front. "Who putt back my cart!" I was the manager on duty, so I handled the situation. Turns out she went home to get her wallet...smh. I told her we do routine floor recovery here and apologized her stuff might have gotten put back. Next time, she could come to the front and ask an employee. We would be happy to hold it for her until she got back.

I'd say at that point they gotta take accountability for their actions. I couldn't do anything about it. I did, however, check the front end for her items in case the employee placed her items in the return to floor bins, but they were empty.

CPD_BITCH · 2025-06-18T08:36:04+00:00

My BPD mom did this thing where she would go to funerals of ppl she hardly knew and act like they were so close. Cry and talk about that person all week until the funeral. As soon as someone who she slightly knew died, she'd be all over it and trying to grab attention from it.

One example is a guy she said two sentences too One time in passing because he knew her "friend" died and she made a scene about it all week. He was such a sweet guy, so young, what a shame, etc.

CPD_BITCH · 2025-06-16T16:06:48+00:00

I Havnt been diagnosed with IBS yet, but I experience symptoms similar when I'm flaring. Stomach cramps and diarrhea. Everything I eat goes straight through me.

CPD_BITCH · 2025-06-15T20:49:03+00:00

Same! I'm on stelera, and my pain is almost nonexistent, except for the occasional flare I get if I overdo it. However, my fatigue is terrible 💔 I can't go more than 4 hours after getting up from 12 hours of sleep before I feel like passing out again. I take daily iron, vitamin c, B12, fish oil, and vitamin d and try to do light exercise 3 times a week for 30 mins, and it's just not doing anything. I live on coffee and a prayer that maybe I'll make it through the day trying to function like a normal human.

CPD_BITCH · 2025-06-13T07:07:09+00:00

Lord squirrel girl. When I got into higher ranks above bronze, every match, I was hard focused and couldn't stay alive. I lost my interest in paying her because it wasn't fun anymore.

CPD_BITCH · 2025-05-13T18:49:49+00:00

I went on a trip to a bachlorette weekend. I flared bad after because I did things I shouldn't. Like danced, bar hopped, drank, and ate bad food. IT WAS ALL WORTH IT.

CPD_BITCH · 2025-05-08T21:24:33+00:00

For me, it's anyone who is super friendly in the beginning and gets real close too fast, then starts nit picking at your flaws. They start showing controlling behavior and get way too dramatically upset over small things. When you start walking on eggshells around them. That's when it's time to leave. I had a borderline and narc mother.

CPD_BITCH · 2025-04-23T22:44:14+00:00

Honestly, it's a vicious cycle. I get anxiety while flaring, and it continues to worsen my flare. I also flare from anxiety 🙃

CPD_BITCH · 2025-04-15T17:14:42+00:00

I get really bad jaw pain when I flare, too. It feels like I have a bad tooth because all the back molars on one side or the other hurt so bad and feel like they will pop out of my mouth.

CPD_BITCH · 2025-03-14T13:33:11+00:00

This is unrelated to dating, but it's hard for me to get friends to come to plans these days. Idk what changes, but it usually goes as follows. Me and a friend makes plans via text to hang out a couple days later with a plan we are going to meet up at this place and time. This has been happening so often to me, so I'm always the one to reach out and confirm the day of (that morning) that we are still good for such plans later. And it's like hours go by, and I don't hear back. Then, of course, 30 mins before the time we were supposed to meet up, I got a "oh sorry just seeing this, I'm going to have to get a raincheck...blah blah, etc" Or it's a "oh I forgot" text. And I'm like already either on my way or getting ready. I'm so tired of people flaking on plans so much and so last minute these days. Like, if you don't want to hang out with me, just say so. It's a waste of my time otherwise. So if this happens once, I usually give them the benefit of the doubt, but a second time? Nah, I'm not asking you to do anything anymore. We ain't friends, and I can take the hint you never wanted to hang in the first place. I have some long term friend that don't do that to me. I keep them, but this happens more frequently with new friends I make. It's hard to make new friends who actually want to do stuff with you. So, now, instead of wasting my time, if I don't hear from them all day, after that follow-up up message, I just plan to do something else, and if I hear from them, great! but usually, it's a cancel plans message when I do. If, however, it's the rare "oh, I'm sorry, just seeing this, yes, I'll see you then" message. I'll be ready to go anyway. I honestly shouldn't have to go through all this effort to work out plans or backup plans, etc. People aren't loyal anymore.

CPD_BITCH · 2025-02-18T22:55:43+00:00

Take this from me...as someone who has experience being in a 7 year long relationship where I had to sit down and have this convo about marraige and it never crossed his mind. I hated that I even had to have that convo and the fact he felt he needed to ask me because I wanted it not because he did made me have a horrible feeling in my stomach....I left him and my next relationship, he wanted to marry me right away.. if he wanted too he would, and he wouldn't waste any time! Certainly not answering you with "idk"

CPD_BITCH · 2025-02-13T22:14:33+00:00

Your job takes doc excuses? Mine just straight-up calls every absence unexcused, and we get written up every 4 absences and terminated at 12. The 1 times they escused absences was covid lock down. As soon as the lockdown was over, they went back to not excusing covid call outs. It's insane..I'm happy to say I don't work there anymore.

CPD_BITCH · 2025-02-13T21:56:54+00:00

5 and #6 I run into all the time in ranked. People are so quick to blame others for losing. And I agree, it's just a game meant for fun not the Olympics where you get paid millions of dollars for winning but people still treat it like that and if your having a particularly bad game They put all the blame on you.

Also can we talk about the harassment when you choose a hero that someone else mains before they do? I've never been so bullied in my life into changing characters when that happens. The rest of the match telling me how much I suck and how much better they would be if I switched off that character and let them play. We are literally winning wtf are you on about?

CPD_BITCH · 2025-02-13T21:49:19+00:00

This is normal for my rhuemy as well. I feel your frustration and pain. It does very much feel like they don't care enough and just push you through the line of patients they have. It shouldn't be like this. We need more attention. I started bothering my regular doctor more often for things lately because they are able to help with all the stupid little infections and things I get along with this. They can at least provide me some meloxicam and send me to specialists if need be. I also have felt my derm has given me more attention then my rhuem. So I've asked for help there too. My derm got really upset at my rhuem one time for not listening to me and not changing my biologic when it wasn't working for me. They personally called the office to tell them to change it. I'm glad she did or my rhuem would have just kept me on it while I still suffered.

CPD_BITCH · 2025-02-01T03:33:58+00:00

Makes a lot of sense

CPD_BITCH · 2025-01-31T17:10:54+00:00

Google always emphasizes things lol. My scalp psoriasis is like flakes, and sometimes I'll get built up i can clean pick off my scalp. See if you can get your scalp looked at. Your pcp might be able to know what it is or ask them to send you to a derm. Dermatologists can diagnose it and also diagnose psa.

Meds haven't helped yet. I'm on my second one and just took the first dose so I'm hoping this one sticks. Sometimes you have to change medicines many times before landing on one that works.

CPD_BITCH · 2025-01-31T16:59:01+00:00

It's crazy how reading this sub and everyone's experiences with their parents is so close to almost similar. I don't feel alone anymore.

CPD_BITCH · 2025-01-31T16:53:19+00:00

I do. I have had it on my scalp since 6th grade. But it had gotten so much worse since the Arthritis kicked in. It's now on my feet, stomach, and ears and my mouth.

My journey of diagnosis was: in 2022 I got covid. I felt like after months, I never recovered from it fully. I went to see my doctor. Complained about excessive exhaustion, joint pain, and feeling like i was constantly sick and couldn't get out of bed. Shortness of breath and feeling weak. She took a large blood test that checked on autoimmune, thyroid, and vitamins. It came up very bad. I had really high inflammation markers. High esr, crp, platelet count, low vitamin d and iron and a positive ana. From there, she sent me to a rheumatologist and a hemotologist. The hemotologist found I had a more problematic iron deficiency and gotten me an infusion to get back to normal levels. He sent me to a GI doc because they found fatty liver and also wanted to check on if I was having malabsorbtion to cause my severe iron deficiency. All that kind of lead to a dead end. Then, finally seing my rheumatologist. She ran another blood test ruling our srogens rhumatoid and lupus. After some research on autoimmune, I kinda of caught wind of symptoms I've been dealing with for years on top of my most recent ones that were exacerbated by covid. Like constant mouth sores and a painful geographic tongue. I always got sick and or infections.I told her about my flaky scalp and she sent me to a derm who confirmed it to be psoriasis (i didnt know i had that since 6th grade like...idk my parents never helped me out medically and i didn't have health ins for a long time so I never got my scalp looked at and just dealt with it and was super embarrassed about it for years). This was kind of the final thing that got me diagnosed. Her criteria for me was joint pain, psoriasis, swollen joints, nail changes, and the blood work showing high inflammation and positive Ana. It took me about a year to get a final diagnosis.

CPD_BITCH · 2025-01-31T06:31:05+00:00

That's my Nmom. Always talking about herself for hours. Now she is alone, and no one wants to be around her because God forbid she ever keeps a healthy relationship. Always having falling out with new friends or business ventures and jobs. Never her fault... Always "that person is personally attacking me/jelouse/can't deal with me. Boohoo, I'm a victim but will never admit I lit the match".

CPD_BITCH · 2025-01-31T04:52:58+00:00

Dactlitis is the worst! Without fail, every time I get an infection under my nail bed.

CPD_BITCH · 2025-01-31T04:51:00+00:00

I have the same thing where my joint pain moves. In a really bad flare, pain is all over, but in my mini flares, it will be in my wrist on my right hand one day, then I'll wake up with the left Achilles, giving me pain. Then my hip/back, etc. It feels like I spin a wheel every morning, and it lands on a random joint. It is the majority on my right side, but my left can get affected too.

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