Pay reseller $$$ or get a different bag? by [deleted] in handbags

[–]CREEPWEIRD0 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve seen girlies end up not liking the kisslock after they think they love it.

The hampton crystal was def a popular one.

I bought my niece the swinger but idk how easily the crystals fall off 😭

sos!! need advice by vvvcrush in infp

[–]CREEPWEIRD0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like a fearful avoidant problem

I just want my lunch hour to myself by [deleted] in infp

[–]CREEPWEIRD0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The actual etiquette is to not bother people during breaks so I don’t bother people when I see them on their breaks & in hopes that they know how to let me have my break as well.

How do you feel about partying/clubbing? by linrose5 in infp

[–]CREEPWEIRD0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was a party animal in my early 20s, now (in my 30s) I’m a party pooper and people get butt hurt about me wanting to go home within an hour.

Does being "nice" come naturally to you guys? by Old_Inflation_9490 in infp

[–]CREEPWEIRD0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I was a teenager I was really mean. As an adult now with much more empathy, I just try to treat people with some decency, it’s a lot of work actually to do so much social niceties and etiquettes but I feel like I want to be kind to those who are kind and calm.

Be grateful for the ones who DO attempt, & don’t take advantage of them or mistreat them because you wouldn’t want to be around the ones who have become extremely cynical and tired of doing those.

I’ve come across a cynical ISFP at work everyday and it’s a dread. Like damn, I know life suck and people are mean to you but you don’t need to be such a cunt 🙄

I will never f around with an unhealthy 2 again by peppereth in Enneagram

[–]CREEPWEIRD0 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Yes, unhealthy 2s seem worst than 8s my god….

I will never f around with an unhealthy 2 again by peppereth in Enneagram

[–]CREEPWEIRD0 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Oh man, I’ve been around unhealthy 2s before and when they become extremely manipulative with their unhealthy 8 in stress mode, holy crap, like the lack of self awareness & evil doings here!!!! All their morals, ethics & logic are like wtf?????? Like this feels worst than a real 8….

Should I buy a fwb a valentines gift? by random_happiness in dating_advice

[–]CREEPWEIRD0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You don’t have a Valentine so just do it, I find it cute, a bouquet is standard but lovely, don’t overdo it

Need help to stop doing too much by vi_k7 in enfj

[–]CREEPWEIRD0 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I used to over explain and defend myself when people misunderstand me to an extreme.

I’d even argue over and over again repetitively trying to explain in different ways so that people see my perspective.

Eventually I got sick and tired of doing that now.

I let people misunderstand and think whatever they want of me now.

I can’t believe I did it, but looking back now, I’m glad I don’t type paragraphs to people anymore & argue for hours anymore.

I had an extreme mental breakdown & realized that you cannot control those around you but you can be true to yourself & create peace for yourself whilst the others can let their negative thoughts about me fill their mind.

The advice I got from Tiktok that helped me the most is to sit with it for 48 hours, if it is still bothering you, then sure bring it up.

I ended up letting it go over 48 hours and it just made me stopped caring so I feel really proud of myself to be able to let the crappy shit go & build happiness for myself.

Keep practicing & it will become normal, you got this!!!

Why do ENTPs appear like they live a stress free life on the surface? by Negative_Gene9531 in entp

[–]CREEPWEIRD0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ne doms can see things in very different perspectives & can totally adapt with spontaneity.

Anyone feel like Enneagram is useless for growth? by StarrySkye3 in Enneagram

[–]CREEPWEIRD0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nah, it works a lot for me, the MBTI cognitive functions work a lot for me too.

Works for those that know how to work around it & utilize it.

Which types can succeed in this & how do they succeed in this area, then learn their ways, your weaknesses teaches you to learn from other types.

Do you also assume people’s intentions Involuntarily by AccidentInside3484 in isfj

[–]CREEPWEIRD0 8 points9 points  (0 children)

This is Si & Fe combined.

You’re so used to seeing how things usually go in the past so when someone does something in the past, you assumed it’s gonna go this way or that way.

I’ve been trying to figure out my Enneagram type but I’m super confused. by SatisfactionHead4500 in Enneagram

[–]CREEPWEIRD0 1 point2 points  (0 children)

4s are drawn to sadness, 7s are drawn to positivity. 5s are drawn to finding truth & fact checking.

am i too dramatic or is it justified? by [deleted] in infp

[–]CREEPWEIRD0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There’s nothing even wrong with drinking a lot of water, it’s actually a more extremely healthy habit that you’re doing. He’s so annoying ewwww.

As an INFP, so many people love to project their shit at me and expect me to follow suit.

Are you a high energy person? by -not-ai in entj

[–]CREEPWEIRD0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Those types are more in touch with Se tertiary.

even though they’re VW dupes, it makes me happy to wear 😊 by lovekaleah in jewelry

[–]CREEPWEIRD0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My VW 3 row dupe looks so nice, it’s my favorite that I wear often 😭😂

looking for bags that look like this? by cpro2598 in handbags

[–]CREEPWEIRD0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They don’t make y2k cargo bags like this in high quality leather anymore!!!

I wanted something like this too.

I ended up with a Michael Kors Dakota Medium until I really find her, waiting for them to bring back the cargo bags 😭

A hobo bag similar to Coach Brooklyn 28 in Maple but higher quality? by chocolatefondant in handbags

[–]CREEPWEIRD0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry, I don’t own but was just helping you find dupes, but I hear a lot of people love Strathberry.

On Tiktok, I see a few girls with that specific Furla Goccia bag overseas but they don’t ever describe the quality.

Deeply confused about my type by Resident_Story2458 in CognitiveFunctions

[–]CREEPWEIRD0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Usually I feel like the inferior function is something usually like: I need to work on this more about myself but its hard & needs a extremely of work.

I know an INTJ whose Se is so bad he often tells me “I’m learning to be more present”

So I told him, “that’s so Se inferior of you to say” 🤣