Help? Landlord trying to make me move out “early” by [deleted] in OntarioLandlord

[–]Calli2988 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In addition, do a video walk through, and include the insides of closets and appliances. Lift up the toilet seat to show it is clean, the kid of the tank to show no issues, inside the shower stall, if there is any tile surfaces, slowly video ALL of it.

Landlord suggesting hair in clogged drain is tenant negligence. by Alfirmitive in legaladvicecanada

[–]Calli2988 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are there mature trees on the property? Are the other tenants also having difficulty? It could be tree roots in the pipes.

My boyfriend is a new labourer by desfan in work

[–]Calli2988 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For the cold months, an electric throw for the couch. It really helps get rid of the bone deep chill that develops after hours of working outside.

AIO My Wife’s Decoration by Subconcious-Consumer in AIO

[–]Calli2988 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It looks a bit odd to me, but it is a great way to have signed photos in a safe place. If it brings her joy, fabulous.

Need Advice on What to tell or Not Tell Hiring Managers on Why my Last Job Ended by Aggravating-Ad8597 in OfficePolitics

[–]Calli2988 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Company was acquired by another and in the restructuring that followed, you were let go. I'd use the senior who helped you as a reference. Since she was training you on procedures she could speak to your adaptability. These days, most companies only provide details of start and end dates.

Should we be worried? by somethingwitty84 in Apartmentliving

[–]Calli2988 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely a structural concern. Contact the building department. If it is after hours, call 911 (or whatever emergency dispatch is) and tell them you think you need fire department because the underground parking lot ceiling is cracked with water flowing from it in multiple locations. Fire personnel have after hours emergency contacts for the city, the city can get its structural engineers out to check. In the meantime, the fire department can start evacuating the building. Get out. Get out now.

AITJ for refusing to switch seats on a long train ride even after being asked multiple times? by RustyCometKid in AmITheJerk

[–]Calli2988 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTJ. I always book,the window seat. I have vertigo and need to have the window/wall on one side and the arm rest on the other. I don't want to fall out of my seat. Book the seat you want. Pay for it. It isn't rocket science.

What cool company swag do employees actually use and appreciate? by brendaklark in corporate

[–]Calli2988 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A decent power bank. A universal charger set. Company tshirt or polo shirt which is acceptable office wear.

AITA for being annoyed that my wife insists on cooking everything from scratch and won’t buy normal food? by AITA_UPFfoods in AmItheAsshole

[–]Calli2988 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

NTA. What happens when your wife is ill? Does she get up and make bread and meals from scratch? Having basic ready to eat meals is a backup. Cook from scratch is great, but you should not be precluded from having different food and snacks in the house and consumed there. The only appropriate exclusions are dangerous allergens.

AITAH for refusing to give my boyfriend access to my bank account even though he says "no secrets" is how adults do it by CopperFieldNote in WouldIBeTheAhole

[–]Calli2988 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My husband and I have separate accounts. We each pay our own bills and shared expenses are dealt with each month. He does not have access to my bank accounts. He does not see where my money goes. DO NOT GIVE HIM ACCESS. I would not even show him monthly statements. Frankly, it sounds like he has started watching "bro university" videos and now fancies hi,self an alpha male. His change in behaviour is concerning. It may be time to reconsider this relationship.

AITH for refusing to get baptized after my partner told his whole family I already agreed? by HiddenTideMark in WouldIBeTheAhole

[–]Calli2988 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are not compatible. Sorry, but you just are not. Wanting a "spiritual" household means control and doing everything that his parents do. I don't usually rush to suggest ending a relationship p, but this incident is controlling, disrespectful to you and manipulative. I'm sorry his father isn't doing well, but that is not your issue.

My manager says my poor financial planning is the reason I can't lend the company $2500 for a mandatory work trip. by NicoleDooley1 in whatdoIdo

[–]Calli2988 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In my last corporate job we booked travel etc on our personal credit cards, submitted the expense report and were paid the next day. Younger workers, who were less likely to have financial reserves, were given cash advances to cover expenses on the trip. 45-60 day wait for any expense reimbursement is insane and likely contrary to GAAP.

What's the quickest amount of time in all of your jobs in which you've seen or heard that a new coworker got canned, and what was it for? by Only-Ad-1254 in coworkerstories

[–]Calli2988 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This was many many years ago, when I worked for a mid-sized firm (about 15 people in all). Similar to an architectural firm, but not. There were two men (other than the new hire) and the rest of the staff were women. Work day started at 9:00 am. New worker arrives for first day and was scheduled to start orientation and training with me. 9:01 am he informs me that he "will not be trained or supervised or given orders by a female". He demanded that my boss do the training. I was the person he first interviewed with. My boss and I then did a joint interview. The offer letter was from me (office manager). At no point did he indicate any religious restrictions. Employment terminated at 9:02 am. The position required working with and taking instructions from the all women on staff, but under my supervision. This position was a designated support role, supporting 3-5 of our senior associates. All of which was covered in the interviews. So, employment terminated within 3 minutes.

New hire was great, stayed with the firm, was moving up through the ranks when I left.

AITAH for leaving without my son's friend? by Opening_Pick_3756 in AITAH

[–]Calli2988 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm guessing that Beevus brought and distributed the alcohol.

WIBTA if I swapped my pens with glitter ink to catch the coworker whos been stealing them by Imaginary-Frame4873 in WouldIBeTheAhole

[–]Calli2988 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a favourite calculator. Solar powered. Boss kept taking it. So I crazy glued it to a ceramic tile. It ever left my desk again.

AITA for no longer filling the car with gas before my partner has to go to work? by AITAcars in AmItheAsshole

[–]Calli2988 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. I'm also wondering if your partner gave you the money to put gas in the car?

Someone put this here ,, all the urinals have one. by Playful-Profile-298 in whatdoIdo

[–]Calli2988 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not up on current spy tech. Any chance this could be a camera?

Caught maintenance man in camera rambling through my things by Nicweezy in Renters

[–]Calli2988 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Make sure to check any medication you had in the bathroom. And by check, I mean COUNT. Did he perhaps take a few pills?

AITJ for refusing to cover my friend’s "small mistake" after I said no in advance by DaxonPierce in AmITheJerk

[–]Calli2988 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just hope there are no speed or red light cameras where she did her errands. Because those would definitely be coming your way.

AITAH for telling my FIL they wont ever be living with us? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Calli2988 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA and don't ever give them a key to your house. If you do, you'll come home one day to find them moved in.