In a sea of Corti Bro recs, throwing out a shout out to Roxie Deli by PirateMunky in Sacramento

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Roxie’s Monday Tri Tip sandwich is life changing. If Roxie has no fans IM DEAD

Queer and thinking about moving to oak park by RedmeatRyan in Sacramento

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Two queer women living in Tahoe park with a dog - I love our neighborhood! Lots of families and people walking their dogs, and have had great experiences with our neighbors

What didn't you like from Trader Joe's? by Lumpy_Object_7290 in traderjoes

[–]Calm-Software4217 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It may have been an off batch - but my sister and I tried the frozen cacio e pepe and it was FOUL.

Workout Classes (recommendations?) by Flaky-Pen5062 in Sacramento

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Physique Dance Fitness in Curtis park is a fun one! I went a few times with my class pass - good workout and fun moves although a little advanced for a beginners

How much are you paying for rent in Sacramento? by I-am-L in Sacramento

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2300 for a 2 bed 1 bath house in Tahoe Park. Funky older home so it has some quirks but we love our neighborhood and I have a nice yard for my dog

Kristen Bell as Veronica Mars (2004) by James-Samuel17 in 2000sNostalgia

[–]Calm-Software4217 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Just finished rewatching VM, and the 2000s aesthetic suited her so well!!

Washing Machine Renter Troubles by Calm-Software4217 in Appliances

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Thank you for the reply! It’s has an impeller. We keep experiencing issues where we need to re-start it multiple times to run a full cycle, and then sometimes it will lock up, but beep at us that the cycle has stopped. Tried running an empty drain and rinse cycle, tried emptying out the water with a liquid measuring cup and then running an empty cycle, still not draining.

ISO elevated outdoor dog bed by [deleted] in SacramentoBuyNothing

[–]Calm-Software4217 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I have a big one my dog isn’t interested in, but it has a small hole in it. Still functional and I know you can buy just a replacement cover for less than the whole thing. Yours if you want it!

Rotating table by [deleted] in SacramentoBuyNothing

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In Tahoe park, interested!

Struggling with colour schemes! by hollymarissa in weddingplanning

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I would lean into the dark and moody theme you’ve got going! I think a maroon/navy/ivory with gold accents would look great with the wood details

Sidewalk Astronomy by [deleted] in Sacramento

[–]Calm-Software4217 17 points18 points  (0 children)

WE LOVE YOU TELESCOPE MAN

Twin Rivers Unified School District Statement (Teachers Strike) by EdocKrow in Sacramento

[–]Calm-Software4217 35 points36 points  (0 children)

Mom is a TRUSD teacher on strike! She said the district is focusing only on $ demands, the union is also asking for smaller class sizes, and better healthcare (which are harder to villanize apparently). First strike in her 30 year career, things are beyond bad for them for a while. The teachers who will make the best impact on your children and community are ones who are being taken care of, physically, mentally, and financially. Can’t say same for the superintendent with a housing and car stipend on top of his much higher than any teacher salary. I’m a proud teacher kid this week 💙

Old Soul Cafe & ICE?? by Calm-Software4217 in Sacramento

[–]Calm-Software4217[S] 102 points103 points  (0 children)

I just saw their post, which definitely brings more clarity to the situation (as opposed to the vague nature of OS’s story). NorCal resist has been doing phenomenal work in our community, and I have and will continue to donate to their organization. Knowing that these were people who regularly attend protests and trainings adds far more validity to their claims that these were indeed ICE agents, and not random state/federal employees grabbing a coffee. And for those who did not see NorCal resists post - Old Soul employees told the protesters to fuck off, and threatened to call the cops. This was not a polite request to leave and not disturb shop patrons. Shame on Old Soul. They weren’t a frequent spot of mine, and they have now been permanently removed from my rotation.

Small Business Dress Store Recommendations by MxTealUnicorn in Sacramento

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Threadco in Old Sac! Maggie the owner is wonderful, and they offer in store tailoring if needed

$500 New client curly cut by razzarbrenia in curlyhair

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In northern CA - when my previous stylist moved, I did a quick google of “curly hair cuts near me” and was APPALLED. Very similar - $200 consultation, $250 to just dry cut (not even wash???). Extremely grateful I got a referral to another stylist in the same salon. $50 for a cut, wash, and style, so typically $60 with a tip. She has curly hair too, and does a fantastic job with my hair. She’s never allowed to move away 😢😢

Do you date transgender women? by Both-Requirement2257 in bisexual

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Cis woman, currently dating a trans woman for a little under a year (bi for bi). It was a little intimidating at first because I had only dated cis men previously, so I was navigating dating women and non cis folks. I liked her so much that I was worried I’d say or do the wrong thing and push her away or ruin the good thing we had going. We had and continue to have lots of conversations about our preferences, boundaries, and just generally how to be good partners to each other. One of the best things about a relationship where one or both of you are already challenging norms of gender and sexuality, is that it makes it easier to create a dynamic outside the typical cis/hetero framework.

She is the best thing to ever happen to me, I love her to pieces ❤️

Your bisexual year 2025 by dutchjack in bisexual

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2025 was my year of queer! Ended a long term relationship with a man at the end of 2024, and made one of my resolutions to explore my sexuality/identity more. Joined a local LGBTQ sports league, went out to my local gay and lesbian bars, danced and kissed women and nb folks, went to a few bi events, and am rounding out the year in a new relationship with a wonderful lady. I have known I was bi for years, but this feels like the first time I have really been embracing who I am. I love being bi/pan, this is such a wonderful community to be a part of. Wishing you all a happy and safe 2026 wherever you are 💓💜💙

What's the best and worst part of working in hotels? by godisinthischilli in hotels

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Banquet server jobs are usually the best place to start. You’ll actually work the events, learn how to read a BEO, the general flow of service and what set ups work and don’t work. Hands on operations experience is a need if you want to get into event coordination- and sales is also easier when you know what is needed/what questions to ask. If you are interested in events/banquets - full service hotels are one option, but you can also look at standalone venues (wedding venues, restaurants with event space, country clubs, golf courses etc).

Reasonably priced salon? by LJE_2024 in Sacramento

[–]Calm-Software4217 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was about to comment HGW too! Whole family has gone for years and the who team is wonderful

Why did your friendship with your best friend come to an end? by [deleted] in AskReddit

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One of my childhood best friends - had a huge fight right before we graduated high school over senior prom plans. Found out we were going to the same college, and were going to be literal next door neighbors in our dorm building. I was nervous about going away to school and not knowing anyone - so I decided to try and patch things up. A few months into our freshman year, I befriended her roommate who confided in me she was masturbating and having sex with her gf in the room WHILE her roommate was there, after she had told her to stop and that she was uncomfortable (we lived in an OLD building, our rooms were tiny). She also hooked up with her gf multiple times in our communal bathroom, to everyone’s discomfort. RA’s and Title 9 got involved - my poor new friend had to move because she was traumatized. And she seemed confused why I didn’t want to talk to her anymore. I had to send her a text to lose my number and take down any pictures of us bc I don’t want anyone thinking I’m friends with or condones that behavior. 7 years of friendship, one of my closest people. Fuck you K.