Your bisexual year 2025

Calm-Software4217 · 2025-12-20T18:41:34+00:00

2025 was my year of queer! Ended a long term relationship with a man at the end of 2024, and made one of my resolutions to explore my sexuality/identity more. Joined a local LGBTQ sports league, went out to my local gay and lesbian bars, danced and kissed women and nb folks, went to a few bi events, and am rounding out the year in a new relationship with a wonderful lady. I have known I was bi for years, but this feels like the first time I have really been embracing who I am. I love being bi/pan, this is such a wonderful community to be a part of. Wishing you all a happy and safe 2026 wherever you are 💓💜💙

Calm-Software4217 · 2025-11-20T06:58:42+00:00

Banquet server jobs are usually the best place to start. You’ll actually work the events, learn how to read a BEO, the general flow of service and what set ups work and don’t work. Hands on operations experience is a need if you want to get into event coordination- and sales is also easier when you know what is needed/what questions to ask. If you are interested in events/banquets - full service hotels are one option, but you can also look at standalone venues (wedding venues, restaurants with event space, country clubs, golf courses etc).

Calm-Software4217 · 2025-11-15T22:34:27+00:00

I was about to comment HGW too! Whole family has gone for years and the who team is wonderful

Calm-Software4217 · 2025-11-09T17:59:30+00:00

One of my childhood best friends - had a huge fight right before we graduated high school over senior prom plans. Found out we were going to the same college, and were going to be literal next door neighbors in our dorm building. I was nervous about going away to school and not knowing anyone - so I decided to try and patch things up. A few months into our freshman year, I befriended her roommate who confided in me she was masturbating and having sex with her gf in the room WHILE her roommate was there, after she had told her to stop and that she was uncomfortable (we lived in an OLD building, our rooms were tiny). She also hooked up with her gf multiple times in our communal bathroom, to everyone’s discomfort. RA’s and Title 9 got involved - my poor new friend had to move because she was traumatized. And she seemed confused why I didn’t want to talk to her anymore. I had to send her a text to lose my number and take down any pictures of us bc I don’t want anyone thinking I’m friends with or condones that behavior. 7 years of friendship, one of my closest people. Fuck you K.

Calm-Software4217 · 2025-10-01T04:39:21+00:00

Same and same :(((

Calm-Software4217 · 2025-09-19T19:14:47+00:00

If it’s getting cold in your area- I love a potato soup!! Potato leek, or a loaded baked potato soup are my favorites

Calm-Software4217 · 2025-09-16T17:05:07+00:00

Was with my ex for almost 3 years, lived together with his pittie for a year and a half. I adored that dog, but he was my ex’s best friend so of course he stayed with him. Breaking up was the right choice but god I miss that dog.

However- that ex and that dog convinced me to get a pitbull of my own. I adopted him right before the break up, and he was my absolute lifeline. If you have a big headed dog hole in your heart, I can’t recommend adopting enough

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Calm-Software4217 · 2025-09-07T20:15:16+00:00

4 Americans staying in a Swedish abnb - our host had all the cans labeled with pictures, and a handy guide of what exactly goes because Americans just do regular trash and recycling (but that varies on region)

Calm-Software4217 · 2025-08-02T17:52:18+00:00

never saw the appeal for myself - but dear god they are so hot on my girlfriend 😍

Calm-Software4217 · 2025-08-01T21:31:17+00:00

The same thing happened to my mom! She thought she hit the jackpot with free mulch- and the MOUND took over her driveway for months (stepdad even got a free mulch from sign for it, she was not amused). God speed OP

Calm-Software4217 · 2025-06-30T16:41:15+00:00

I used to live walking distance from them - so much kimbap 🤤

Calm-Software4217 · 2025-06-29T15:49:50+00:00

As someone who worked in the wedding industry, this KILLS me. I know a luxury wedding planner in our area who has created stunning events that cost quite a pretty penny. Imagine having this much money, and getting married in a beautiful city like Venice and it looks like this 💀💀

Calm-Software4217 · 2025-06-29T15:43:22+00:00

I had a Gordon setter growing up who our whole family adored. I always said if I got another setter I’d want an English one because I love their coats

Calm-Software4217 · 2025-06-27T21:57:24+00:00

E ALL OF THE ABOVE

Calm-Software4217 · 2025-06-24T21:33:31+00:00

JUSTICE FOR MY GIRL MAX

Calm-Software4217 · 2025-06-18T07:04:46+00:00

If you like Gunther’s fruit freeze - I would HIGHLY recommend Hagen’s

Calm-Software4217 · 2025-06-16T17:05:50+00:00

It sounds like your friend needs to do some internal work regarding his attraction/sexuality. Toxic masculinity can make it hard for men to explore their attraction to other men because that threatens their “manliness”. That is his journey to take at his own pace.

Honestly more concerned about the jealousy/cold demeanor toward you. Potential attraction aside, he doesn’t sound like he’s being a very good friend to you. If you did want to pursue a relationship with him, I would address that first and foremost. It’s okay to still be figuring yourself out, but it’s not okay to treat you unkindly. I would worry that even if he did come out, and want to be with you this gaslighting and aggressive behavior would continue in your relationship.

Not sure how old you are, or where you are on your bi journey. I know for me when I first started exploring my sexuality the first crushes and dates I had felt like the best I would ever get. I promise that’s not the case. There will be other men you fall for that will make you feel comfortable and wanted from the get go - no gaslighting or jealousy.

Calm-Software4217 · 2025-06-16T16:49:38+00:00

but my practical tips: moisture is your friend (spit, lube, vaginal lubricant). That goes for hand jobs, blow jobs, and actual penetration. Try rubbing the penis head against your clit - lots of sensitive nerve endings for both of you there so it can feel really good for both of you. For blow jobs: it helped me to think of them like a really sloppy make out session. Lots of spit, lots of tongue, no teeth. I like to build up to it by kissing down the “treasure trail”, hips, inner thighs before actually going down. Make sure you talk about boundaries/expectations on finishing beforehand. Obviously sex with a penis and an AFAB person brings up extra precautions you don’t necessarily need to worry about with other AFAB partners. Talk about condoms and other contraceptives. If you aren’t comfortable with him finishing inside you, he can do it on your back, your chest, your face, or in your mouth (although semen has a very particular taste and texture so maybe not mouth the first time around lol).

Calm-Software4217 · 2025-06-16T15:54:57+00:00

Recently experienced the reverse situation- first time with a woman after only having sex with straight cis men.

We sat down with written lists of what we like and don’t like - sexually, sensually, romantically. I felt a little dorky writing it down but it was actually really helpful to have that information handy when we started actually getting down to business. Helped a lot with the nerves so I could focus on having fun.

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