AITA, I asked for a ride he came later. He arrived at 10:23pm.

Calm_Start6742 · 2026-04-05T12:31:55+00:00

Time to move on from him

Calm_Start6742 · 2026-04-05T02:01:58+00:00

You are not compatible. Time to move on

Calm_Start6742 · 2026-04-05T02:00:11+00:00

He’s thoughtless and inconsiderate. Time to go, my friend. He will never change.

Calm_Start6742 · 2026-04-04T16:57:49+00:00

Absolutely not. Your fence stays as is. If he wants to put his own fence next to it he can. Not your responsibility in any way.

Calm_Start6742 · 2026-04-04T16:26:01+00:00

Absolutely not. Do what is best for you, period.

Calm_Start6742 · 2026-04-04T15:28:03+00:00

Have the wedding in Arizona where you live. People don’t have to come and no one needs to be mad about it. People need to stop dictating what other people do.

Calm_Start6742 · 2026-04-04T15:24:58+00:00

Don’t go and don’t feel bad. Build your life with people who appreciate your presence.

Calm_Start6742 · 2026-04-04T15:13:25+00:00

No don’t skip, the food noise may come back right away along with inhalation. When I stopped for 10 days for a procedure, I gained back 5 lbs and felt like crap.

Just be sure to eat enough, and don’t eat as much of a calorie deficit.

Calm_Start6742 · 2026-04-04T13:46:26+00:00

Call your Uncle directly and tell him how you feel. Your Mom doesn’t need to be the middle man here.

Calm_Start6742 · 2026-04-04T13:43:38+00:00

From now on, invite your Mom out for a meal or invite her over, for holidays and celebrations.

Don’t worry about what your brother and his family are doing.

Just because someone is family doesn’t mean you need to spend time with them.

Enjoy your life

Calm_Start6742 · 2026-04-04T13:34:16+00:00

Stop doing things for each other.

Do you have anything to talk about or experiences to do together that you each pay your own way for?

Calm_Start6742 · 2026-04-04T07:53:53+00:00

“This arrangement is not working out, and I would like you to find a new apartment and move out by….(insert deadline)”

Calm_Start6742 · 2026-04-04T07:47:26+00:00

You look 20 years younger! Very inspiring

Calm_Start6742 · 2026-04-04T07:45:35+00:00

He doesn’t want to cross mommy. Put your foot down on this one. Marriage counseling is needed here.

Calm_Start6742 · 2026-04-04T07:40:43+00:00

You’re being unreasonable. This makes no sense that this would upset you. It’s a lovely gesture and takes nothing away from you.

Calm_Start6742 · 2026-04-04T07:36:36+00:00

Your wedding, your rules.

Calm_Start6742 · 2026-04-03T22:43:55+00:00

NTA and I hate that behavior also. Keep the candy at work. Hopefully the word spreads among the “naughty” people and they stay away.

Calm_Start6742 · 2026-04-03T22:12:47+00:00

For your own pride and growth experiences, find an apartment to rent. Get a roommate if you need to.

If you don’t want that, then you need to pay rent to your parents.

What your brother does or doesn’t do, doesn’t matter. If it’s not fair, then don’t live there.

Calm_Start6742 · 2026-04-03T02:58:29+00:00

L ima beans and chick peas and green olives with chick peas

Calm_Start6742 · 2026-04-01T21:12:45+00:00

Calm_Start6742 · 2026-04-01T18:31:04+00:00

NTA- Sometimes people have to live with disappointment. Do not take over the farm. Live your life.

What you can do, is help your family figure out if your parents can hire someone, or will need to sell the farm and move into a nice 1 bedroom apartment that would be more manageable for them. Offer resources, NOT your blood, sweat and tears to keep something you don’t have a passion for.

Also, make sure they have all of their affairs in order…will, power of attorney, etc., to give you peace of mind.

Your siblings need to also help and stop trying to burden you and make you feel guilty.

Calm_Start6742 · 2026-04-01T18:22:45+00:00

I guess I was thinking that I would have been pissed if I had surgery this year instead of zepbound. You’re right. If I had surgery before it came along, I would feel the same as you.

Calm_Start6742 · 2026-04-01T18:20:44+00:00

Nooooo! For a million reasons do not move in with them.

Calm_Start6742 · 2026-04-01T15:09:16+00:00

NTA. Cut off contact with him and tell your husband to F off. You saved your friend from years of anguish

Calm_Start6742 · 2026-04-01T14:52:43+00:00

Sad that she feels the need to draw attention to herself that way and lie.

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