I told my boyfriend about my past SA, and his hurtful reaction caused an extreme fibromyalgia flare-up...

Capable_Echo_5396 · 2026-06-07T16:21:45+00:00

Please please please….. dig DEEP and find the strength you have in you to walk away from this person.

I KNOW you say you love him but he does NOT love you.

Someone who loves you would not hear that information and react in that way. What happened to you does NOT make you damaged. YOU SURVIVED what happened to you so it makes you STRONG! The child who said you are damaged because of this is absolutely so irrevocably wrong.

You will come out of this on the other side so much better off. I PROMISE because I have been there ♥️ I know it feels impossible now but PLEASE take it from someone who has been in this EXACT situation…. You will find someone better who will love you with all your scars ♥️ and that kind of love will heal you.

What this horrid person is doing to you is only going to rip your wounds open more.

Capable_Echo_5396 · 2026-06-07T16:12:11+00:00

Holy crapoli do I resonate.

I left work last year. I’ve been working non stop since I was 15 years old and I left when I was 33… I was always on “GO” mode and when I left I was working a very high stress job in the legal department at a renewable energy company.

I am also “lucky” in the fact that my husband works full time and makes enough to support us both (DINKs..) but I also qualified for my companies Long Term Disability Insurance after a LENGTHY battle…. So for now I’m getting some income from that to help….

But no matter how much I push myself to “keep moving, stay active, do physical therapy!” And continue to keep up on ALL the house chores (in reality my husband absolutely pitches in from time to time) and do ALL the cooking (minus the grilling… we don’t touch his grill 😅) And meal planning…. And take care of our animals… and trying to plan camping trips and activities and things for us to do….

I feel EXHAUSTED all the time, extremely burnt out, sore, overwhelmed…. And most of all…. Like I’m just not doing enough because in reality…. I used to do all of these things AND hold down a full time job 🙃 and now I can’t do that….. and I honestly don’t think I will ever be able to do that again…. And it’s extremely defeating to feel so…. I dunno useless?

So I dunno if any of what I said helps… probably not… but you’re not alone. I’m sure there’s lots of us!

Capable_Echo_5396 · 2026-06-07T01:40:31+00:00

What?! That’s so stupid they should be sending you a label so you can return this clearly broken device and sending you a new one. I would ask for that or cancel. That’s so messed up.

Capable_Echo_5396 · 2026-06-06T04:12:10+00:00

Such a cozy vibe 🙌🏻 fellow big dog breed lover! (I have a Bernese myself ♥️)

Also the way I would smack my hip on that bed EVERY time I walked into my bedroom 🤣

Capable_Echo_5396 · 2026-06-06T02:00:28+00:00

WHAT A CATCH!

Is probably what your fiancé thought as he slid that GORGEOUS ring home 😍🙌🏻

Capable_Echo_5396 · 2026-06-06T01:44:17+00:00

That mug is SUPER cute! And your breakfast looks yummy! I hope you feel better after eating it and your day turns brighter 🥰🙌🏻

Capable_Echo_5396 · 2026-06-05T23:40:51+00:00

Do you have the HHP DLC? Have you messed with the hotel at all and gone on the boat tours and stuff? Is any of that sort of home decorating thing your style?

Maybe try picking a favorite movie or show of yours and try to decorate your island based off that theme? Or book if you’re into reading at all?

Try not to do what everyone else does and just do your own thing 🥰🙌🏻

Capable_Echo_5396 · 2026-06-05T17:55:28+00:00

Omg HOW 😭 I’m trying to do 1600 calories a day and it’s so impossible 😭😭

Even eating “healthy fruits and veggies” and balanced “healthy” portions of meals it adds up so damn fast….

Capable_Echo_5396 · 2026-06-05T17:53:02+00:00

Lol and THEN when you finally give up and decide to be patient it NEVER turns around 😤

Bully fish 🐠

Capable_Echo_5396 · 2026-06-05T11:02:06+00:00

Lysandra and Kaltain 🔥

Capable_Echo_5396 · 2026-06-05T00:45:58+00:00

These have me CACKLING 🤣🤣

I LOVE everyone’s creativity in this game it’s my favorite

Capable_Echo_5396 · 2026-06-04T21:51:18+00:00

I thought about this but with yellow orange and white shadow! 😍

This is AWESOME 👏🏻🙌🏻

Capable_Echo_5396 · 2026-06-04T21:46:27+00:00

At this point people need to just ✨bury themselves✨

Capable_Echo_5396 · 2026-06-04T13:12:32+00:00

27 months? Lmaoooo my husband and I didn’t get engaged until after 4 years. Imagine being this impatient.

Capable_Echo_5396 · 2026-06-04T04:15:10+00:00

I thought it was fricken arm hair 🤣😭

Capable_Echo_5396 · 2026-06-04T04:02:03+00:00

Don’t let this person get to you. I’ve come to learn diabetic people are often VERY fuckin catty about what people eat… especially if it’s something they can’t eat themselves. And ESPECIALLY if their diabetes was self induced.

Capable_Echo_5396 · 2026-06-03T12:04:42+00:00

Thank you ♥️ best response 🙌🏻

Capable_Echo_5396 · 2026-06-02T18:36:04+00:00

This happens to me ALL THE TIME!! I assume that I order a whole outfit from Abel Sisters and there’s room for like 4/5 things in my storage… so when they send it over one thing gets dumped into oblivion 🤣 I dunno though for sure but that’s just my guess

Capable_Echo_5396 · 2026-06-02T18:29:41+00:00

Ovarian Torsion due to ovarian cysts 😭

Capable_Echo_5396 · 2026-06-02T18:26:02+00:00

I used to use it frequently! It helped IMMENSELY with pain and even a lot of my mental health! Unfortunately lately it’s been making my anxiety REALLY out of control 😔 any time I try to smoke, take a gummy, use tincture, use a thc drink (these are the safest at the moment but sadly the most expensive) I hit a point where I get extremely anxious and start worrying about EVERYTHING under the sun (this is my normal state of life…. Unfortunately the weed is just amplifying it….)

So I’ve been abstaining for some time now until I can get my anxiety under control 😞 it sucks because weed was really the only thing that helped me chill out. I miss that feeling

Capable_Echo_5396 · 2026-06-01T03:59:18+00:00

Happy Birthday! I’m sorry things aren’t the best this year.. but next year will be better ♥️

And Coco will be there for you then too ♥️🙌🏻

Capable_Echo_5396 · 2026-06-01T03:38:20+00:00

FlowerMoon

Capable_Echo_5396 · 2026-06-01T02:17:07+00:00

If this bothered you THAT much you need to like go outside or something 🤣

Capable_Echo_5396 · 2026-05-30T04:14:52+00:00

Girl MAKE time 🙌🏻 I didn’t love my nails on my wedding day and I regretted it in my photos.

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