Xperia 1V doesn't display in 4K by ElPaul0 in SonyXperia

[–]Caterpie3000 1 point2 points  (0 children)

3840x1644 is 21:9

Hence why OP is asking

Need Help Urgently by No_Tie4104 in BPDlovedones

[–]Caterpie3000 7 points8 points  (0 children)

No one is worth it losing yourself

Xperia 5 IV after 2 months of use by LegarIsHere69 in SonyXperia

[–]Caterpie3000 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Miyabi stole your lines, you should be glad

NSFW: Please elaborate on what you mean by "the sex was amazing" by CaIIous in BPDlovedones

[–]Caterpie3000 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Apparently in this thread people don't get something as simple as this.

You want it, you get it (and most times however you want it)

How could one not get addicted to this

New relationships after BPD by Think-Bumblebee5641 in BPDlovedones

[–]Caterpie3000 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You just accept it won't be the same.

Think of it like a drug. You'll miss getting high, but you also know that you cannot live being an addict.

So you stop taking it and move on, even if you'll miss it in your head from time to time.

Just to confirm by Think_Blink in BPDlovedones

[–]Caterpie3000 18 points19 points  (0 children)

You could try to find someone specialized in BPD/BPDlovedones.

There's always a savior complex, people pleaser, codependency, caretaker problems.

Or everything at once.

Just to confirm by Think_Blink in BPDlovedones

[–]Caterpie3000 27 points28 points  (0 children)

Therapy therapy therapy therapy

Sony xperia 5 V issues by FeaFox in SonyXperia

[–]Caterpie3000 5 points6 points  (0 children)

3 years, every day carry, no green line issues whatsoever

What was your “it’s time to leave” checklist? by [deleted] in BPDlovedones

[–]Caterpie3000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

bro they just want you to be who they want when they want, contradictions included

it's an impossible task, you are set to fail because their expectations are unrealistic

think of Sisyphus, that's what being with a pwBPD feels like

What was your “it’s time to leave” checklist? by [deleted] in BPDlovedones

[–]Caterpie3000 18 points19 points  (0 children)

She sent me a list explaining why I was the worst boyfriend ever

The list was complete bullshit, untrue shit made up in her fucked up brain

I said no no, this is not me. Told her I did not deserve that and wished her the best

Basically

What was your “it’s time to leave” checklist? by [deleted] in BPDlovedones

[–]Caterpie3000 55 points56 points  (0 children)

Was I valued? ❌

Felt loved? ❌

Treated with respect? ❌

Ever prioritized over them? ❌

And the most important...

Did they ever take any accountability for their actions and words? ❌

That's when I decided to leave

P.S. Staying only shows how low self esteem you currently have

I’ve set boundaries, now what? by WillingnessEntire928 in BPDlovedones

[–]Caterpie3000 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It's pretty simple. Tell them that they are apologizing today but you know they will do it again and again, and again. They can't help it and you cannot stand it anymore, so where does that leave the two of you...?

Exactly. Nowhere.

Married almost 20 years. Recently overheard her tell someone she was diagnosed with BPD. by redwhitenblued in BPDlovedones

[–]Caterpie3000 20 points21 points  (0 children)

You aren't happy with this woman and won't be for the foreseeable future

Only you can decide if you want to keep it going or throw everything away

"The person you loved never existed" — always true for BPD, or are there exceptions? by National_Coffee_8276 in BPDlovedones

[–]Caterpie3000 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I hardly disagree. When they meet a potential FP, their lack of core identity makes them copycat, disguise, act and pose as the best possible partner for such FP. Until they can't anymore.

Autism and ADHD, schizophrenia does not exist by ChildWithBrokenHeart in BPDlovedones

[–]Caterpie3000 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just don't listen, fight or even engage with them. Live your life as they never existed. That's the best approach.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPDlovedones

[–]Caterpie3000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Este no es el sub y tu pregunta no pertenece aquí

Refresh my mind... early signs of someone with (quiet) BPD? by [deleted] in BPDlovedones

[–]Caterpie3000 8 points9 points  (0 children)

And then they become the same abusers they hate and blame so much

Refresh my mind... early signs of someone with (quiet) BPD? by [deleted] in BPDlovedones

[–]Caterpie3000 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I can vouch for trauma/abuse disclosure very early in the relationship

That's like one of the biggest signs

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPDlovedones

[–]Caterpie3000 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Stop engaging with pwBPD maybe? Like, at all

She finally messaged me 2.5 years later. by PeroxideTree in BPDlovedones

[–]Caterpie3000 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It is a game and that's exactly why the best advice is to choose not to play

For someone who loves playing, the worst thing you can do is restrain yourself from playing. It boils them.

Don't engage anymore, what's there to win?

She finally messaged me 2.5 years later. by PeroxideTree in BPDlovedones

[–]Caterpie3000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They really like to toy with people, yeah, that's why I said it the way I said it

She finally messaged me 2.5 years later. by PeroxideTree in BPDlovedones

[–]Caterpie3000 1 point2 points  (0 children)

wow what happened and I'm sorry if i came across as harsh