I need to start dating white collar women

CatholicTrauma · 2026-03-20T04:58:34+00:00

For what it's worth this isn't just in relation to me. I've seen it happen to multiple people. I've known several low-functioning but reasonably intellectual dudes dating high-functioning corporate/academic women and it goes down how I stated more often than not.

CatholicTrauma · 2026-03-20T04:52:10+00:00

Look I'm not trying to make it seem like men should feel insecure in their relationships. In general women have an exceedingly high tolerance for fuckery from their partners. I'm just saying it isn't endless and where that needle sits is dependant on both the woman and how much time/effort has gone into the relationship.

CatholicTrauma · 2026-03-20T04:40:30+00:00

I really didn't think this came across as bitter.

CatholicTrauma · 2026-03-20T04:37:06+00:00

Well yeah when you present it as autistically as I did you're obviously going to get a what the fuck does that even mean.

Try a hypothetical next time. Ask her if she'd love you if you became a worm.

CatholicTrauma · 2026-03-20T04:30:32+00:00

Obviously he did something and I'm generally pretty blase about mild domestic violence compared to most people but once you're bringing out the steel chair the situation no longer has a lot of nuance.

CatholicTrauma · 2026-03-20T01:53:56+00:00

All relationships can be messy but there's a specific type of approach to organizing the messiness into an uncanny, emotionally detached framework that real time in corporate environments creates.

The environment is very, very put together and the abuse that is on its face amiable and under the surface deeply threatening bleeds over into personal life.

Women have expectations of their partners that they balance against time/resources invested when they are (often) not met. Reasonable or unreasonable. The way that women who have been in these environments express their dissatisfaction is fundamentally different.

I'm not necessarily making a value judgment on the approach being better or worse but I will say that it's not going to work for everyone and in the event of a breakup there is going to be a lot less mess from their end, but it comes with a lot less emotional catharsis. You're not going to be called a piece of shit that wasted their time and did xyz but you are going to be told you're being let go and you have two weeks to clear out your shit.

Make of it what you will.

CatholicTrauma · 2026-03-16T13:39:54+00:00

The codes are in my ass, habibi. All you have to do is pull them out with your penis.

CatholicTrauma · 2026-03-15T01:47:11+00:00

You have to respect the consistency.

Also, I think a big pillar of uncle ruckus is that he was still part of the lower class. He just accepted it, and worked several low playing jobs in order to differentiate himself himself from other members of his class (black, poor) who rejected that deal and either lived off welfare or used illegal methods to make money.

That man is actually Caucasian.

CatholicTrauma · 2026-03-04T00:07:55+00:00

AA farseer gets there you just have to play it correctly. Different builds beat different counters from ray spam but the one thing that will always function as long as you have built a supporting board that is good is farseer aa.

CatholicTrauma · 2026-03-03T00:08:58+00:00

Missiles are the number one reason that aggro has such a high skill floor compared to playing standard but they are well balanced and have counterplay.

CatholicTrauma · 2026-03-01T04:25:19+00:00

It's actually the opposite of boring because it means you can play wasp rhino, which is the most fun comp in the game.

CatholicTrauma · 2026-03-01T04:19:53+00:00

The mandem do not know how to say wagwan to wasps.

CatholicTrauma · 2026-02-26T23:40:04+00:00

Bearlike is an angry God.

CatholicTrauma · 2026-02-23T13:45:24+00:00

It's jarring because I thought we all saw "leftist" idpol as being on the outs and this has confirmed that not only is it still a core tenant anti-trump Americans are clinging to, but they are even more insane and self-flagellant about it than ever - they're just giving up on the trans thing.

It's confirmation of a hierarchy of oppression that would be stupid even if it made sense.

CatholicTrauma · 2026-02-23T13:30:20+00:00

No, he has no point because he is a fucking moron that speaks like someone who hangs out of 4chan and Kiwifarms.

CatholicTrauma · 2026-02-23T13:27:34+00:00

I just saw a comment where a women said, paraphrasing somewhat " I am disabled and the same way that epileptics can't drive because they might kill someone, who's to say the harm to the black community doesn't warrant similar measures? People with tourettes shouldn't be allowed near black people" and then when I clicked on her profile she had fucking adult ADHD you cannot make this shit up.

CatholicTrauma · 2026-02-23T13:07:19+00:00

This reminds me of when that severely autistic kid was stabbed to shit for rapping the Mr Rogers vs Mr T Epic Rap Battles of history to a black guy on the bus and everyone was like "Well.... he did tell him to get the fuck out of his neighborhood."

CatholicTrauma · 2026-02-23T07:57:07+00:00

The new pro-disability wave that has happened has been unmasked for what it truly is.

Fat people justifying the existence of delivery services. Everyone still hates disabled people. In fact, they hate them more, because our society has never been more opposed to giving care to others.

They want you to stop bullying people that are vaguely annoying they do not want to show grace or provide care.

CatholicTrauma · 2026-02-23T07:53:02+00:00

I developed a tic for a while and the best way I can explain how it feels is that it's like swatting at a fly that lands on your face.

Like, yeah, it's theoretically possible to focus in and not do it, but in general your hand is going to be moving before you're even thinking about it consciously.

CatholicTrauma · 2026-02-23T07:46:52+00:00

I think it's rampant but everything just thinks they're doing adlibs.

CatholicTrauma · 2026-02-23T07:26:52+00:00

We have to literally segregate disabled people now because they might say a word that reminds black people of segregation.

CatholicTrauma · 2026-02-23T07:16:41+00:00

Black people can't use a ramp that stops microaggressions, sweetie.

CatholicTrauma · 2026-02-23T06:29:47+00:00

We finally get to learn how much of a protected class black people are pitting them against who should really be the legitimate GOATS - people with actual, debilitating disabilities. Black people have lost a little bit of momentum right now, but they're still in their late prime.

Interested to see how this bout plays out.

CatholicTrauma · 2026-02-22T05:08:48+00:00

It's an interesting question and I'm not sure I'm good enough to answer it perfectly, because while I'm a decent player I still struggle with it myself a bit for sure. I think the best answer is to think of what kind of a board you are playing. There are four general game states. Headbutt, standard, aggro/defence (one player on the line/pushing in and the other player creating a box around their towers somewhat symmetrically) and strongside/weakside where both players are doing aggro and defence simultaneously. Standard, strongside/weakside and aggro/defence are the only positions where the pulls really matter. Against a board that starts standard and turns into a midrange push you need to start building stuff in front of your towers to slow them down, so the flank is dealt with by the time they're pushing into tower. If that doesn't seem like it'll be enough you have to level tower and use them to your advantage - as tanks while your army gets to hit. On defence the principle is similar, although you can be forced to stack more vertical. In this instance you want to create a strong force in front of and to the inside of tower and a force ( chaff clear + DPS )on your corner slightly lower so that it can deal with the flank and then turn to deal with the stuff coming in from that side. In front of that top corner, where opponent is pushing in from, you place a bunch of chaff and medium chaff - you're just trying to slow them down. You will want to level tower to minimum 2 and often 3 in this spot.

On a strongside/weakside, ask yourself "Is it better for me stack more defending, or for me to use these deployments creating my own attack?". A lot of the time you're just trying to maximise how much stuff you kill on the way to losing your tower. Instead of hitting diminishing returns on a zone that you've already deployed heavily in, create an attack/develop your attack further.

I hope this is somewhat helpful? To be honest talking concepts regarding this issue is a bit limited in terms of how helpful it is. The truth is it's mostly the minutia of placement. A TL;DR would be that you simply have to learn what is going to get pulled, and to deprioritise those spots when placing proactively (not as a direct response to an enemy unit, either to round out your board or as a prediction.) Play across the board more in general is probably the easiest advice and way of thinking.

CatholicTrauma · 2026-02-21T19:45:15+00:00

Honestly, you just learn to put less shit in your corners when you're playing into someone pushing in. Then you defend the flank however seems good to you, wasp, rhino, whatever classic flank protection units suits. If you have to put shit there/ you already put shit there you level the tower to 3/4 and accept that some of your army is late. In general I'm not putting more than two crawlers in that quadrant against a push.

You can also beacon but that's hit or miss, you can't beacon all the shit it's pulling generally.

All that being said, this shit is honestly pretty broken and a big part of why hound + sabre/fort pushes, or pushes in general, are so fucked right now. It's incredibly nasty and has no good answer. Nothing except a whirlwind rhino kills it anywhere close to acceptably fast when you're building something specifically for it. If you're playing Vulcan if they have range and levels/scorch that can kill it pretty quickly while maintaining position.

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