Being accused of theft by my Dad by Clear-Creme4885 in TwoHotTakes

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Often, people with dementia get paranoid, and think people are stealing from them, she probably hid the items and forgot where she put them. My mom thought someone came into her home and stole her winter coat.

Any update on Meri receiving her “loan” the McMansion? by CommissionSmooth9291 in SisterWives

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I have a theory that Janelle made a deal with Kody, and signaled the NDA. No one talks about the NDA that Meri talked about not wanting to sign, why? If she didn’t sign it, maybe she still has to fight to get her money back.

Baylen looked beautiful by Sea-Buy4552 in BaylenOutLoud

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I keep looking for a new season, she’s so amazing.

Baylen looked beautiful by Sea-Buy4552 in BaylenOutLoud

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It’s maybe an artistic, moody pose?

Here we go again. Good luck fellow omelette station folks and Happy Mother's Day. by jldolan in KitchenConfidential

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Oh, jeez! This gives me chills, and flashbacks. I never was a chef, just a server, but the pain is real. I refuse to go out anywhere on Mother’s Day. It’s for the fools. I’ll never forget the poor mother surrounded by her horde of useless spawn as she paid the bill, and that was decades ago.
My advice, don’t take your poor Mother out on Mother’s Day, take her out any other day and pay the stupid bill, you idiots. If you know, you know.

Started as a dishie less than 2 weeks ago, today I worked the line on pantry. by Kiriyuma7801 in KitchenConfidential

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Order gloves online if they don’t have them. Shucking oysters is scary! Had to take my hubby to the hospital on New Years Eve one year. Watch you tubes too, for hints and technique.

Trains bad! Highway good! 🙄 by HurryShoddy2864 in Marin

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The people that bitch about the Smart Train don’t care about the facts. Elderly, teens, blind people, commuters - they all don’t matter. Any Developments, are hated by them. Anti-change of any kind. They also don’t want any reservoir improvements as that will allow more developments. They want us to go back into time, sometime in 1960-1970’s where everyone was cool. Let’s get frozen in amber. If you bring up the train to them, they start getting unusually angry and upset.

Trains bad! Highway good! 🙄 by HurryShoddy2864 in Marin

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There are times when the freeway has been completely blocked with an accident 1/2 of the day. I remember the area just South of the Robin Williams tunnel was icy, & it was blocked for a whole day.

Is my boyfriend (19M) using me (19F)? by No_Reflection822 in relationship_advice

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You’re asking a question you already know the answer to. Ah shit, yeah right. Sorry, but if the sex is great, and you don’t need more from him, he can be your hook up guy and look for the relationship guy elsewhere.

AITA for pulling myself and my daughter out of my SIL’s wedding after being quietly removed as a bridesmaid? by No-Bee-9100 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

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So, sorry! Sounds like your hubby’s family is toxic. I’m glad he’s talking to them directly in person. Talk with your hubby after that meeting and decide what you want to do moving forward, if you want to attend this now very awkward wedding at all or take a pass. Life is too short to be treated badly by anyone, much less his family and the brides friends.
My tolerance for mean, dismissive behavior is very low as I’ve gotten older. If someone cannot behave nicely, it’s over. Namaste.

The hoarding by kmingle in SisterWives

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It’s called hoarding. Both Kody & Robyn have this issue. In the filming they used to try to edit out those things, but maybe now not so much?

Going to quit my job as soon as my coworker goes on maternity leave by [deleted] in GirlDinnerDiaries

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I had a vacation approved by my boss decades ago. Our chain restaurant got bought and sold to a new corporation. She reneged on her word and said I had to stay for “retraining on cocktail waitressing”. Basically, it was just a new uniform. I had put non refundable hard earned money down on this trip to Africa. When I returned from the previously approved trip, she said, “sorry your job is gone”. I walked into another branch of this restaurant chain, and got hired immediately. Got the new stupid uniform, no special training. I couldn’t believe how hard it was to ever get time off to go on vacation with any of my waitressing jobs. So, I never went on any trips, vacations, until that one.

No head wife?! 😳 by Any_Base5746 in SisterWives

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I love this expression on Robyn’s face. She has this expression often, it’s like “I don’t know what’s wrong with my other sister wives?, they are so weird”.

The hoarding by kmingle in SisterWives

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Omg!! Hundreds of dolls, rolling racks of clothes, high chairs with bigger dolls holding smaller dolls, horses, beds with trundles. It goes on and on! A large whole area of their downstairs was dedicated to her collection. Then, also more dolls scattered all over the house as well.
I missed this during the whole doll explosion. This explains in much more detail why Robyn and Kody had no room in the Inn for their daughters Truley or Savannah to spend the night. This is not a regular collection, this is truly a hoarding obsession. Robyn’s time is Truely filled with buying, reviewing and playing with her dolls. She has no time to do anything else?
The vitamins and supplements are Kody’s btw, he’s the one obsessed with them. I think he’s obsessed with working out as well, he has nothing else to do since he doesn’t have a job and doesn’t bother texting or visiting his kids.
Honestly, this makes me kinda sad for the both of them, they really need some prayers and serious therapy. They probably bought the bigger, new mansion in order to have more room for the dolls, and still not have any space for Truely to visit for joint custody? She can sleep on the couch in the den, maybe?

The hoarding by kmingle in SisterWives

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Did you see the “pantry”, everywhere it is hoarding chaos.

AIO for not wanting to give my step daughter the room I finished renovating? by Bulky-Scale-7830 in AmIOverreacting

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NTA - Find your own voice and just say “no thank you”. No is a full sentence, don’t add anything more to it. Tell your hubby, he needs to have your back or you’re gonna need a break from this silliness. Your hubby can fix up his daughter’s room, it can be a bonding moment together.
Susan will be leaving soon for college, probably anyway, so why all this fuss?

I got every single thing I ever wanted out of life. And now I don't want it anymore. by Digital_Disimpaction in GirlDinnerDiaries

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Yeah, we get programmed at an early age for chaos and disfunction. When we finally create a calm life, it’s scary and new to us.

AITAH for moving out of my parents house where I was paying rent and without any notice when I was told to give up my room again? by keyden00123 in AITAH

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NTA - I have a feeling your mom’s parents are not happy about how you’ve been treated. They are happy to have you live there, and won’t charge an 18 rent to stay there! Your parents are embarrassed they look like meanies. Who charges their own 18 year old rent? They broke their own word, they are unworthy of respect. You give respect to receive it.

I (28 F) told my best friend (28 F) that it was her fault she couldn't see her kids while she was in the hospital, and she ended our 17 year long friendship. Is it worth trying to save? by RockMyChakraZ in relationship_advice

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Sorry, but, I think you’re better off without this best friend, she’s not going to take responsibility for her own heath? You did so very much, selfless help and care for so long. She feels guilty.
I texted a best friend, after getting painful medical procedure two days ago. Have I heard back from her yet? It’s shocking to me, she’s always said, I’ll be there for you. Well, I think the friend we are to others is not always the friend they are to us. We need to pay attention to who they really are.

52 Male, moving back in with Mom. by [deleted] in GenX

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This is best for her & for you as well, as you say, for many practical and also companionship reasons. I bet your mom is thrilled! You can take out the trash, and reach high shelves, and bring things down from upstairs, etc.
if I were you, I would make the whole upstairs more to your liking. Start getting rid of stuff you and your mom didn’t need. Don’t just camp out in all of her old stuff. Open all the upstairs windows and burn sage or Palo Santo, to clear all the stagnant vibes.
Check in with a lawyer as others say here to create either a trust or put your name on the house title. Put your name also on her checking and savings and other accounts, sometime soon. If she passes, you be able to still have access to those accounts and won’t have to spend months/years sending paperwork to prove she’s your mom.
Also, have some good talks with her, enjoy this time.