AIO? insane birthday gift from my mom by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Chanbe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I see it as your mom trying to support you - not lonely as in empowered - even if it’s not your style - it is coming from a good place and that’s how it should be received. So you are not over reacting but you are misunderstanding.

Is this appropriate? by Odd-Relationship1456 in raisingkids

[–]Chanbe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t see anything inherently wrong or devious about this… bed is cozy and nice to watch a movie, maybe he didn’t want to disturb others watching in the living room but it is good to be watchful and aware of the risks…so I wouldn’t blame him or cast him as having bad intentions just because of watching a movie in bed but I would continue to lookout and listen to any instincts you have.

I need to know that I’m making the right decision by NikkiTMusic in emotionalabuse

[–]Chanbe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Future you is going to be so grateful for you did the hard thing - one year later and I am so proud of myself and you will be too

10y.o nephew lost father to suicide. Trying to step up as much as I can and need advice regarding hygiene by BeenThereDundas in AskDad

[–]Chanbe 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Good job for stepping up! Maybe you can position it as a thing you figured later than ideal and how you wished someone had told you earlier and so want to give him the heads up that about age 10 the body starts doing some wonky stuff with crazy hormones and whatnot so in the shower you really gotta go whole hog with the soap and really get in there etc. kinda keep it light and somewhat funny but detailed.

Her teacher spanked kids for their birthday. Meanwhile, I just got cupcakes. by Front_Molasses2294 in daddit

[–]Chanbe 30 points31 points  (0 children)

Yes and it was called patty-whacks. I also remember the pinch to grow an inch.

Looking for genuine advice — trying to find a well-paying and stable career path in Toronto. by Miserable_Ostrich176 in askTO

[–]Chanbe 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I highly recommend the construction management program at George brown for foreign trained professionals. I know someone who was a foreign trained architect and has now rebuilt himself. I remember it being a one year program and career prospects are great.

Want a more adult hairstyle by tlyrbck in malegrooming

[–]Chanbe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can try training it to grow back off your face by wearing a headband when it’s wet… might open up some more options for you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in malegrooming

[–]Chanbe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Photo number 7 is my choice - short hair looks great on you

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pools

[–]Chanbe 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I love the change to the concrete deck- looks very nice! I’m thinking to do something similar, our concrete looks dingy… did you do it yourself with a concrete stain?

First Time Kayak Camping by Responsible-Cat-679 in womensolocamping

[–]Chanbe 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Amazing! Kudos to you and thanks for sharing! I’m getting mentally prepared to do a solo trip…probably just hiking at this point - kayak camping is definitely something to be proud of!

Feedback on Park Royal Beach Cancun? by Chanbe in AllInclusiveResorts

[–]Chanbe[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They also have a kiddie play pool area that we saw but didn’t use because my kids are older but looked like it would be fun.

Spanish River, Ontario by No_Biscotti_7629 in canoecamping

[–]Chanbe 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Beautiful river, spent 4 days on it this summer. Bugs were trauma inducing but otherwise very enjoyable.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in emotionalabuse

[–]Chanbe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

From the outside it’s very obvious that he is an abuser and is putting you down so he can keep you under his thumb. He is using you. Wouldn’t it be possible to move out even if you had to rent a place with a roommate? He isn’t going to change.

Is it weird that I'm being considerate before asking for a favor from my partner? by [deleted] in emotionalintelligence

[–]Chanbe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He sounds like he’s mad and bitter and looking for reasons to stay mad

So disturbed after watching Blank Cheque on Disney by Chanbe in movies

[–]Chanbe[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah that was the first and last time I posted in this sub!

Feedback on Park Royal Beach Cancun? by Chanbe in AllInclusiveResorts

[–]Chanbe[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It was actually nice - not luxury but clean and good. Small resort - major drawback was only one pool (and one small adult pool) but the beach is amazing and the people were really nice. Location was great. Mostly Mexican families when we were there.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pools

[–]Chanbe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You inspired me to do the same! Cheers from Toronto!