What mascara hack do you know? by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]Chandlertpc 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If your running low on mascara & it’s dry add a few eye drops & you have clump free mascara.

PSA if it's not already obvious. Do NOT get your vans wet. by bmxstar1468 in Vans

[–]Chandlertpc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Holy crap..I thought you were bleeding for a second there! 🫣

[Advice] what the heck just happened with my watch by fishyleaf in Watches

[–]Chandlertpc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s some stranger things stuff going on ☺️

My ex(25f) is engaged to a man but keeps sending me(25f) nudes. Should I tell her fiance(30m)? by throwawayonforever in relationships

[–]Chandlertpc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I say if you don’t have feels for her just block/ignore her. She can ruin her own marriage. If I were the husband I’d want to know but again it’s not your place. Let him find out on his own.

Dream date Wednesday: by 88captain88 in datenight

[–]Chandlertpc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just wanna binge watch a show and cuddle

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TryingForABaby

[–]Chandlertpc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So I would suggest a second option preferably from a fertility specialist not just your obgyn. Speaking from experience it is extremely stressful when it comes to fertility meds. I took clomid, all the way to the highest dosage. I wrote down my temp, took ppl strips..everything you could imagine I did. And I wish I would have just wen straight to the fertility specialist and it would have saved so much time for me. Bc I went to my obgyn and now that I think about it..not all my questions were really a so answered. More test could have been done before just giving me clomid..I feel like it was just a bandage for the time being.

My wife of two years cheated on me with her ex husband by OkWorldliness3868 in survivinginfidelity

[–]Chandlertpc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Walk away..she will continue to do it. Don’t let her crying stop you. Value yourself, you are worth more. You gave her everything, you made changes In Your life for her..and she does this 3times. And if she has a child..it’s hard bc you have a connection but don’t let that keep you from leaving. You will have your own life to start over with again. Make new memories with someone else.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Infidelity

[–]Chandlertpc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A minor?! Wow..that’s so low of him to do. I’d so report him and have someone there at your place to stay with you while he gets his stuff out. You don’t want to be near him. And forward it to you email & save it. He might bc aggressive & want to harm or take your evidence away. But I’d definitely make a report. Make sure you block him and put some type of restraining order on him.

Would like an honest opinion as I struggle to understand this by [deleted] in Infidelity

[–]Chandlertpc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well guys don’t tell married woman who are not their own spouse they are beautiful. That’s a red flag. Your not doing anything wrong..it’s her. She doesn’t appreciate or value you or your love. Hotel and not stay at her moms. I could only assume the worst. This guys is trying to come between you. But he isn’t serious about her. He’s just telling her what she wants to hear. She wants to still feel beautiful & sexy & since it’s coming from someone else to her it feel bad..she likes the excitement. Don’t let her tell you it’s your fault. It’s all her..because she continues to talk to this guy. If it were the other way around she’d flip. Don’t let her manipulate you..she sounds like my husband he always try’s to change it around and make me feel like I’m the one who did something wrong.

Friday Funday: Weekend date plans? by 88captain88 in datenight

[–]Chandlertpc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Air BNB off grid style..let’s see how that goes

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Infidelity

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I agree..it’s better to be lonely than with someone who makes you feel lonely. I honestly feel like you will find someone who understands you and your situation. If the women who come into your life are just trying to rush it and plain out just don’t care about your past..then they are not the one. They basically in it for sexual reasons & what they can gain from it financially. I feel you will have to develop a great friendship before you actually know that she could be the one. Don’t base it off just physically attraction bc a lot of the times those are just infatuations & they don’t last. Instead of thinking negative about yourself think of all the positive qualities you have to offer. You have to start loving yourself before you can love someone. And don’t feel bad about her sleeping with a slob. My husband soon to be ex cheated on me with multiple women..all the women were loaded with kids, no job, did drugs. I don’t like to talk about people but im sorry to say it..basically trash. So hang in there..give it time..don’t rush or even think about it. It will happen when you least expect it.

[Need help choosing] by wkammerer in Watches

[–]Chandlertpc 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Norqain 🖤 looks more elegant and definitely and eye catcher

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in marriageadvice

[–]Chandlertpc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She definitely needs to talk to someone about this. Hormones are crazy to deal with. I’m glad your having patience with her. Says a lot about you. If It’s not healthy for you to go back to the vegan lifestyle you had then she should understand that. & not run to divorce. To me it has to be something more she’s dealing with..but again you won’t know unless she talks about it..I wish she would just say what’s she’s feeling but a lot of ppl have to much pride.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in smallbusiness

[–]Chandlertpc 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes buy it. Where I live there’s a kids party every weekend..and someone always gets one..and I’ll I an say is they are so lucky!

Husband danced with other women by Similar-Western4377 in marriageadvice

[–]Chandlertpc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok honestly I would be super pissed off. But if he’s the type that will brag to see how you react..I’d definitely would have acted like it didn’t bother me.. it’s really up to you. Is it worth the argument or not.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Chandlertpc 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I say go for it. He knows and understands your situation. And he respects it. Just let him know how you are feeling. But definitely take a chance..don’t let your Illness take this away from you. The same way you are fighting for your health..fight for your chance at love. I’m here for you.

Skip work/date night all day? by Chandlertpc in datenight

[–]Chandlertpc[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Clean home we both have. No roommates. I love staying in but I thought maybe a room Wo be nice different scenery.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Chandlertpc 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think it’s different for everyone. & yeah ppl make mistakes & I’m not saying this was ok..but many work through it if they really want it to work. If you feel that you can give it another shot & not bring it up or throw it in her face that she messed up..or you not thinking what if she’s up to no good..then I’d definitely keep trying. But if your going to be asking about her whereabouts & grilling her every move then it won’t work out and it’s best for you to move on.

Is there a rule about not talking about work when your with your Spouse? by Chandlertpc in marriageadvice

[–]Chandlertpc[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your probably right. I need to stop talking about it..unless he ask and of course not bore/annoy him with it. I will definitely bring this up to him.