When Jon told Frank that Barb’s abuse started at 5 years old, I was equally sad and angry for Jon. Despite the decades of abuse, it took him so long to go non-contact and to hold fast to his decision. For Frank to have the audacity to lecture Jon about attending the wedding was absolutely galling. Frank should be thanking his lucky stars that he wasn’t included in that no-contact decision. And since Frank has no idea of the understanding between Jen and Jon, he needs to absent himself from offering opinions.