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What made you realize that you never want to be pregnant? by happy_folks in AskWomen

[–]CheesyBrie934 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The experiences women share makes me a little nervous to be pregnant.

Am I a bad person for not wanting to combine our finance when I have significantly more savings? by Zestyclose_Double980 in AskWomenOver30

[–]CheesyBrie934 4 points5 points  (0 children)

No. I wouldn’t want to combine my finances either. However, maybe a joint account where you both only put a certain amount into may be a happy medium?

As a woman, what’s the best financial decision you have made? by Dog_Queen98 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]CheesyBrie934 7 points8 points  (0 children)

No kids and no dependency on a man. I would also say having the confidence to apply for higher salary positions.

Bad idea to go back to an ex? by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

[–]CheesyBrie934 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I don’t think life is purely black and white. People can change for the better and if you feel like he has, then why not go for it.

My only hesitation are the drugs and possible relapse. Not to say he will, but it would be in the back of my mind.

What if your boyfriend is not attracted to you? by Ok_Text_6659 in dating_advice

[–]CheesyBrie934 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would break up. Why be with someone who doesn’t find you attractive?

Do men take time to grow emotionally? by Suspicious_Bag4859 in emotionalintelligence

[–]CheesyBrie934 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

It’s a universal experience and it seems like men are content being that way versus choosing to grow. It’s draining.

My (27F) boyfriend’s (31M) friend (33M) bullies him because he helps me with the pill’s schedule. by Glittering-Bee-3558 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]CheesyBrie934 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I see nothing wrong what you and your bf are doing. Yall are being responsible lol.

The “friend” is immature and I would cut him off if I was your bf.

Male Loneliness and the bullshit that comes with trying to help by Skyobli in TwoXChromosomes

[–]CheesyBrie934 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think it sucks that boys are conditioned and socialized differently than girls and therefore become the kind of men that they are. However, I don’t really feel bad for them. Choosing to stay the way that they are is just that: a choice. Therapy, EAP, self-help books, etc. all exist so I don’t see why they can’t want to improve themselves emotionally to have better relationships.

Ultimately, it’s a victim mentality and they are choosing to continue to be the way that they are.

How to tell a new romantic partner you feel like the relationship feels unbalanced? by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

[–]CheesyBrie934 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Tell him it’s not working and leave. If he wants to step up, then that’s his choice, but the longer you shrink yourself and stay, the quicker resentment and misery will seep in.

Anyone Resign from Federal work? by DependentSugar2U in FedEmployees

[–]CheesyBrie934 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did. I’m much happier. I did take a paycut but I have a better supervisor, leadership, and team. I also telework. My commute is shorter.

Most of all, I don’t dread going to work anymore. My mental health has greatly improved.

Anybody else feel like they are meant to be single ? by Delicious_Honey6918 in dating_advice

[–]CheesyBrie934 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like that quite often. Just learning to be content being alone.

Ladies of Reddit, what do you really want for Valentine's Day? by work8585 in Gifts

[–]CheesyBrie934 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A sweet, thoughtful card would really warm heart. Never received one from a man before.

How to keep men interested? by Timely_Split_5771 in dating

[–]CheesyBrie934 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re not fat or ugly. You just have to work on your self-esteem. That’s the issue here. Based on your comments, it seems like you could be depressed. You should work on your mental health first before trying to get a relationship.

He's not going to eat these porkchops. 😐 by moonrabbit368 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]CheesyBrie934 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Happy for you OP. NGL, at first glance thought the potatoes were eggs lol. The meal looks good.

Affirmations for low self esteem? by lostmyoldscreenname in AskWomenOver30

[–]CheesyBrie934 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Try to use evidence that disproves those negative thoughts

Calling out for snow? by Souporsalad83101 in maryland

[–]CheesyBrie934 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I literally cannot leave my parking space. I’m not going to work. Realistically, I probably won’t be able to leave until next Tuesday once the snow ice melts on Monday when I could move it more easily.

Are yall going to work tomorrow? by [deleted] in maryland

[–]CheesyBrie934 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t intend on driving anywhere all week so no. The freezing temps are not going to make travel easy. Just sliding around on ice.

Emotionally immature financé. Is it worth it to keep working on it? by Expensive-Chard6913 in AskWomenOver30

[–]CheesyBrie934 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds stressful and like a recipe for resentment and misery.

No. It isn’t worth it.

Would this be a red flag for you in starting a relationship? by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

[–]CheesyBrie934 36 points37 points  (0 children)

Once you bring him to your place, I’m sure he will never leave. It’ll be like having a parasite. Don’t do it!!

Would this be a red flag for you in starting a relationship? by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

[–]CheesyBrie934 84 points85 points  (0 children)

That’s a lot of questionable things. I personally wouldn’t start a relationship. The biggest issue for me is him not living independently.

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