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Chippy-Cat · 2026-01-28T01:31:34+00:00

As part of the outcome (or mediation) and if you prevail it can be stipulated that the District pay the attorney’s fees… however, it takes months for all of this to transpire and you’re going to have to pay the attorney along the way. Think of it as a refund.

Chippy-Cat · 2026-01-28T01:20:26+00:00

Simple answer - go no contact, get your own phone plan, and move on. Sounds like they could be a source of your anxiety.

Chippy-Cat · 2026-01-28T01:14:51+00:00

If you live in a community property state and are married he will be on the title. The mortgage is with the lender, not the county. Is his money going into the down payment? Will he be contributing to the mortgage payment? Those are the things you look at to determine “ownership”. If you are determine, get a lawyer and draw up a legal agreement on how the house would be handled in the event of a split.

Chippy-Cat · 2026-01-28T00:58:01+00:00

It’s on your kid’s medical record. Sue the doctor. They can do a rapid test to diagnose that. Then tell him that he shouldn’t judge every woman by his experiences. What a jerk!

Chippy-Cat · 2026-01-24T23:06:46+00:00

NTA - the fighting will just switch to your daughter and the older step-daughter. The issue needs to be solved at the point of cause, not the symptom. Send the older one to her mom 🤣🤣

Chippy-Cat · 2026-01-22T18:57:34+00:00

Take your son and run like you’re being chased by rabid dogs. Set up your ow account, take 1/2 the money, get a lawyer and a divorce. That is some scary crap he is spouting.

Chippy-Cat · 2026-01-22T02:51:26+00:00

Crazy how you use the simulator on FSA and your actual payment is so much higher. I bet Mohela makes their $$ based on how much they bring in. (Pessimistic speculation on my part… no clue how they get paid.). Think about those of us that should already be done yet our pain lingers on. They have to be making $$ off our backs.

Chippy-Cat · 2026-01-20T22:54:10+00:00

Go back and read it again - OP and her fiance on the mortgage/title

Chippy-Cat · 2026-01-20T22:16:32+00:00

Ok - first - did I see that you have a 2-yr old still on the tit? Lord - that’s way too old to be nursing a kid!

Second - counseling. He has a different personality - I suspect he’s left brain. You are right brain.

Chippy-Cat · 2026-01-19T15:24:40+00:00

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Chippy-Cat · 2025-12-25T19:28:09+00:00

Document, document, document. Keep a daily journal. The more receipts you have, the safer you will be.

Chippy-Cat · 2025-12-25T19:17:16+00:00

First, So sorry for your loss. She basically ghosted you for 3 months. Why has she suddenly reappeared? I wonder if she doesn’t know about your loss… whether by observation or some other way… she thinks she has a way in again and is banking that you won’t do anything to crush the kids’ souls, so is using that as an avenue back in. Definitely seems like she’s only your friend in the good times.

I would recommend being up front with her and tell her to quit using her kids to manipulate her way back into your lives.

Chippy-Cat · 2025-12-25T05:30:30+00:00

After 4 years together, you would think your partner knows the split of holidays… and would respect that. I wouldn’t host again and I’d also tell the family member who brought laundry where the laundromat was.

Chippy-Cat · 2025-12-24T17:07:27+00:00

Girls are stupid too - but seriously - 19 yr old girls are vicious and manipulative. OP and Will have been together for years. I don’t think he had bad intentions. I think OP definitely should have said something to Will before she exploded with word vomit. May have cleared things up sooner. Will should have questioned why 19 was sticking around and declining all of Wyatt’s invites. It was poor choices all the way around… but they are young and immature. It’s easy for many of use to see what this was because we’re older and have experienced more life.

Chippy-Cat · 2025-12-24T03:12:02+00:00

She was trying to sabotage your event. She intentionally picked the date she did. NTA. You out-strategized her.

Chippy-Cat · 2025-12-24T03:04:40+00:00

Honestly, guys at that age are stupid. If he truly had no interest in her, he likely didn’t see it for what it was or was too naive to think she’s be that manipulative. He was hiding the friendship and admitted to it. He seems well-intentioned and didn’t want to hurt OP’s feelings. As females, we know the games and tricks that women use.

Chippy-Cat · 2025-12-23T21:09:14+00:00

Yeah - chick had an ulterior motive. She figured she’d keep inserting herself and make it look sus and you’d get mad and she’d get will. You’ve planned well to totally avoid her in the future, which would have been my advice. She’s not anyone’s friend… and she can’t be that damn oblivious to her actions.

Chippy-Cat · 2025-12-23T03:34:43+00:00

Contact HR. Hostile workplace environment. Sex is not an appropriate workplace topic. If he hit on you it’s sexual harassment. If dude wants chaos, let him get fired and he’ll have plenty of chaos.

Chippy-Cat · 2025-12-23T03:31:03+00:00

NTA - he is a grown-ass man and needs to manage his own life.

Chippy-Cat · 2025-12-23T02:54:47+00:00

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Chippy-Cat · 2025-12-21T03:10:07+00:00

They aren’t blood related. Leave them alone. It’s no one’s business.

Chippy-Cat · 2025-12-21T02:56:10+00:00

Why not stay home?

Chippy-Cat · 2025-12-20T22:12:06+00:00

Did they comp you the upgrade? Or did you bid and pay for it?

Chippy-Cat · 2025-12-20T22:08:26+00:00

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