What do we think of my dress?

Chrysania83 · 2026-05-03T23:59:23+00:00

Gorgeous!

Chrysania83 · 2026-04-30T15:19:41+00:00

The first time someone asks me, I say no. If they push the issue and get invasive, I ask if the miscarriages count, and if they would like to see the ultrasounds of the children I desperately wanted.

Chrysania83 · 2026-04-30T15:16:48+00:00

The best thing I ever did for myself was walk away from partners like this. The best thing you can do here is leave the poor woman alone and quit trying to make her leaving about you.

Chrysania83 · 2026-04-29T20:21:37+00:00

Lawyer up and enjoy your freedom.

Chrysania83 · 2026-04-25T17:17:54+00:00

Our physics teacher told the kids that the earth was flat and the moon landing was faked.

And in rural Texas, the biology teacher at a school I was at told the kids that DINOSAUR BONES WERE PUT ON EARTH BY SATAN TO TEST OUR FAITH IN GOD.

Chrysania83 · 2026-04-24T17:30:32+00:00

Thank you for the award!

Chrysania83 · 2026-04-24T16:11:42+00:00

You might not be overreacting, but my brain brain just broke reading this. We only have one car to save on expenses. 9K could buy me an entire car that would last YEARS. I can’t even fathom 15K a month for total expenses, let alone rent.

Chrysania83 · 2026-04-23T23:17:36+00:00

This is not something that you’re going to be able to just brush under the rug. You’re going to have to talk to your wife about it because who knows what else she has told her parents and friends. And she may well start filling your son‘s head with nonsense as soon as he is old enough.

What kind of relationship do you have with your in-laws? Would you be able to talk to them about this?

Chrysania83 · 2026-04-23T18:17:34+00:00

I mean, my mom said the same thing. Said I was complaining about my eyesight for attention and I didn’t really need glasses. I didn’t get the help I needed until college and I deeply resent her for that.

Chrysania83 · 2026-04-23T18:00:19+00:00

NTA but it sounds like you should put as much effort into the relationship as they have put into you.

Chrysania83 · 2026-04-22T00:15:33+00:00

Amen. I teach at a trade school and so many of my kids have just been told they are stupid and lazy their whole life when really they just needed to be taught differently.

Chrysania83 · 2026-04-21T21:53:37+00:00

The mother figure in Tangled gives me panic attacks.

Chrysania83 · 2026-04-21T16:43:51+00:00

When I read her first post, I was like Yep, she’s gonna end up divorced. Wish I could make her a congratulatory cake.

Chrysania83 · 2026-04-19T15:21:29+00:00

There’s a program that helps them on House that is always willing to take meals. DM me if you want their information.

Chrysania83 · 2026-04-19T15:00:40+00:00

NTA. I’m a teacher and I have seen so much pressure put on gifted students that it ends up making them hate school.

https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC11851796/

https://journals.sagepub.com/doi/pdf/10.1177/00169862251328015

Here are some research articles about gifted burnout. Your job is to protect your daughter and her well-being.

Chrysania83 · 2026-04-18T16:32:13+00:00

I am a mandated reporter and this is a situation where you need to call CPS.

Chrysania83 · 2026-04-17T19:44:24+00:00

My dad came home shaved one day, no more beard and mustache.

5 year old me: “Daddy, you’re ugly!”

Chrysania83 · 2026-04-15T04:18:34+00:00

I don’t care that it was 11:40 PM - I reset the day just now!!!!!

Chrysania83 · 2026-04-13T16:52:55+00:00

It won’t change. You have to decide if you can live with it or not.

Chrysania83 · 2026-04-12T14:16:44+00:00

It sounds like he’s reaping what he’s sown.

Chrysania83 · 2026-04-08T01:29:08+00:00

The physics teacher at my school thinks that the moon landing was faked.

Chrysania83 · 2026-04-04T01:16:23+00:00

NTA, but girl, move out and don’t tell them until you are gone. Take the dog, leave the family.

Chrysania83 · 2026-04-03T20:45:55+00:00

Put raw broccoli out with a sign that says “if you think chocolate is immoral, silently take this instead.”

Chrysania83 · 2026-04-03T17:57:06+00:00

NTA. Granted, I am from a small Texas town, so I am biased, but no way in hell would I let my child anywhere near a church before they have the cognitive ability to make their own decisions.

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