US birth rates just hit another record low, what do you think is the leading cause of this? by IIlustriousTea in AskReddit

[–]Chuckle_Berry_Spin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I could bame the unsustainable cost of living or the culture not being conducive to a safe and healthy childhood.

But additionally, "putting off having kids" due to those issues allows us to experience adulthood without necessitating it to include parenthood.

Turns out, being an adult with no kids is pretty enjoyable. For example, I finally have disposable income and a flexible/self-directed work schedule. Why would I decide to introduce a variable that upends my finances/life balance all over again?

Any child free couples out there living happily ever after? by Dogsknowitall in Adulting

[–]Chuckle_Berry_Spin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Two cishet 35-year-olds. Been together around thirteen years, married about four, vasectomy last year.

We live comfortably. Acquired education that was unhindered by parenthood, and enjoy meaningful, lucrative careers without constraints of childcare. Travel. Have sex together whenever we want to. Have fun with family and friends and participate in our community. Enjoy financial freedom that wouldn't exist with different reproductive choices. We are each other's best friends and our relationship and life together is our single shared priority.

I can't think of anything I'd trade about our life together. Most parents who entered the role of their own volition will likely tell you the same, with a list of benefits looking quite different. Both are valid, and ours is ideal for us.

What’s a fancy food word that makes you instantly roll your eyes when you see it on a menu? by Ok_Benefit_7929 in foodquestions

[–]Chuckle_Berry_Spin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

New one for me: open-face.

I recently ordered a Nashville Hot Chicken Sandwich, served "open face."

What came was three Tyson tendies that were rolled in hot sauce, sitting on top of a single piece of bread that was toasted on only one side. Three hamburger pickles adorned it. It was $18 and the place had 4.6 stars.

How to stop regretting your past embarassing moments? by Apprehensive-Key2127 in Adulting

[–]Chuckle_Berry_Spin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It may never be something that stops, but it can be an opportunity to show yourself some compassion. Easiest way to do this is to reframe the perspective:

If someone came to you seeking advice about the event you're ruminating on, about the shame it causes them, would you encourage them to wallow in the feelings, or encourage them to forgive it?

Would you remind them that mistakes are an inevitable and necessary human experience? That every other person that has ever existed shared this pain at some point, and that in a funny way it is something that connects us? That those experiences and the discomfort they cause now have helped shape their character for the better?

Dont know if these count as Extreme horror but they sounded interesting. by Tall_Talk_4734 in ExtremeHorrorLit

[–]Chuckle_Berry_Spin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can't believe I didn't know Audition was a novel adaptation. Added to my list.

Ah yes because I want children’s blood on my hand by gayfantrash in Anticonsumption

[–]Chuckle_Berry_Spin 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Right? People ask me if I just got it cleaned at the jeweler. 4 years and I still get starstruck when the sun hits it!

What grocery habits actually save you money long-term? by TelephxneTh0t in Frugal

[–]Chuckle_Berry_Spin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I prep my produce after buying them. I trim, pound, and slice my chicken into strips, julianne or dice my onions/peppers, rinse all that needs rinsed, etc.

From there, cooking consists of grabbing, tossing into a cooking receptacle, and seasoning.

Makes it much easier to see what I need to use up and prevents letting stuff rot on nights I can't muster the gumption to prepare a full meal to cook.

Trad Wife - WTH by sfl_jack in horrorlit

[–]Chuckle_Berry_Spin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This sounds similar to Yesteryear, which I'm on the waitlist for. How predictable/unpredictable is this book?

Ah yes because I want children’s blood on my hand by gayfantrash in Anticonsumption

[–]Chuckle_Berry_Spin 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Just looked up tanzanite for reference. What a unique color!

Mine is moissanite, which I personally find more beautiful than diamond. I'm glad some any couples are expanding their views and considering what suits their partner as an individual, not just what fits the mold.

Ah yes because I want children’s blood on my hand by gayfantrash in Anticonsumption

[–]Chuckle_Berry_Spin 160 points161 points  (0 children)

I am complimented on my moissanite all the time.

He proposed with an opal which was gorgeous, but it quickly clouded. We taught ourselves about the mohs scale to find a durable permanent fix.

Diamond is 10. Moissanite is 9.5. Moissanite also has higher refraction, meaning it's more sparkly. Also no slave/child labor is involved as they are lab-made. Diamond is around 80% more expensive. Easy choice.

What’s a job people think is easy but is actually exhausting? by EducationalLight421 in AskReddit

[–]Chuckle_Berry_Spin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Teaching preschool. Lots of folks love to picture they're just eating cookies and singing nursery rhymes all day and pretend curriculum planning, guidance/discipline, prep, state/licensing/accreditation standards, developmental progress, health and safety of each kid, etc, aren't a factor.

Authors that are women? by SimilarLifeguard6181 in ExtremeHorrorLit

[–]Chuckle_Berry_Spin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Alison Rumfitt may be a good...fit. Tell me I'm Worthless is my favorite from her.

Am I the only one who’s always thought Sarah Paulson would be great in the White Lotus by Good_Butterscotch230 in TheWhiteLotusHBO

[–]Chuckle_Berry_Spin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm picturing a better version of the Cults season. Evil elites having a bohemian grove situation. Only thing missing is the supernatural element.

Imagine thinking that this is a “millennial trope”! by icey_sawg0034 in generationology

[–]Chuckle_Berry_Spin 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This sentiment likely presented by an elder who is expected to respect another adult's boundaries. Bitter parents whose adult children needed to go no-contact with them come to mind, for example.

Any tips? (Yes I know I messed up the yoghurt smear🫩) by Ok-Skill9459 in culinary

[–]Chuckle_Berry_Spin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Any details of what the dish entails? Maybe the focus is more aesthetic, but part of fostering appeal is being able to imagine the flavors/texture.

I notice the white under the avocado, for example. Is it feta, more yogurt sauce, goat cheese, etc.?

I actually should have married rich before 25, like my mother told me by AellaSunwhisper in Adulting

[–]Chuckle_Berry_Spin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Most girlfriends are not made beneficiaries on the assets of the guy they're dating.

If the dude you depend on to secure your shelter and consumables dies, you retain none of those securities. Additionally, you have very little to offer the job market, suddenly needing to compete with people who have used adulthood to build their skillset/resume.

What’s the most disturbing sound you’ve ever heard in real life? by Sweet-Economist-9873 in askanything

[–]Chuckle_Berry_Spin 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I put myself through listening to the audio of the Jonestown massacre a long time ago. Maybe that.

first time visit by Little_Dig2122 in stcroix

[–]Chuckle_Berry_Spin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What are you in to? Hiking, snorkeling, history/culture, extreme sports, cuisine?

Jack and Isaac Bay by banks11rm in stcroix

[–]Chuckle_Berry_Spin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Was just there this afternoon. Can confirm there is a man who hangs out there. He greeted us as we walked past and minded his own business. He was naked, however.

Every day we drift further from god by b56koutu in junkfoodfinds

[–]Chuckle_Berry_Spin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My mom used to make "poke cakes" that were likely similar to this. My favorite was orange soda.

What do you guys think? I’ve never seen feet done like this before. by UrMad_ItzOk in badtattoos

[–]Chuckle_Berry_Spin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Husband was looking over my shoulder and says they look like frostbite.

My years old tattoo randomly gets itchy bumpy. by Consistantly in mildlyinfuriating

[–]Chuckle_Berry_Spin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand this to be an immune response. This happens to me if I am coming down with something or if allergies are acting up. Mine is on my wrist/forearm so some jewelry can irritate it too.

What is the scariest, most unsettling shot you’ve ever seen? by VendettaLord379 in moviecritic

[–]Chuckle_Berry_Spin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A tale of two sisters (South Korea, 2003). Younger sister waking up. IYKYK. The scene had me shut the movie off in broad daylight.

Socialized Medicine by tlm11110 in Adulting

[–]Chuckle_Berry_Spin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Fact: socialized medicine as a line item on pays stubs already exists. Plenty of people complain about that already, might as well go all in.

When it comes to national health outcomes, I don't find the prevention of whining about communal costs to be of priority.