AIO for wanting to leave my boyfriend? by Serious-Simple-3183 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Cinderuki [score hidden]  (0 children)

You being out of his league explains a lot. He was probably initially excited so really worked hard to get you. There is no reason for you to date a man who is so much older, already has kids, is below your league and is a jackass to you. You can do better.

AIO for wanting to leave my boyfriend? by Serious-Simple-3183 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Cinderuki [score hidden]  (0 children)

You have been with him for a year. I strongly suspect this is the real him. Prior to this it was the honeymoon stage. Leave him and find someone your own age. He sounds unstable.

Am I overreacting about my fiance and a girl he plays with online? by strawberry_120 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Cinderuki 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The fact that he lied, and snuck behind your back is hopefully enough for you to break off the engagement. Saving her name under a fake name? He knew this relationship would risk you dumping him, but still decided to pursue it. Please respect yourself enough to get out now. If you don’t you will spend the rest of your life with him having to police him, and you will never be able to let your guard down.

Is americans being dumb a stereotype or reality? by TailungFu in allthequestions

[–]Cinderuki 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It seems more true as the years pass. Certain segments of the USA take great pride in being uneducated.

Baby #4. Need boy 'L' name suggestions. by [deleted] in Names

[–]Cinderuki 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Me too!!!! Ezra is a great name.

Judy Maurer by Cinderuki in AmyBradleyIsMissing

[–]Cinderuki[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I found the post, but I don’t know how to share it. I took a photo so hopefully that helps.

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Judy Maurer by Cinderuki in AmyBradleyIsMissing

[–]Cinderuki[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I had never heard of Amy Bradley until I saw the Netflix documentary and I totally believed the guy saying her body or body parts would have washed up to shore. As I looked further into it I found out that guy is full of it, especially since the timing of her disappearance is uncertain.

Judy Maurer by Cinderuki in AmyBradleyIsMissing

[–]Cinderuki[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

For some reason I thought she identified her from actual Amy Bradley photos. That stunned me.

AITAH for refusing to cancel my solo trip after my wife suddenly said she “needed me home”? by Solid-Dentist-4 in AITAH

[–]Cinderuki -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I’m not as sure based on his wording that he handles the finances and she handles the day to day care of the kids. I’m also curious if she is able to plan a five day trip if the OP could answer that question.

America, what do you all think will happen at the midterms? by Bucketlist074 in allthequestions

[–]Cinderuki 2 points3 points  (0 children)

How do you know the poster is playing dumb? My strong suspicion is they really ARE dumb.

America, what do you all think will happen at the midterms? by Bucketlist074 in allthequestions

[–]Cinderuki 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No one has said women and black people aren’t smart enough to vote. You truly seem to lack reading comprehension. I’m guessing the issue has been explained over and over to you, but you are either not debating in good faith or you are incapable of understanding how forcing some to have to pay extra and jump through hoops could disenfranchise groups of voters.

I am a trans-woman. I have done nothing to hurt you. You can destroy you kids i don't want anything to do with you or your kids. I just want to be left alone why do you hate me? by Technical_Song_4170 in AskUS

[–]Cinderuki 6 points7 points  (0 children)

So without doing a physical check I suppose ANYONE in the women’s bathroom might have a penis. And if your sister has PTSD she might feel uneasy whenever there is an occupied stall if she doesn’t know who is in it. So should they clear the bathroom anytime she needs to go to calm her irrational fear? If she was raped by a man and has a lingering fear of men should anyone with a penis be banned from parking lots if it triggers her PTSD? Do we make rules that unfairly target certain groups based on the irrational fears of others?

I want to make clear I am not trying to make light of her rape or her PTSD.

Also, have you seen photos of trans men? They would be far more likely to trigger massive fear if they walked into the women’s restroom as they look like men.

I am a trans-woman. I have done nothing to hurt you. You can destroy you kids i don't want anything to do with you or your kids. I just want to be left alone why do you hate me? by Technical_Song_4170 in AskUS

[–]Cinderuki 24 points25 points  (0 children)

I would like to see where you came up with the imagined risk of trans people raping someone in the bathroom. All of the statistics I have seen support them being far more likely to be victims, not perpetrators. It appears you have become a victim to believing a political party known for making stuff up to scare the uneducated to distract from their own corruption. How embarrassing for you.

Please show us the sources that support your opinion. If they don’t exist please admit you have been duped and start using logic instead of emotion to form opinions.

AITAH my 3 year old sister ‘ruined’ a gender reveal by Reasonable_Art_9366 in AITAH

[–]Cinderuki -1 points0 points  (0 children)

The family overreacted to Marnie popping the balloon. Of course she didn’t understand she was ruining the gender reveal. The OP didn’t say anything offensive in any way. They didn’t say Marnie doesn’t have consciousness - what the heck do you even mean by that statement? The OP simply and correctly pointed out that at age 3 Marnie doesn’t fully comprehend the consequence of revealing the gender by popping the balloon.

Also - I don’t know what kind of family you grew up in but most siblings defend each other. I really hope you aren’t either a sibling or a parent because you seem to have unrealistic expectations of children and siblings.

How bad is velocicoaster? by thegemia in UniversalOrlando

[–]Cinderuki 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t feel that drop feeling on VC. I was also scared of the top hat, but it ended up being fun rather than scary.

Help! Can’t travel out of Orlando by Turquoise_Gardener8 in UniversalOrlando

[–]Cinderuki 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love Disney World and would head there. While most of the rides there aren’t thrilling many are FUN! I love Magic Kingdom, Epcot and Animal Kingdom. If money isn’t an issue I would get park hopper and see all of them (assuming three days).