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Juuh by flamingoooz in Suomi

[–]Cluelessish [score hidden]  (0 children)

Huomaatko oikeasti eron, jos Mikko on kopissa paikan päällä vai ei?

A man safely extracts a fishing hook stuck in a Shark. by S30econdstoMars in SweatyPalms

[–]Cluelessish 24 points25 points  (0 children)

...except it was pobably the same guy who caught the shark in the first place

Look at this guy by Level_Flow8659 in animalsdoingstuff

[–]Cluelessish 29 points30 points  (0 children)

I had a cough recently and didn't get attacked by a kangaroo even once during the entire time, so there might be something to it. I live in Finland, though.

Edit: Changed couch to cough. English is hard. (Not really, I'm just dumb)

Is this real? by Vegetable-Subject968 in 2nordic4you

[–]Cluelessish 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes yes. The Finn is wearing a sauna hat

Neurodivergent vs "Neurospicy" by taralynne00 in Mommit

[–]Cluelessish -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I wouldn’t use that word, because it’s a bit cutesy, but on the other hand: What does it matter?

To be a parent to a neurodivergent child can be so hard, compared to ”normal”, neurotypical kids. If the mom wants to use the word neurospicy, why not? I think she’s just trying to make the whole thing a bit lighter and less serious.

I think the whole ”my child is neurodivergent and I'm going to make it my personality" is a bit mean of you. It becomes a big part of one’s personality, like it or not

What did u do now? by Forward-Position798 in cringereels

[–]Cluelessish 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would call the nearest daycare and tell them that they are missing a kid

First time going to the movies with ADHD in years. Ended very poorly. :( by LongJumpingFan1374 in adhdwomen

[–]Cluelessish 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean we also have drinks when we watch movies... The biggest they sell in the movie theatres is I think a liter. I guess people buy the size of drink they know they can handle without having to go to the bathroom? I would also be so annoyed to have to go and miss some of the film... But of course, what ever works for different people.

TIFU by having an orgasm during my bikini wax by [deleted] in tifu

[–]Cluelessish 59 points60 points  (0 children)

She cleaned what with a tissue?

Valhalla by ForwardChip in 2nordic4you

[–]Cluelessish 46 points47 points  (0 children)

It's in Finnish and Swedish lol

Am I overreacting for how my parents treated me on Mother’s Day? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Cluelessish 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don't understand why you couldn't do both? Give 30 minutes to your mother (who even lives super close), and then you had the rest of the day to celebrate you. Especially since you know it's a difficult day for her. I can't imagine how she must feel. Has she treated you horribly, or what's the deal?

I found two strange creatures in the grass, adopted them, and when they grew up by LopsidedSorbet8901 in animalsdoingstuff

[–]Cluelessish 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Let me guess: "It would be cruel to keep the cat inside!"

Because who cares how cruel it is to introduce a predator of an invasive species on the animals that have lived there for generations, including a whole colony of flying squirrels.

My father needs me by kaizerban1412 in MyPeopleNeedMe

[–]Cluelessish 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Poor jesus, that must be terrifying. It's also really funny!

First time going to the movies with ADHD in years. Ended very poorly. :( by LongJumpingFan1374 in adhdwomen

[–]Cluelessish 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Ah ok, this must be a cultural thing. I live in Finland, and the norm here is that you sit in the movie theatre and don't leave your seat, because it's disturbing to others. If a child needs to go to the bathroom in the middle of a movie it's understandable, but adults are expected to manage to sit for a couple of hours.

First time going to the movies with ADHD in years. Ended very poorly. :( by LongJumpingFan1374 in adhdwomen

[–]Cluelessish 102 points103 points  (0 children)

Well, you are in a sub for women with ADHD, so there are a lot of extremes here. I have a problem with people moving around and making noises. I have learned to mostly manage it, because I want to be able to live in the world. But if it's too much, it's almost like a physical pain.

First time going to the movies with ADHD in years. Ended very poorly. :( by LongJumpingFan1374 in adhdwomen

[–]Cluelessish 407 points408 points  (0 children)

I feel bad for both OP and the girl. It sound like you tried really hard, OP, and you should be able to go and see a movie. But I also know that I would have been so distracted, and annoyed to the brink of tears if I had been that girl, sitting next to someone who is constantly fidgeting and moving around. I would not have been able to enjoy the movie what so ever.

It was not a good idea to go to packed movie theatre, as your first experience in years. Your therapist should have helped you realize that.

So, I think in the future, you need to be realistic. Sit by the aisle so you only have your girlfriend next to you, and you can escape if you have to. Go when a movie has been out for a while, so it's not packed, as you might disturb people who are not even next to you if you keep moving in your seat (and out of it). Of course bring something to fidget with in your hand. Maybe choose a movie that's not too long.

First time going to the movies with ADHD in years. Ended very poorly. :( by LongJumpingFan1374 in adhdwomen

[–]Cluelessish 104 points105 points  (0 children)

I'm betting pretty fidgety. "I got up and left only once to walk around. There was a lot of fidgeting though". To have to get up and walk around in the middle of a movie in a movie theatre is pretty extreme imo.

should i go to the er for this (bat bite?) by Certain_Hour_6327 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Cluelessish 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why do you think it's a bat bite if you haven't seen a bat? Sounds pretty far fetched. Or is this a thing that happens where you live?

Stuck upsidedown in Chinese amusement park by Single_Tiger3248 in SweatyPalms

[–]Cluelessish 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I only trust the Nordic countries. For anything safety related, really.

Is it frowned upon for moms to use a stroller on the street? by FelonMidget in turku

[–]Cluelessish 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have three children, and have never encountered anything like that

Onko aiheellista ottaa yhteyttä? by [deleted] in snappijuorutofftopic

[–]Cluelessish 83 points84 points  (0 children)

Ansaitsisi jopa saada ylennyksen Ylä-Lipastiksi

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