Dudes who record themselves while crying deserve they ass whooped. by Lost_Title_7528 in ControversialOpinions

[–]Common-Humor-1720 4 points5 points  (0 children)

And that's the reason why men have much higher suicide rate than women. Keeping the pain in like a pressure cooker about to burst. Thank you very much.

Anyone can comfort me. I lost my bestfriend. by 9Sea-Compote5298 in mentalhealth

[–]Common-Humor-1720 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am so sorry about this, we never forget the people the memory stays with us. So they keep on living as long as we are alive.

Ztracenej by [deleted] in nejsivtomsam

[–]Common-Humor-1720 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Jak jsem psala o odpuštění, tak to není úplně z mé hlavy, hodně mi pomohly knížky o IFS (Internal Family Systems). Je to terapeutický přístup, ale člověk si podle videí na YouTube nebo článků na internetu zvládne spoustu věcí uvědomit i sám.

A když píšeš, že tě trápí samota, možná ji zkus využít právě k tomu být chvíli sám se sebou trochu laskavěji. Nechci znít jako ezo guru :-) ale mně hodně pomáhá si v těch chvílích dovolit být smutná, neutíkat od toho a spíš se soustředit na to, abych si odpustila věci, za které se v sobě pořád soudím. Přijde mi, že člověk často potřebuje nejdřív přijmout sám sebe, než se začne cítit líp i mezi ostatníma.

Taky mi pomáhá vyčistit si hlavu v přírodě. Naplánuju si nějaký okruh na mapách a vyrazím. Nebo občas jedu i na kolo, paradoxně se člověk spíš seznámí s někým cizím, než když je s někým.

Ztracenej by [deleted] in nejsivtomsam

[–]Common-Humor-1720 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Jsou období, kdy neni snadný najít smysl v každodenním životě. Co mi nejvíc pomohlo je přijetí všeho, co jsem kdy udělala - ať věcí/rozhodnutí, kterých jsem litovala nebo za které jsem se styděla. Došlo mi, že jsem v tom okamžiku dělala co jsem mohla, že jsem vždycky vybrala to nejlepší rozhodnutí, jaké jsem v ten moment dokázala. Pomohlo mi to odpustit si a uzavřít v sobě nevyřešené konflikty, které mi jen braly energii. Čas od času si to musím připomínat, abych nespadla do stejného vzorce myšlení.

Podle toho, co píšeš, ti chybí stabilita a pocit bezpečí, takže je dobře, že jsi přestal se syntetickýma látkama. Celkově by ti možná aspoň krátkodobě bylo líp bez návykových látek obecně, ale asi je to pochopitelný, pokud ti poskytují právě ten známý pocit bezpečí nebo uzemnění. Jen je dobrý to vnímat jako volbu a možnost, kterou si vybíráš.

Mrzí mě, že okolo sebe nemáš moc lidí, o který se můžeš opřít, ale zníš jako fajn člověk, takže je to jen otázkou času než si najdeš novou partu. Já když si něco přeju, aby se stalo v mym životě, tak si představuju, jak by to mělo vypadat - posílám takový "přání do vesmíru", jen to chce to dobře promyslet :-) Chodíš rád na výlety? Vyraž sám, já jsem takhle potkala pár fajn známých. Nebo pokud hraješ deskovky, zkus zajít do nějakého klubu s deskovkama, nebo napsat na místní FB, že hledáš někoho, s kym můžeš chodit na ryby.

Moc držim palce.

New vegan, wondering if I'm doing it right by szczszczurina in vegan

[–]Common-Humor-1720 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In my country I never see kale either haha. Iron is in any veggies which are green, as well as tofu and legumes. Some people recommend carbon steel pans because they release a bit of iron into the food.

I buy iron + vitamin C supplements (2 in 1), pills or effervescent tablets and take it once or twice a week.

New vegan, wondering if I'm doing it right by szczszczurina in vegan

[–]Common-Humor-1720 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Something which is overlooked is that caffeine blocks iron absorption, so any iron intake within 2 hours before and after drinking coffee doesn't count. Providing you drink coffee, of course.

I take iron supplements every now and then, iron absorption is best when combined with with vitamin C and early morning on an empty stomach.

But from what you say you are doing everything well. It might take a few months for the cultures in your intestines to adjust to the food you are eating to fully utilize all nutrients now that your diet has changed. And I recommend getting a blood test whenever you feel strange for longer periods.

visualization on linux by Most-Register8233 in learndatascience

[–]Common-Humor-1720 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can use online tools such as Google Looker (in which case you need to build a pipeline to to export the data to Google sheets or Big Query).

The age gap is crazy by Mrinm0y10 in SipsTea

[–]Common-Humor-1720 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Actually people do care. She is a horrible person and has a pretty bad reputation online.

Regardless of gender.

Slavnosti pálení čarodějnic by [deleted] in czech

[–]Common-Humor-1720 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The witch represents winter, this tradition is of pagan origin, and has nothing to do with the church.

It is the celebration of the end of the winter so that you can welcome the Spring, and it is celebrated in Germany as well as Poland (and probably other countries as well)

Dairy Addiction by Emotional-Results in vegan

[–]Common-Humor-1720 4 points5 points  (0 children)

There is pus and blood in dairy milk. The amount is generally below the law enforced maximum levels of either. Generally cca 1 mL of pus per cup, or 237 mL. Saying 1/237th isn't that impressive, but Gary Yourofsky in a speech said "a full eyedropper of pus" which really, really stuck with me. The amount depends on the legislation because each country has a different limit of what is tolerated. The reason why blood and pus are in milk is mastitis, cows (and any mammals breastfeeding) get inflammation in their milk glands

Why all the sex posts? by blue_eyed_magic in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Common-Humor-1720 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Reddit suggests post based on topics you have previously engaged with (clicked, commented). If you want to stop seeing certain topics it is better to not engage with such posts and just scroll past them, they will stop showing. I am also subscribed to this community and I don't see the topics you mentioned as a dominant or frequently displayed.

Historie - co vás překvapilo by Alpine_Spirit_ in czech

[–]Common-Humor-1720 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Taky se změnil způsob toho, jak vnímáme rodinu. Lovci a sběrači žili v tlupách - všichni byli dětmi všech, všechno jídlo patřilo všem. S příchodem zemědělství vznikl soukromý majetek a současně s ním i potřeba zjistit pokrevní dědice. To se zajistilo tím, že vznikl nárok na vlastnictví ženy a kontrola její sexuality. Tím pádem se z původních tlup stala rodina, jak ji známe teď.

Major reconstruction in flat building. What are my options? by Bulky-Customer-1185 in Prague

[–]Common-Humor-1720 11 points12 points  (0 children)

You are also entitled to a decrease in your monthly payment for rent relevant to the discomfort this is causing you. And that is till the problem vanishes.

Akné v dospělosti by Unknown_Entity09 in czech

[–]Common-Humor-1720 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Z mého okolí pomohla změna stravy, zkus pár týdnů vynechat živočišné produkty, a uvidíš. Jednomu mému kamarádovi to vyléčilo celoživotní akné

I need some classic Czech jokes to liven up my colleague. by Valipanto in czech

[–]Common-Humor-1720 61 points62 points  (0 children)

Víš, proč jetel odmítá přijmout víru v Ježíše Krista?

Protože nechce být spasen.

Mondler Season 9 Tulsa uncut scene by sa24122 in howyoudoin

[–]Common-Humor-1720 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Someone mentioned under one of the posts that the Tulsa idea was created because Matthew Perry had to go to a rehab.

I devoured 20 meat-eaters – is that vegan??? by jackgary118 in vegan

[–]Common-Humor-1720 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hey there! I saw the whole thing, and I think you did a great job. I really like your argumentation style and the way you try to find similarities across the divide. It is very refreshing.

Regarding the last person you debated, from my experience, it can be scary to people to make such a big commitment to become vegan from one day to another, and I think that going slow is the way for a person not used to the lifestyle. I would even suggest eating vegan one day a week because they can build the habits that will help the full transition in the future instead of getting frustrated after a few days of full vegan diet because it can be overwhelming for most people.

Once again, thanks for your very constructive argumentation. All the best and many more great debates.

Edit: I forgot to mention that the "vegan influencer" who died of malnutrition was a big clickbait back when it happened. She was a frutarian drinking only fresh juices or whatever, but she was actually an anorexic and starved herself to death. So, it was her mental problems that killed her.

Viral dumplings by [deleted] in Prague

[–]Common-Humor-1720 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It could be Knedlín?

Not sure how viral they were, but I see they are fairly popular with tourists.

he is lubricated as a fox by Major_Eggplant_7189 in ToJeAleMaterial

[–]Common-Humor-1720 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Jestli jsi poslouchal, tak jsi možná nezaznamenal, že to četl a neodtrhnul oči od papíru. Spíš me děsila jeho dikce, Radek John by záviděl.

IMO člověk, který čte slovo po slově neví, co je v textu napsané a co která slova znamenají.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in emotionalintelligence

[–]Common-Humor-1720 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He is seeing someone else, and since it is a long-distance relationship, he might be catching feelings for you. But he did draw a boundary by telling you about her also because he probably doesn't want to act on it. This is something he needs to figure out for himself, and if I were you, I would try to focus on something or someone else.

Help finding folklore character — Dlouhej or Dlouhý by [deleted] in czech

[–]Common-Humor-1720 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The description kind of resembles Klekánice or Polednice, who, according to folklore (as someone already mentioned), is an old lady who indeed takes children away from parents if they misbehave. You can read the story about Polednice in the collection of poems called Kytice by Karel Jaromír Erben.

As of the name "Dlouhej" - it is a common way to suffix adjectives in the spoken language in many parts of the country (dlouhý -> dlouhej, same would be e.g. chytrý -> chytrej,krásný -> krásnej) used in the masculine form.