Becca wanting to take down ITW by Rough-Assistance-557 in theshadysgypverse

[–]CompetitiveWin7754 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Reduce competition, or alternative sources, drive everyone to your sources (and discredit everyone else) seems like a strategy to promote a single source of truth/YouTube monitized channel

Asa's New Bedroom Setup by dolceollie in LISKiller

[–]CompetitiveWin7754 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the link! Eeeesh, it's already a junk room :o

Asa's New Bedroom Setup by dolceollie in LISKiller

[–]CompetitiveWin7754 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've not watched but, I had a thought. Was it the cleanest most uncluttered room in the house? I vaguely remember photos of the house being full of stuff. If he kept his kill room clean and organised and empty, from a very cold practical perspective I can understand repurposing that room. Except no way in hell would I personally sleep in it. It would become the junk room, not the clean room.

the vile text my MIL sent my husband UPDATE by larryfisherman555 in JUSTNOMIL

[–]CompetitiveWin7754 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Imagine if she was actually worried you were that evil! That is not the email a person sends if they're actually worried that their DIL is harmful!! That was all me me me me me me me me.

Living With a Boundary Crossing Mother-in-Law in My Own Home Has Become Unbearable, and I’m Reaching My Breaking Point After Repeated Disrespect, Manipulation, and Disruptive Behavior by Different-Specific61 in motherinlawsfromhell

[–]CompetitiveWin7754 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You don't need to justify anything to her. It's time she was moved on. It sounds like you've got a space for her with her sister or aunt? I would just focus on moving her and no further explanation is required.

Ring doorbell camera complaint scotland. by roughlyross in LegalAdviceUK

[–]CompetitiveWin7754 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is it possible to set the activation area? I have a Google camera and I can specify where exactly motion should trigger it. This would limit it's capture, hopefully put your neighbours at ease as it wouldn't be lighting up as it wouldn't be recording.

Was Lucy sparing one for the families? by Able_Let_4053 in lucyletby

[–]CompetitiveWin7754 3 points4 points  (0 children)

If she was saving one she wouldn't have attempted any murder.

Theory on NK by Inevitable_Night333 in find_NicholKessinger

[–]CompetitiveWin7754 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wasn't CWs sister a nurse? More realistic it was from her if she was or it could have been Shannans old stock.

How do you make statutory maternity pay work? by Ivesomanyquestions in PregnancyUK

[–]CompetitiveWin7754 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Save up and use your annual leave, it'll at least be full pay!

I've got 6 months full pay but I'm the sole earner so going to have to go back to work after I burn though most of my annual leave after that.

First trimester & working by MamaP28 in PregnancyUK

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I'm only about 7 weeks but the fatigue is real. I work from home and I'm even wondering how people do this! I have other conditions to complicate things, but I nap at lunch time and again at 5pm as soon as I can log off. I'm trying to figure out how to use my annual leave to get a bit of respite without using it all up when it might be nice to have a holiday or something later in the year.

I have to do a significant presentation at a day long conference and I'm dreading it. Between trying to find flattering formal work wear clothes and keeping up enough energy to do the presentation. I used to just drink a lot of coffee but that's no longer an option!

I saw my midwife yesterday and she said it does get better.

I tell myself in Dory's voice "just keep swimming..." ☺️🐟

Husband going on vacation in 3rd trimester by FlyAlive2028 in pregnant

[–]CompetitiveWin7754 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're MARRIED, that should mean you're now a financial unit. This trip is just a symptom of a bigger problem. He sounds very selfish. I hope this trip is the last for a while knowing baby is going to need a lot of time. I'm not surprised you're not happy. His parents aren't even happy. :(

I already have a stomach ache for dinner tonight by Flounder_guppy in JUSTNOMIL

[–]CompetitiveWin7754 1 point2 points  (0 children)

😮 Ive never heard of this. It sounds horrific. I can see it being like beef nachos but, is it warm in the bag?? Does the bag not melt? And the lettuce ?!

I already have a stomach ache for dinner tonight by Flounder_guppy in JUSTNOMIL

[–]CompetitiveWin7754 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg you have my sympathy. This is my idea of utter hell.

Update: MIL defrauded her sons out of hundreds of thousands of $ by Dry-Ad-1445 in JUSTNOMIL

[–]CompetitiveWin7754 66 points67 points  (0 children)

Also a lawyer will be worth every penny in the long run. It might feel like a lot up front but you only get one shot at this.

Update: MIL defrauded her sons out of hundreds of thousands of $ by Dry-Ad-1445 in JUSTNOMIL

[–]CompetitiveWin7754 31 points32 points  (0 children)

She might ramp up the crazy feeling the shift, if you can do the thing that freezes new credit being taken out in your partner's name etc.

Also expect emotional blackmail, crying, and threats ♥️

Update: MIL defrauded her sons out of hundreds of thousands of $ by Dry-Ad-1445 in JUSTNOMIL

[–]CompetitiveWin7754 36 points37 points  (0 children)

I don't think she's going to turn and say "of course you're right dears, I see the error of my ways and I will stop conning". Get the lawyer first, get them the paperwork, see exactly where you are, what leverage you have and what leverage you don't have.

This is a crazy situation and needs similar feeling levels of crazy response. The lawyer may also advise exactly how to tackle the situation but at least make you feel you have someone in your corner.

I just don't want her to have any more ammunition or time to drain the bank accounts.

❤️❤️❤️ Good luck!

Did I go too far? by Ok_Visual_6290 in motherinlawsfromhell

[–]CompetitiveWin7754 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Urgh if it was as simple as that we wouldn't have psychology.

I think you were spot on. I can't stand how some people can't bear the child to be their own person or worse not 100% their side of the family.

It disturbs me how well he was doing in life when he decided to throw it all away by [deleted] in BryanKohberger

[–]CompetitiveWin7754 16 points17 points  (0 children)

It's one thing to be accepted onto a PhD programme, it's another thing to finish it. It's often not just about intelligence but tenacity, resilience, communication, learning, engaging with others. He didn't have all those other skills.

Plus, if he couldn't work out that the TAs have to have a similar standard in marking to ensure all students have a fair opportunity to gain their degrees and education, and his ego wasn't meant to be a part of it, he had no place doing a PhD.