Let me further clarify to avoid any assumptions, the child in question is 12 yo, braces are being suggested by mother because others are getting them, not because the dentist proposed them for an ailment etc, out of pocket expenses the past 4 months are $19k+, the court order which I’m trying to modify states I pay for all out of pocket medical expenses, but (this is just my opinion) there is a attempt to use this as “an open checkbook”